I have a boyfriend and we have been together for about 5 months and he went out into our local town to meet another girl rather than spending time with me! his reason is that she needed to talk to him about things...
Is this just me being insecure??
2007-01-11 04:45:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who is the girl?? I wouldn't like him choosing some other girl over me, but u know him.... do you think he would do anything to betray your trust. It could just be that one of his female friends is having a hard time wiht something and needs to talk to him. Wait and see how he acts around u/ treats u after this meeting. If he gets distant or shifty, I'd confront him about your concerns.
2007-01-11 04:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was just innocent then, he would have been able to take you with him. You have every right to feel the way you are feeling. It's never good to let your boyfriend go talk to another girl without you being there because, they have no self control when it comes to being around the opposite sex alone. No, this is just your intuition telling you that something is wrong.
2007-01-11 04:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by grizzly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no hold on him there is no contract between you. Your relationship is nothing serious ,you are not planning to get married. He can do what he wants until your committed to each other. Be insecure if he did this during your marriage not from a mere 5 month relationship.
2007-01-11 04:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and move on . Yeah I'll bet she needed to talk to him about things . that was a booty call girl ,get with the program and tell him to get lost . Boy there really are some losers out there and I am so glad that I dont come in contact with very many of them.
2007-01-11 05:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if theyve been friends for a while then all u can do is trust and sit back. if it becomes a frequent thing (2-3 times a week) then u might need to be concerned
2007-01-11 04:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are being insecure...it could have been an old frined who used to talk to him for support,,,you heard the words "girl" and jumped to conclusions...stop!!! trust him until you find a real reason not too!
2007-01-11 04:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Ask him what things does he need to discuss with another woman. That sounds shady to me. Talk to him, tell him how you feel. He owes you respect and you are not being insecure.
2007-01-11 04:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by candiec2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want the relationship to work, you need to trust him. But that doesn't mean you need to be stupid about it. Keep your eyes open to the situation. Pay attention to what he does, and if he starts acting weird, or things don't add up, confront him.
2007-01-11 04:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by koepnick012787 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has he ever given you any reason not to trust him???
If you can't trust him you need to leave him, a realtionship without trust is not worth being in at all
2007-01-11 04:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by barb 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you can never be too sure. you might just go ahead and ask him if something else is happening. or you could ask to come along with him or talk to the girl yourself just to say how much you care about him. if he doesn't talk to you about it or tries to avoid the subject, something is probably up.
2007-01-11 04:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jodie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋