My mother lives with me and has been for a couple of months now. I am planning on moving near my BF soon, we are in a long distance relationship and want to be closer. My mom is going to come with me and stay with me. When I was speaking to my BF the other day about the move he said he would like if we move in together but he does not know about living with myself, my child and my mother. My mom is able to work (which she does)am not , but I kinda understand that he would like to have our own space. What should I do. I dont want to kick my mom out, but I do eventually want to live with my BF and start our life.
2007-01-11 04:51:31 · 8 answers · asked by ny_girl11229 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the person who said does my mommy pay for everything. No.. I have a good job, I support my child and i am helping my mom out of a tough situation.
2007-01-11 04:57:53 · update #1
Talk to your mom and tell her what's going on and how you feel and what you want to do. I'm sure she'll understand. I would give her at least a month to find a place, and get settled in. Good luck and God bless!
2007-01-11 04:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I can help seeing I have never been in such as situation. I personally don't believe someone like that is for you if he cannot accept your child let alone your mom. I personally do not even agree with people living together before they are married. I donot know what you set your standards on, but having your mom and child with you, if you feel moving in with him is the only option, will give you a barrier of sorts to not do anything you might regret later down the road. Just my opinion, so I don't know if it is helpful at all. Good luck! :D
2007-01-11 13:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by michellejagjrinc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk with your mom about it, she should understand and if she doesn't she is being selfish, don't feel bad about wanting to move on alone, it is only right and normal.
2007-01-11 12:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mom and tell her about the choice you want to make i know you care about your mom but you have to live your life too! would you want to stay with his mother and kids all the same household? that is too many personalities clashing so just talk to your mom
2007-01-11 12:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by iyesha24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that you need to start your own life. Don't get emotional and let her know that you need her to move on her own.
2007-01-11 12:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by kelleyann_p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So is your mommy paying for everything and when you move with boyfriend then he will pay for you to live. and why have you not been honest with the guy and why do you not have a job and support your kid.
2007-01-11 12:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just talk to her. She may be a little scared to be on her own because she's never done it before or for financial reasons. Help her to prepare for it coming though.
2007-01-11 12:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her u are going to move in with ur b/f and if u still want to go we will find u an apt. close and if she gets mad or dont want to go then u go make a life for ur self
2007-01-11 12:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by KIM B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋