there is this girl a.k.a hoe, that has been stalking my boyfriend and im tring to be nice but she is pushing me to the limit.she pops up at his home,job,church,every where! she even followed him to my house one day! she wont get a life.should i just beat sum sense in her or what????
2007-01-11 04:56:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if your boyfriend isn't doing anything about her either, then I would have to let HIM go....he needs to address the situation WITH you and tell this chick to take a hike!! Otheriwse, dump his @ss and THEN whip hers!! Good luck. Send her my way to Fl and I will take care of her like I did to my husbands ex girlfriend....hehehehe
2007-01-11 05:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by bradnmich2003 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to question your boyfriend here.... let him address the situation.... Not saying some girl on girl cat fighting isn't hot but listen up I have more
She obviously is following him for some reason something happened between those two for her to be stalking and acting all crazy.
Its not your problem its his issue...
I say take a step back and put some confidence that your boyfriend can handle and stop the problem.
you might not like hearing it but trust is way out in the for front here can you not trust your boyfriend to not blow off this girl if she continues to advance on him???? Find the underlying reason for her behavior. talk it out confront her with neutral third parties..
in a public area... don't go to trading blows when you may not know the details. If it continues call the authorities and file restraining orders.
but I would try talk it out first.
Good Luck
2007-01-11 05:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by The_Schwarz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i had this problem to . Ask your boyfriend wants going on with her. He maybe still stringing her along, some girls think if a guy speaks to them they have a chance. Not saying that he is cheating with her but he may be stirring up some conversation with her. If he doesn't have a problem with her then leave it be. But if see step to you then its time to fight. Especially since she knows where you live, stay alert and keep your guard up at all times. There's not much that you can do because when you go to the police there going to ask want did she do to you do you have proof etc. She knows that your in the picture and she's not going to stop.So you need to start snapping picture and keeping a journal, and write down every time you she her. date,time,place, and what she had on. And act like she doesn't bother you and tell him to do the same. Ask people around you to write statements that they saw here, then take her to court. Sweet revenge its beautiful. Try not to lose your cool with this it's going to be hard, but don't let it hurt your relationship. GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-11 05:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by divalicious_ kill_ yourself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is your boyfriend not putting a stop to this instead of you? Beating some sense in to her won't make a difference and you could end up being charged with assault. Why not contact the police and have them put a scare in to her for stalking?
2007-01-11 05:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lace 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just go out of my way to let her see the two of you together. And I would be very nice to her, invite her to come out with you but then be all up on your boyfriend in front of her. Maybe then she will finally get the picture.
2007-01-11 05:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not interested, it is not a problem. She can't get him, so she's just making a fool out of herself.
He should be the one to tell her he is VERY much taken with a beautiful chick, and even if he didn't have a gf, he wouldn't be interested in her.
2007-01-11 05:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by tbonz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Throw water balloons filled with spoiled milk at her, or just ask her to leave your boyfriend alone. If all else fails ask your boyfriend to get a restraining order.
2007-01-11 05:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by Cayla 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to put an end to the sittuation or you will . If he has unfinished business with her then he needs to straighten it out and he needs to leave you alone . why would he not be taking care of it ? Is he getting a thrill out of it . Tell him to finish it or you will be finished with him. good luck .
2007-01-11 05:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she shows up where you are....call the police and report her for stalking. My guess is that this will put an end to the situation.
2007-01-11 05:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by ravred300 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not your problem.
He needs to learn to do deal with it.
Go to the authorities, whatever.
Sorry, you're helpless in this case.
She belongs in jail, or Juvy D, not you, so do NOT put yourself there!
Or you'd be worse than she is.
2007-01-11 05:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋