Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

my gf has an ex who is her brother friend so he is at her house alot, she sees him way more than she sees me. her brother has alot of friends who come to their house and im not tryna sound gay but a couple of them look alright, my gf is HOT and has a great personality, but i wonder sometimes if i should be concerned. her ex tries to hook up with her sometimes but she tells me she wouldnt go with him again so why did she get so upset when she found out he had a girlfriend? also she has a "bestfriend" that she talks to alot and i was looking on her phone and saw she had a picture of his body on there. she said he sent it and she didn't know why and i asked well why did you save it you could've deleted it. one more thing she used to talk to a boy but she said they don't talk anymore but his cousin was trying to find out why they stopped talking and if she wanted to talk to him again. she said to me she wouldnt but she's always bringing him up and he lives around the corner. should i worry

2007-01-11 05:58:39 · 23 answers · asked by IisIam 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 05:58:28 · 13 answers · asked by luvbugz87 3 in Weddings

does anybody have tips on how to meet a girl? what do girls look for in a guy? I have had no luck with this.

2007-01-11 05:58:23 · 1 answers · asked by Chris C 1 in Singles & Dating

Just asked if she sounds like she wants to get back together with me, and forgot to mention I want to get back together as well. I broke up with almost a full year ago because I was going through a life crisis involving drugs and a nervous breakdown. But we recently started hanging out again, and I'm pretty sure she wants to get back together at this point. We've both dated a lot of different people since we broke up, but have both been let down in those relationships. Any advice on how to go about this?

2007-01-11 05:57:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work with this guy and we hanged out a couple of times and he used to call me all the time. This week he has been sick and he has not called or talk to me that much at work. does that mean he is not into me anymore or he is just like this because he is sick.? It's been 5 days.

2007-01-11 05:57:18 · 8 answers · asked by Dianab 1 in Singles & Dating

Most of guys are just interested in sex, or "casual dating". I'm not looking for someone to get married right away...but I like to be respected and if it works, loved. As a Christian, I would like to wait until marriage to have sex...
So, with this in mind, how can I let my date be aware of that...without making it sound like I want to get married with him?
I just don't wanna lose my time going out with guys that are only looking for sex.

2007-01-11 05:57:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 05:57:13 · 5 answers · asked by just me 1 in Singles & Dating

No I am not having an affair but I have to be johnie on the spot when she wants it but I can't even put my arm around her waste with out getting the evil eye when she isn't in the mood.

2007-01-11 05:57:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there was this boy at my old school in russia who i think i upset. that was 4 years ago. a couple of days ago i texted him saying 'u probably dont want to hear from me but i want to apologise' then he said 'What?:)'
yesterday i texted him again, saying why are u ignoring me? (coz he did) and i apologised AGAIN. in return he said 'do u know what time it is? people r sleeping'
so today i was like,'did i wake u? soz, but u still didnt answer my question'(about ignoring) and he texted back saying, 'what do u want from me?'

i dont know what his reaction means (because he used to like me and then i moved to england and couldnt tell him - i think thats why he's pissed off). i just want some understanding in return, but he doesnt seem to understand it.

does his reaction means he wants to ignore me or is it that he's shielding himself????

what do i do?

2007-01-11 05:56:14 · 7 answers · asked by no-one listens... 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 05:55:20 · 38 answers · asked by kimmyak26 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I told a friend of many years that I liked her, but I wanted to remain friends. She seemed to have lied to me so many times, but she denies all of the lies that she had feelings for me. Last night, we decided to be friends, but she treats me differently than a friend sometimes. She has tried convincing me that I am like all her other close friends, but I do not know what she will try to pull. Why does she want to be friends like this?

2007-01-11 05:55:17 · 3 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Friends

i don't want him to love me anymore than he already does, so i dont know if i should wait, or just do it now

2007-01-11 05:55:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is kind of long, I'll try to keep it simple. I'm only 19 years old, but I'm LEGALLY married to the father of my son. I left him about a year ago because he always yelled at me, called me names, and generally made me feel really low about myself. He keeps having these moods where he wants me back and it's very awkward for me. I've tried before just flat out telling him it won't happen twice, and he gets really depressed and stuff, it's like he thinks every few months or so I've changed my mind. He called the other day and left a message on my voicemail about wanting to talk to me and it having nothing to do with Logan (our son) and I think he's going to say something about wanting me back. What should I tell him?

2007-01-11 05:55:14 · 16 answers · asked by Crystal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 05:54:22 · 34 answers · asked by dave_e_wood 4 in Singles & Dating

this guy i like, we dont go to the same school anymore for 2 years already...the only way i can see him is to ask him out but really i dont know what to do..................................

2007-01-11 05:53:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The man I love will be going on a "roadshow" begging at the end of January. . . He will be gone for nearly 2 months. . .

I want us to stay togehter through this. . .and I will be faithful to him. . .how do I tell him I will miss him, and I love him and only him nomatter what the distance between us is? How do I leave a lasting impression on him so even if he's tempted he'll turn away from temptation?

GUYS HELP ME OUT HERE ! ! !

What should I do??? This will damn near kill me unless I figure something out ! ! !

Fory

2007-01-11 05:53:34 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 05:53:27 · 8 answers · asked by SELVAN 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm attracted to my husband's brother and he's married as well!
I know he has interest in me. He always give me compliments even when I look bad... and I feel from his eyes that there's something between us.
Is it bad to feel that way or normal? what can I do if I had the chance to be with him alone?

2007-01-11 05:52:03 · 61 answers · asked by cosmicwoman 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We get a chance to use the school computers, do you use yahoo answers from school too ?

2007-01-11 05:51:37 · 16 answers · asked by Dave S 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 05:51:25 · 9 answers · asked by MacGyver 1 in Singles & Dating

How do i get over the pain, without leaving her. I don't know what else to do when all i feel is pain even after i thought i was healed enough to deal with things. Guess i was wrong. So any hints or tips on how to deal, all without leaving her, would be a great help.

2007-01-11 05:49:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Question Details: My close friend is in love with two guys. One that she has been with for a long time and another she met she feels she has a connection with. She is scared of losing her existing bf, but can not deny feelings for another. She asked me for advice and I only told her that's something she needs to figure it out on her own. I hate to see her like this and her confusion is preventing her from being productive. I want to stay out of it, but I hate seeing a close friend do this herself. She keeps asking me for advice, but I keep telling her that is something I can not be a part of. All I know is that she has been with both intimately and her bf is my friend. I want to tell him to move on so he won't get hurt, b/c he's trying so hard and already bought an engagement ring. Any advice?

2007-01-11 05:49:33 · 8 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

My close friend is in love with two guys. One that she has been with for a long time and another she met she feels she has a connection with. She is scared of losing her existing bf, but can not deny feelings for another. She asked me for advice and I only told her that's something she needs to figure it out on her own. I hate to see her like this and her confusion is preventing her from being productive. I want to stay out of it, but I hate seeing a close friend do this herself. She keeps asking me for advice, but I keep telling her that is something I can not be a part of. All I know is that she has been with both intimately and her bf is my friend. I want to tell him to move on so he won't get hurt, b/c he's trying so hard and already bought an engagement ring. Any advice?

2007-01-11 05:49:03 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Groom's eyes appear sad in all photos...only smiles with lips, never shows teeth, when he's walking with bride, he's holding her hand and has other hand on his chest, in most of the candid shots he is not smiling.

2007-01-11 05:48:40 · 3 answers · asked by Rachel 7 in Weddings

he already nows i dont want to move where he's at because im physically tired of moving......if he really wants it to work wouldnt he cosider moving to my city

2007-01-11 05:48:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I took my boyfriend to his recruiting office yesterday, so he could leave for boot camp for the Army. I have been fortunate enough to have him with me almost 24/7 for the past few months because of problems with his family. I have been able to have my best friend with me at all times, and i am missing him like crazy. I dont know how to handle my emotions about his leaving. I wont see him for at least 9 weeks..maybe even 18 weeks. I dont know how to handle not being able to talk to him. He is my hero, and i love him with all my heart. Does anyone have any advice? ANY is helpful.

2007-01-11 05:47:40 · 8 answers · asked by AliceA. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 05:47:21 · 4 answers · asked by the man 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When my husband gets mad he starts to SCREAM at me or the kids. He's already called the kids "little a**holes", which really hurt my 8 yo daughters feelings, and has called me other names that I will not repeat. He's been going to counseling for anger management. I don't want to get divorced, I am proud of him that he recognizes the problem, but he doesn't seem to practice what he is learning in counceling. I leave him alone now when he goes on his rampage, but that doesn't mean that what he says doesn't affect me. Sometimes I do feel worthless. I've told him that his words hurt and all he says to me is..."I don't get you. How do words hurt that much?". Then he tells me he's "working on it". It's not just me that I 'm concerned about. I'm worried about my kids. I am a strong woman and can stand on my own two feet, but I made a commitment to love in good/bad times. How do I stop letting his words hurt me?

2007-01-11 05:47:04 · 18 answers · asked by water.bratz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a boyfriend...and of course..and ex....well my boyfriend says im not allowed talking to my ex...and he has a reason because my ex tried to call me all the time and stuff so my boyfriend doesnt want me talking to my ex because hes afraid of losing me right? well my boyfriend says he dont trust me and he doubts me...and it hurts my feelings...and im not allowed emailing or talking to my ex at all...not friends or anything ...but i want to atleast still talk to him just as friends....sould i mail him anyways?? i just dont think its right that my boyfriend says wat i can and cant do....should i email my ex anyways?

2007-01-11 05:46:33 · 10 answers · asked by ~Ohio State~ 2 in Singles & Dating

what sounds fun to do for someones 20th b-day...

me and a couple of my other buddies want to do something real fun because he is leaving for the marines in less than 2 months

2007-01-11 05:46:08 · 10 answers · asked by krazykarl0309 2 in Friends