he needs to change..i'm tired of always doing what he wants and never having my way...i want him to appriciated me more..i know he loves me and he says he's going to change but he never does...
2007-01-11 05:14:06 · 21 answers · asked by bouche 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont believe any guy who tells he is going to change and treat you different old habits are hard to change****
2007-01-11 05:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to know : GUYS DONT CHANGE!!! (except on rare occasions and only if he really wants to) but if u asked him and he still didnt make an effort then he's probraly thinking that he can find somebody who likes him for him! My boyfriend used to be the same way. then i started doing things MY way and if he didnt like it oh well ( it hurt me a lot) but he learned to compromise with what i wanted to do. but not all guys are the same, if he loves you nothing can make him leave but if he doesnt love u nothing can make him stay. tell him that the relationship should be 50/50 and if he doesnt make any effort to change that you will leave him! and you MUST stick by ur word!
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-01-11 13:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain him calmly that you love him with all your heart but you want him to offer you the same love because you really deserve it. Let him some time (2-3 weeks) to show you how much he loves you. If he is indifferent try to break up for a while in order him to realise that you are indispensable part of his life. Good luck!
2007-01-11 13:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot go into a relationship just waiting for him to change into what you want. It just doesn't happen. So, stop living in the fantasy world and wake up to reality. If he is not what you really want then move on! Good Luck.
2007-01-11 13:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun, you need to sit down with him and have a heart to heart, if you still lvoe him and he still loves you, then he should be willing to make changes..but you need to let him know how you feel and what he can do to help you out, and hun if he really did love you as much as he says then he would change for you.and if he don't change then you need to leave him..and if he really does love you then he will change and come back to you that changed man..
2007-01-11 13:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by Newfie_Girl_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always do what my stepmom did and leave my dad was an alcholoic and always telling her what she should and shouldnt do so she left for about a month and a half and he changed he dont drink anymore and he is a better person so just leave for a while and that will make him realize that if he dont change he will lose you and everything that he loves
2007-01-11 13:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by Deborah J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER enter a relationship, expecting to change the person. If there are traits that you don’t like, then you need to be willing to overlook them, live with the traits or move on.
2007-01-11 13:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by last_of_the_romantic_men 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been there but i got tired of waiting for him to change even know you love them with all your heart you have to rember that ...that anyoing person the are now has really always been there so you have to decide to live with it or with out it. its not easy but thank about what you need to make you happy not just others
2007-01-11 13:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by ec_card_10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys need to compermise or you wont stay with him tell him what you want to do and put ideas out there make sagestions and if he dont agrey then tell him you need a brake trust me if he relly loves you and you threten to leave he will change and he will definetley appriciat you fore all the things you do fore him and if that dont work just dont do a damn thing around the house and make him do it all that should work good luck
2007-01-11 13:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone new. The outcome for this one doesn't sound too promising. If he is not willing to change then, it will probably not go any further than where you are right now. Stay with him, if you are willing to accept that.
2007-01-11 13:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by grizzly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going through the same right now.(.little similar)..and i guess my guy saw how much he hurt me so he was willing to change..so far he is doing great..he cut of his females friends that know he has a girl..but still insists..and he changed his cell number..i love him even though at times i still hate him
2007-01-11 13:18:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋