2007-01-11 05:19:34 · 20 answers · asked by loves2flirt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't fear new relationships, reach out for what u want, u have to make yourself vulnerable sometimes, so u at least have a chance to get what u want. can't let what happened in your past to steal your future. theres always a chance we will get hurt, and rejected, we just have to learn to deal with those things that hurt our ego's. can't judge a new relationship by the last one, as everyone is different. just pick more wisely, look at their past before u decide to get serious, don't settle for less than u deserve. take your time get to know them and not just knowing them physically. don't get too involved too fast until u really know them.
2007-01-11 05:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are still afraid of getting hurt then give yourself a little more time to heal from the wounds of the past. Then after a reasonable amount of time you just have to put yourself out there. Wouldn't you rather be happy for a moment than afraid of being unhappy forever?
2007-01-11 13:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by LeighBird 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i was in a similar situation not that long ago! But its not a case of looking, usually things like that just happen, and when they do, it can be amazing!! Everyone is afraid of getting hurt, but you could miss out on so much if you dont take risks and chances!! when it comes along, just enjoy it! i did the mistake of constantly worrying, but now im with someone new and i just live for each moment. Im much happier and having more fun!
2007-01-11 13:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, if you still have a fear of getting "hurt", then that means you still have time left to be by yourself. Pumpkin, what is the hurry of getting a bf??? The reason why you are afraid, is because you have not spend enough time with yourself and are not comfortable with yourself. Honey, once you gain self-worth and enjoy yourself, then you will be ready for a relationship. Sweetheart, if you go to soon, all you be asking for someone to see you vulnerable and take advantage of your internal weakness. Do you want that pumpkin?
2007-01-11 13:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont trust or givethem your heart until its been awhile because I had been hurt so many times. I told the guy I starteddating I would never trust him atlest for awhile and it would be hard for him to earn my heart 3 years later I am married with a little girl and we still have problems but I will say this worked for me
2007-01-11 13:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by The H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't NEED one. You might be afraid of getting hurt but when the right guy comes along, you'll do away with all the negative thinking. Give it time & let HIM come to YOU!
2007-01-11 13:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by DiVenanzo™ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself "Is finding my soul-mate worth the risk". Coming from someone who's been hurt and afraid, it is worth the risk. I finally found my soul-mate and I'd go through all the broken roads (pain and all) to find my way into his arms.
Just always remember that phrase "when one door closes, another door opens". If you want that true love, you got to believe in yourself and know you deserve to be truly happy. Go out there and find your "soul-mate". You will be so happy you did.
2007-01-11 13:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what, no one knows for sure when they meet a new guy if he is going to hurt you or not.. It`s inevitable.
Going through bad relationships is what everyone has to do before they find that special someone.
Good luck, and don`t be too eager to give up your heart right away..
If it doesn`t work out, remember there are plenty of men out there who will treat you with respect and love you for who you are. :]
2007-01-11 13:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it. because i just got out of a relationship. and i can keep holding on to the past. that's not healthy for you. you start to trust again.don't let all of your guard. just some. because your pride can get in the way to. you don't want to be so proud. go with your heart. if your heart is ready to have another chance with a relationship then go for it.
2007-01-11 13:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by Mz T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone is afraid of getting hurt but if u dont u wont be happy right? might as well try.
2007-01-11 13:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋