conniption fit if they so much as ask her to clean her room. she hangs out with unsavory types and stays out late and lies she's oly 15 and i don't know how to help can anyone help me?
2007-01-11 04:52:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe they need to stop doing so much for her and start taking away privileges until she starts obeying the rules. Throwing tantrums is inappropriate at any age and especially in a 15 year old. There is nothing you can do to change her behavior. She needs an attitude adjustment, and it is up to your parents to deal with her.
2007-01-11 05:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by Country girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It almost seems like every young females around 13 to 15 regardless what year it is, goes through changes in their body and mind that results in rebellious behavior due to independence thoughts or wanting to be like an adult when really they are not and feel trapped by what they seem to see their freedom of independence is control by parents. Sometimes when there is unsavory type of people around who are influencing kids or are seen as cool people may be involved in crime or drugs or both. Remember apearence of a person may be decieving, they may look like you or your parents which may not look anything like an unsavory type of person can be a bad person to be with. I recommend watch her body language, behavior, and check for signs of drugs abuse, and possibly mental heath problems too. Psychologist or therapist might be a good start to find out what is bothering her and the problem might be able to be resolved. Good luck.
2007-01-11 13:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a part of growning up. You can't really restrict her friends or she'll rebel worse. What if everybody ignored her behavior. I hated beingleft out when I was younger. Sounds like they all need to have a talk to figure out what she wants. Youn don't act like that for no reason. Try to talk with her as a group adn find out why she is acting like that and what she hopes to get in return. Without getting upset. Free speaking. Otherwise she'll never open up honestly again.
2007-01-11 13:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by monkeysgirl04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think if you can just sit down with your parents and talk to them about it. Then you all need to sit down with your sister and tell her exactly how you feel. Tell your parents to stand up to her and not to let her walk all over them. They are the parents they need to take control, maybe they need to take away her freedom for awhile. If she has something she really loves take it away. Keep it away for like 2 weeks, even if she straightens up that way she knows you are serious. When you give it back if she starts up again then take it aways permantly or for a longer time. If none of this works then maybe anger management or counseling. My sister is 14 and the same way we take away her cell phone, because that is her life and then we won't let her go anywhere for awhile it usually works for awhile. I hope that helps.
2007-01-11 13:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by krystaldarnell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while I admire you thinking, there is not a thing you can do about your sister, it is your parents problem. and they need to get her in to counselling, and even that will not work unless she is willing. and from your observations it doesn't sound like it.As for you please take care of your self This has to be a stressful time and no doubt you are left in the dust by your sisters behaviour, Yes it is getting her a lot of attention, but you do not have to be the one to give it to her, try to do as little to and for her as possible until she comes to her senses, and good luck
2007-01-11 13:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's asking for boundaries and they need the you-know-what to give them to her.
Tell them it's their problem for creating a monster, and they need a Supernanny therapist to help work it out.
Now, you don't have to say those words, because you're still a dependent who needs to respect them.
So if you want to print this, please do. No sense getting yourself worked up over how you yourself are going to say it and then ending up doing nothing but suffering, all four (or more?) of you.
2007-01-11 12:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she needs rehab! Drugs and boozeare more than likly the reason.
2007-01-11 12:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she needs a kick in the butt. She needs to learn how to respect her parents.
2007-01-11 12:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are responsible for kid, they let her do what ever she wants so she is going to do whatever she wants since no one cares enough to stop her. tell your parents to get some balls if they really do care about her.
2007-01-11 12:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first if u r willing to do this, do it!
you either yell at her and hit her so bad or dicipline that she's afraid, or just take her to therapy
2007-01-11 12:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋