Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

i dont, want my grandaughter liveing here anymore i have had enough of her, i feel bad about this but i cannot stand all the problems and i have no one. the police brought her back today cos she stayed out overnight, i asked why and she said she had no credit on hter phone, she should of come back early. she is nine and was with some girl 14 who comes from from a rough family, this girl she was with said to my son one day your sister is a tramp. and this is the type of person she mixes with, she is murder and shouting all the time, banging things and i want the socail to take her away. i am worn out from it all she has been exclued from school

2007-01-11 05:23:42 · 37 answers · asked by battista 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm at school doing nothing testing this week and board anything fun??

2007-01-11 05:23:10 · 13 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

have you ever find yourself unable to start loving someone else after you breakup from a relationship ? at least for a while ...I meant, you might loved your partner so much, that you are unable to see other people as great as her, for a while ..does it has to be that way ? and isn't better for someone to take some months of pause and be single for a little while, after they freshly get out traumatised from a relationship ?

2007-01-11 05:22:44 · 10 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

Pretending not to like a guy but you're really like him inside? To all the girls out there have you every done something like this to a guy and you know the guy is single and if so why did you do it. and did you ever get over it and follow you feelings.

2007-01-11 05:22:41 · 5 answers · asked by B to the E 1 in Singles & Dating

is it a prevertion? or how can i drag her to this subject?

2007-01-11 05:22:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do you need a legal document? A religion? I would like my children to have one but not really sure what to do now

2007-01-11 05:21:41 · 9 answers · asked by lilmonkeymia2 1 in Family

2007-01-11 05:21:07 · 54 answers · asked by sowhat 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 05:20:57 · 15 answers · asked by jeremy k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok im gonna be sending out Save the date magnets by like next week or so. My guest list is already over and im sure theres quite a few people wont come becasue they live out of state. Soooo i ws thinking in the envelope i would put in a little note saying somehting along the lines of "if you already know you wont be able to make it please call us asap due to limited number of guests were able to invite and more wanted to invite." Do you think that is rude to do or no? If not, can you help me with some appropriate wording for this?!?!? PLeasseeeee! Thanks

2007-01-11 05:20:10 · 12 answers · asked by Ambersgettingmarried 1 in Weddings

2007-01-11 05:19:34 · 20 answers · asked by loves2flirt 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a cousin who is a female. She is 8 years elder to me and married with kids. I am also married. Her husband is arrogant man as well as a drunkard. she is over 40 but still beautiful. I loved her secretly in our younger days but I did not disclose the same. But now she has come closer to me . She hinted her sexual starvation once or twice. Her husband suddenly got an outside assignment. One day I went to her house when she was alone. I forcefully had sex with her. She hesitated initially but when I caught hold of her she finally yielded. It was a wonderful experience for both of us. But from that point we never had it again....

2007-01-11 05:19:16 · 32 answers · asked by rk 1 in Singles & Dating

realise though our talks and conversations that the real problem is deeper. although he swares there is noone else in his life, i think he does not have feelings for me anymore. i asked him several times "how do you feel", "are you still in love with me", but he just remains silent. Silence is all i get as an answer. i think he cannot say a straight no, because the sad truth scares him as well. consequences on our lives are desastrous, we have two kids and i am 18 weeks pregnant. he knows i cannot live without love, i cannot be in a house just to cook and clean and feed everyone, i need love. i know he does not want to lose his children, but i cannot stay with a man who does not love me, and i also do not want to lose my family. It hurts like hell to only have a long silence to the question "do you still love me?"... have been in total despair for a week, crying at night and hardly eating. thinking of my baby, my life without him, or my life without love. what to do?

2007-01-11 05:18:56 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Marriage & Divorce

IF you were getting a divource,would you willingly give your ex full custody of the kids? I just cant understand why a woman(that has no addictions,severe mental issues,ect) would do this? Not dismissing men that do,its just that a woman carries the baby inside her,gives birth to the baby,so youd THINK she'd be unable to just hand them over.By the same token,I cant understand women who refuse their exes access to the children (assuming the man isnt abusive). My marriage is stable but IF we ever divourced I would be so angry if he didnt spend a little time every day with his. The divource is with the spouse,not the children. Have any input on this?

2007-01-11 05:18:38 · 25 answers · asked by TrofyWife 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i have long light brown hair, hazel eyes, pouty lips and a pretty good body. im 5'9 with a nice tan, straight white teeth and a really nice smile (so im told). I play basketball and volleyball for my college and I am really into sports. I notice alot of guys checking me out and looking at me to see what im doing or how i react to things. It looks like they want to talk to me but they never do. Do I look snobby? do they think im going to be mean? What the hell?

2007-01-11 05:18:02 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki C 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 05:17:36 · 15 answers · asked by tasha1b4u2b_beth 1 in Singles & Dating

My current GF of around 2 months has had a long lasting relationship before dating me. When we walk, she often says things like: "Me and him made out there, me and him went there to eat, ..." and so on. I know she's not interested in him anymore, that's for sure but it bothers me beyond words that she reminds me of him. Everytime she does, I stop whatever I'm doing and sigh.

Sometimes, we'll just be kissing or in bed and I wonder if he did the same thing as me, if she said the same things, if she's acting the same way, ... and then I'll stop that too.

What can I do to forget him?

2007-01-11 05:16:25 · 10 answers · asked by Andre 1 in Singles & Dating

my 16 year old sister is sleeping with a 38 year old and lying to my parents about it but they know and are going to the cops about it but she still tries to see him and go against my parents and sneaking around my parents are doing everything that they can to keep them away from each other but its not working so they are doing what they can to put him in jail. she wont listen to anybody when we try to expain to her that he is just using her but she says that he loves her and wants to be with her i try to tell her that she is just getting used but she wont listen to me or anybody for that matter what do i do to get through to her????

2007-01-11 05:15:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

so i have a bf but want my old bf back i still really like him and he told me he d like 2 get back with me 2 but the only problem is he has a girlfriend!so can u help me with any ways of making him want me now and dumping her?thanks 4 suggestions xoxoxo

2007-01-11 05:14:57 · 23 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

When I say he is a little physical I mean... He has pushed me into walls, restrains me, forces me into a room or out of, takes things from me (ie cell and keys) and grabs me with unnecessary force. He has only tried to hit me once, but he said he was sleepwalking. When he is angry, he calls me names, says he hates me and such. Recently I discussed this with him and he says I make him do it. I told him he needed to get help for his anger and he told me I needed to not him. He says this because I fight him back if and when I can, he is stronger than I. Everyone he has met knows he has an anger issue, and I told him that too. He insists I need help with it too because I'm "to strong for him". What he means is he pushes me in a corner and I dont submit, I fight back until I can't. Who needs help with anger. My opinion, if he'd stop putting me into the situation I'd stop being fighting back and be the submissive wife God says I should be. Blantly, be my husband and I'll be your wife.

2007-01-11 05:14:42 · 43 answers · asked by chaa107 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he needs to change..i'm tired of always doing what he wants and never having my way...i want him to appriciated me more..i know he loves me and he says he's going to change but he never does...

2007-01-11 05:14:06 · 21 answers · asked by bouche 1 in Singles & Dating

Then those in other categories (i.e. I am not interested in what 15 year olds think)

Do you like chest hair on a man? I got mine waxed off and my wife doesn't seem to care. Maybe it's because I have only a weak tan. Do I need the tan to not look like some teenager?

By the way I am not scrawny I am fairly muscular...not quite a six pack but fairly flat stomach.

Should I let the hair grow back or get a tan and keep on a' waxin?

2007-01-11 05:13:17 · 24 answers · asked by fucose_man 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, this is my deal i need to have some really good S*X but i want it to be special at the same time? I am not one of those girls that just screws someone without knowing them, but i am in desparte need here. I don't want to be considered a slut or anything, but i can't make a relationship work lately. So how do i make a decision between being a little naughty bad girl or a sweet little innocent one!? Please help me decide.

2007-01-11 05:13:06 · 12 answers · asked by Hannah Lynn 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to my ex a little off and on lately since me and my recent gilrfriend broke up........ we wanna get back together and she me too and my only concern is that she is somewhat seeing another girl you know like a lesbian??... but it has been almost 3 years since we broke up but I told her I was willing to look past the fact about her and her little lesbian deal and still give us another shot because that is how I feel in my heart any suggestions or ideas help!

2007-01-11 05:12:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 27 and went out on an amazing first date with a 23 year old woman last night. We met for dinner at 6, then went out for drinks and then went to her place to talk and I didn't get home until about 1 am. She's fantastic and when I left she gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I want to ask her out on another date, but how long should I wait to call her? She's having a friend coming in from out of town tonight that won't be leaving until Saturday and I don't want to disturb her while she has company. I was thinking of calling her today and asking her to lunch on Sunday or Monday. Any thoughts?

2007-01-11 05:12:19 · 22 answers · asked by MichiganFan 1 in Singles & Dating

It's been 2month's since this has happened. It had been a serious 3 year old relationship. But now I like this guy from the choir & he knows my past. i know his too & it had been a serious relationship for him too. We both want to get into a serious relationship but would like to wait for a year. He knows my brother well. The problem here is that he used to sms & come online quite often. he showed through his actions that he liked me. I too had started fooling & flirting with him too. But off-late he has stopped doing these things & avoids me. it hurts coz I really like him a lot. Why doesn't he sms or call or come online on his own. Why does he wait for for me to do that.

2007-01-11 05:12:13 · 1 answers · asked by Meagan 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 and am very shy. The only reason I was able to go out with her is because she thought i was cute, and gave me her #. I have family (Siblings + some cousins) that are like my friends, but outside of my family I don't really have any real friends (just people I talk to at school and stuff). Should I be up front and tell her this? I heard that girls don't like it when guys are without friends. I don't want her to ask one day to meet my friends, and I'll have to say I don't have any.

2007-01-11 05:12:03 · 9 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 05:11:57 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ Can you help me? 3 in Friends

What general traits of a man are appealing to a woman ?

2007-01-11 05:11:30 · 14 answers · asked by jhasa 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, my dad's friend is here. he's outside and my dad is in his office building. the guys name is james and he's black. he came in for a minute to use the restroom and he said hi to me. I said hi back and glanced at him then looked back at the computer. all of a sudden, he came up behind me and kissed me on the cheek like me dad does sometimes. I don't even know this guy! I've only seen him a couple of times so I was really surprized. I didn't say anything and then he left. what wuld you do?

2007-01-11 05:11:24 · 9 answers · asked by Jodie S 1 in Friends

I'm a 27 year old guy. I hate kids and I've never had a girlfriend. I go to a psychologist once a week but I don't know if it helps. I don't know if I ever find a girlfriend who doesn't like children either and wouldn't like to have them. I knew that my hatred towards kids may turn into sth much worse one day and I wouldn't like it to happen! What can I do? :-(

2007-01-11 05:11:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships