Is it really possible to get over shyness? Has anyone done anything that works? I'm over 40yrs old not bad looking most of my girlfriends have been 10-15 years younger but they've always been the one's that aproch me , how can I get the nerve to approch a women that I find attractive.
2007-01-11 04:47:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anthony R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've had the same problem my whole life, ive had plenty of girlfriends because they always make the first move. Your problem will probably never just go away especially if your 40. But there are things you can do to help the problem. I've recently been diagnosed with social anxiety. One thing that has always helped me is an anti-anxiety drug like Xanax or Klonopin. I take it before i go out and it seems to helps give me tconfidence and loosens me up letting my true personality comeout. Try going to a counselor, they can teach you different exercises to help you relax. Also make sure when approaching females have a good convo in mind so your more comfortable.
2007-01-11 05:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by ballsonwalls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i'm only 18 but i have the same problem. but i do have a solution. BE A MAN! Get over your shyness Nancy! That's the only way to cure it is to just do it...you know...like nike. Works for me, should work for everybody.
2007-01-11 04:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by packerswes4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Consider getting a therapist
2) Find activities and/or hobbies that put you at ease and in a good, calm state of mind.
3) Start meditating and learn to control your breathing
If none of the above work............consider ending it all.
2007-01-11 05:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by Gabriel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg what r u waiting for just be open with them as in flirt with them if you dont worry abotu anythign else at that point u might not even b shy ur just not confedent with urself so call some girl and tlak to her about anything then you'll get used to it
2007-01-11 04:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by AngelWithHorns: ] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was so shy most of my life, the trick is dont take anything so serious. if you see someone ur interested in just smile and say hello. ask about the weather, or make a joke. be friendly. it work for me
2007-01-11 04:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by sexiblakass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was really shy when I was little but then I grew out of it. Maybe you should surround yourself more often with female friends. The more you surround yourself with them and interact with them, the less shy you'll become.
2007-01-11 04:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by candiec2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have the same problem... the best thing i figured out was to just calm down and just be yourself... you have to let go of the feeling that everyone is looking at you and your gonna say something stupid.... just go out there and be yourself!
2007-01-11 04:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Social Reprogramming Method : http://SocialAnxiety.uzaev.com/?jZdd
2016-06-22 00:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and let it happen. Don't be afraid of rejection. Once you do approach someone, it will get easier. But just be yourself and smile :)
2007-01-11 04:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then start to think about your good stuff and think if they turn me down its there problem not mine.
2007-01-11 04:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by cm_crazy13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋