Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

there is this girl a.k.a hoe, that has been stalking my boyfriend and im tring to be nice but she is pushing me to the limit.she pops up at his home,job,church,every where! she even followed him to my house one day! she wont get a life.should i just beat sum sense in her or what????

2007-01-11 04:56:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 04:55:46 · 15 answers · asked by pradyumna 1 in Friends

i was talking to a lady all night at a club, and she asked to come home with me, i slept with her and after we'd finished she asked for money.. what would u have done/?

2007-01-11 04:54:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would they, Now Im asking the guys. If you could go naked

with out getting arrested would you? At the beach and pool yes. any place else no, maybe

2007-01-11 04:53:55 · 5 answers · asked by lets talk 1 in Singles & Dating

Never kissed, not one girlfriend, 1 bad date, 3 stood up dates, socially inadequate, not fat, skinny, nor muscular, don't smoke, employed, average male height between 5' to 6', good hygine, dislike rap, pop, opera music, attracted to women under 140 lbs that don't smoke or do drugs, non-religious, employed, non-greedy, non-racist, non-neak freak, good hygine, not afraid what others think about her when with me, open minded, not bossy, speaks English well, and not involved in sex trade, so much more....

2007-01-11 04:52:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

conniption fit if they so much as ask her to clean her room. she hangs out with unsavory types and stays out late and lies she's oly 15 and i don't know how to help can anyone help me?

2007-01-11 04:52:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-11 04:52:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He passes out from drunkness almost every day. He doesn't hurt us physically but I don't like to leave him alone with the kids because he might drink to much and pass out. When he is not drinking he is wonderfull but he is more than not. I'm a Christian so I don't think I can leave him what do you think?

2007-01-11 04:52:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 04:51:52 · 39 answers · asked by iyesha24 2 in Weddings

Do you think, or in your case, that if a man was in love with the women he got pregnant, that he would want her to have an abortion? Keep in mind that the person I speak of (my boyfriend) has 2 children already. (of course so do I) not his. He knows how I feel about abortion, we discussed it a few months ago before I eneded up pregnant. He knows I would not be able to live with myself and probably be totally crazy after. And he also knows that I lost a baby boy @ 15 weeks of pregnancy 5 years ago. And this time I was on the pill and due to some female conditions I was told I may not even be able to get pregnant, yet I did. Almost like "someone" made that decision for us, ya know? I sometimes feel like he just doesnt love me and never had any intentions of loving me.

2007-01-11 04:51:33 · 16 answers · asked by ladyjno7 4 in Singles & Dating

My mother lives with me and has been for a couple of months now. I am planning on moving near my BF soon, we are in a long distance relationship and want to be closer. My mom is going to come with me and stay with me. When I was speaking to my BF the other day about the move he said he would like if we move in together but he does not know about living with myself, my child and my mother. My mom is able to work (which she does)am not , but I kinda understand that he would like to have our own space. What should I do. I dont want to kick my mom out, but I do eventually want to live with my BF and start our life.

2007-01-11 04:51:31 · 8 answers · asked by ny_girl11229 1 in Singles & Dating

I never really noticed it was happening until my ex started to tell me that my Grandma hates me. I used to be close to her before my divorce even though I thought she was a snob sometimes. I didn't know they had been talking and she was supporting him through our divorce (because I left him for domestic violence reasons). Also he was cheating on me with men and hitting me in front of the kids so I left but never told anyone why for the kids sake. (Who wants their kids to know their dad is bi-sexual?) When I got upset with my Grandma and finally told her why I left him she didn't believe me that he was gay and abusive so I called her a ***** and hung up. Am I wrong to be mad at her? Why should she see the kids with him when I have custody????

2007-01-11 04:51:27 · 7 answers · asked by Tink 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 04:51:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I enjoy watching pon together sometimes, but it seems to me that it is always oriented towards the male audience. I still enjoy watching it with him but I would like to try something that is more female oriented.

2007-01-11 04:51:08 · 14 answers · asked by Gio 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it really possible to get over shyness? Has anyone done anything that works? I'm over 40yrs old not bad looking most of my girlfriends have been 10-15 years younger but they've always been the one's that aproch me , how can I get the nerve to approch a women that I find attractive.

2007-01-11 04:47:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anthony R 1 in Singles & Dating

She will go along with answers from this site. Your opinions?

2007-01-11 04:47:51 · 6 answers · asked by bigjohn B 7 in Singles & Dating

ok, the details are that my husband and I loaned my dad some money about 2 months ago, he has gotten paid 4 times since we loaned the money to him. I have asked for it a couple of times but then just left it alone. I emailed my father the other day to vent a few things out that I have realized about him and I just wanted him to know I know all the B.S. he has done and still does to me and that as an adult I can see it..Mostly just venting my problems. He is now saying he wishes he never had kids and that now that I'm an adult I dont need him for anything, which isn't what I was telling him. Now he wants nothing to do with me or my husband (which works with him), threaten that my husband needs to watch out at work because he doesn't know how it will work out him working with my husband.
I have never had a relationship with my father until I was 11. He is gay ( I dont approve) and he has lied t me since i can remember. But I need to know what to do from here? Let it go or fight?

2007-01-11 04:47:46 · 4 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Family

ok I need some help. Me and my boyfriend was sitting down talking last night watching a movie, We started asking eachother questions about personal lives so we can know more about eachother, Then finally I poped the Question if " He has ever cheated before in the past " well he came straight out and said that, in the past he has cheated for another girl. but around 2 years ago, his pay-back finally came for him. He stated that he whish'es he never did it, and that he learned his lesson from it ( Which he got cheated on). He said that he didn't realize that it hurt so bad, and he would never hurt me or anyone in the future. I got upset about it because you know how girls are when they hear that stuff. But I mean i guess i have to get over it. I have to have some trust in him. I just want to know what you guys think that me beeing upset and getting over it, and him comming out and telling the truth was the right thing. I know its good he didn't lie, so just let me know what you guys thin

2007-01-11 04:46:28 · 10 answers · asked by SHORTY38 2 in Singles & Dating

Tuesday night we had to call the police because he was messed up and I told him to get help or leave. He was going to leave messed up and take his 3 kids that we have with him. The mother left months ago to live her carefree life. The kids were screaming and begging for us not to let him take them with him. I had to give up so he wouldn't take them. Yesterday he overdosed and we gave all the info to the police/medics. They called at 06:30 this am saying they were releasing him. Childrens serv has been involved since day 1. He now has threatned me and my b/f because his drugs are out of my house and he is not allowed back to see the kids till we go to court. I love my bro but he is going to end up killing himself or one of the kids. I don't want to see him go to jail but I have to protect the kids. Addicts will do anything-I know firsthand and I fear the worst. I'm scared he is goin to show up/4 the kids and his drugs which we don't hve anymore. Need some kind word/adv-plz!!

2007-01-11 04:45:30 · 14 answers · asked by TJ 2 in Family

I meet girls and date them and then all the suden I completely lost interest.
I have never had any squishy feelings for anyone.
Sometimes I feel like I need a GF, at other times I don't really feel like I need one.
I dont' have the need to have someone constantly be around me,
but I would like to have a GF. Its like I want a GF just to know that I have someone there when I need personal female company. And I'm not talking about bedroom company here.

Is this normal or is there something wrong with me

2007-01-11 04:45:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People see me as more of a shy person. I don't have much to say. I feel like I have nothing to talk about with people so I feel a bit awkward. I am happy in my life, I just don't live an exciting life, so I don't have much to share. Any advice on how to open up more, or how to connect more with people?

My b/f is one of the few people who "gets" me. We chat, and he makes me laugh all the time. Not sure how to get a similar relationship with co-workers and new people I meet.

2007-01-11 04:45:14 · 5 answers · asked by hello 6 in Friends

I have a boyfriend and we have been together for about 5 months and he went out into our local town to meet another girl rather than spending time with me! his reason is that she needed to talk to him about things...

Is this just me being insecure??

2007-01-11 04:45:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

While talking to my ex's sister today, I found myself telling her that we should get together. To which she tenatively agreed. Is this proper? I feel my frame of reference may be a little skewed in this area because my own father dated my aunt before marrying my mom. Any thoughts?

2007-01-11 04:44:57 · 17 answers · asked by brokedick13 2 in Singles & Dating

A serious sex question...?
My gf weighs like 160 some. we have sex but i have to admit she's a bit heavy and its kinda hard to make her orgasme cause i cant move much and i feel she is deep!Can her being a little overweight cause her to not "feel" me much inside of her? I mean, might her having a fat "PSY" make it harder for me to penetrate?or am i just small?? Serious answers please.

2007-01-11 04:44:53 · 14 answers · asked by Esteban S 1 in Singles & Dating

She's not ready to quite but I'm ready for her to quit.

2007-01-11 04:44:34 · 9 answers · asked by adam11173 2 in Family

I tired to have sex the other day but it hurt so bad i couldnt do it could i get pregnant if my partner had a condom on entered my vagina but didnt get to the point where i would bleed since it would be my first time trying ??

2007-01-11 04:44:22 · 9 answers · asked by JoJo 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf weighs like 160 some. we have sex but i have to admit she's a bit heavy and its kinda hard to make her orgasme cause i cant move much and i feel she is deep!Can her being a little overweight cause her to not "feel" me much inside of her? I mean, might her having a fat "PSY" make it harder for me to penetrate?or am i just small?? Serious answers please.

2007-01-11 04:44:19 · 27 answers · asked by Esteban S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so me and this guy have a 7 year history together...we have dated, but we were also best friends. We would break up, date other people, get back together....but we always stayed friends through everything. What we had was so special...we loved each other, we could read each others minds...there was just that feeling between us you know? Like everything was perfect when we were together. We always sais that we would always be there for each other, no matter what. The last time we hung out, we had sex....and then we got into a really big fight, I tried to work things out that day, but he was drinking and being unreasonable. Well he ended up pushing me into the counter and I had a huge bruise on my stomach. Nothing like this has ever happened before...so I know he wasnt really tryin to hurt me. So I left, and I was so mad and hurt that he let me leave instead of working **** out that I sent him a letter saying to never call me or talk to me ever again. Now I miss him, what do I do???

2007-01-11 04:44:07 · 23 answers · asked by spoiledrottenchica1987 3 in Singles & Dating

I visited him and i have to say i fond of him for a long time, but he just offered a cup of tea. but he seems disapointed with why i don't stay , thing was he didn't invite me stay before hand.

2007-01-11 04:43:56 · 6 answers · asked by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 in Singles & Dating

Last night I told my husband I wish he should me some more affection. He never hugs, kiss, say "I Love You," or speak to me when he leaving the house or come home from work. He told me if he did does things that would make soft and wimpy. He told me he not going to do those things because that's not him.

2007-01-11 04:43:50 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce