should i be worried?

Question

my gf has an ex who is her brother friend so he is at her house alot, she sees him way more than she sees me. her brother has alot of friends who come to their house and im not tryna sound gay but a couple of them look alright, my gf is HOT and has a great personality, but i wonder sometimes if i should be concerned. her ex tries to hook up with her sometimes but she tells me she wouldnt go with him again so why did she get so upset when she found out he had a girlfriend? also she has a "bestfriend" that she talks to alot and i was looking on her phone and saw she had a picture of his body on there. she said he sent it and she didn't know why and i asked well why did you save it you could've deleted it. one more thing she used to talk to a boy but she said they don't talk anymore but his cousin was trying to find out why they stopped talking and if she wanted to talk to him again. she said to me she wouldnt but she's always bringing him up and he lives around the corner. should i worry

Answer 1

First things first... Do you trust her? Is how you are feeling caused my intuition, jealousy or simple concern/worries? Do not ignore intuition, not trying to sound "gay" but alot of men tend to do that. There may or not be a reason she saved it but do you believe her answer? Has she lied to you before? Always be concerned but do not let it overwhelm you, if it does there is probably a good reason that it is, be it her or be it you. Fact is, in the long haul, it will not work out if there is no trust.
Part 2... some times we bring up things that mean nothing to us, a mere memory. Men become suspicious and say things that shows distrust, then we begin to bottle thing, communication problems begin the the ball just keeps rolling. Either you trust her or you don't, if you don't, you're wasting both your time and hers. On the other hand, you have to make a judgment call, how, when and what is she bringing up, analyze is.

Answer 2

I would have to say yes. Just by what you are saying I would have to say she is confused about what she really wants. It sounds like how my friends and I were when we were younger. The ex tries to get you back and you usually in the long run end up going back. The whole game of I got a new boyfriend and girlfriend usually just makes the other want you back more and thats when the game of sending pictures and letters ..even making cd,s of your songs. I hope this helps you and that you don't end up getting hurt. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Yes you should. Us woman are very sneaky. And we know how to "work" around situations. Take Reno for instance, my ex husband always use to get upset when he was around me. Before and after we got married. He never trusted him. Well as of last May we have been with each other on a romantic level and not best friend level. FYI - I got married in 1994. Go figure.....

Answer 4

yes. be worried. be concerned. be very paranoid of this whole situation. of course she willtell you all the things you want to hear, but it does not mean she is telling the truth...and she probably isn't. if she is worth it, and you believe her, then i'd suggest being there when the ex is around for now on. but the more i read what you wrote, the more i think that your girlfriend is a player who also craves attention. either drop her, or play her game by giving her a dose of the bad medicine she has been giving you.

Answer 5

It is a question of what you can or cannot handle.

It looks like your GF is a flirt. If you can't handle her flirtations with other guys, you need to be a man, and lay down the law. Your GF will respect you more for that. Having a guys body pic on her cell phone is BS. She needs to delete that immediately. And talking to that "best friend" is BS too. You are her man, lover, and best friend, aren't you?

Answer 6

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Answer 7

yes I think that you have every right to be worried. I think that maybeshe is hidin a few things from you Especially if she has a pic of his body on there. theres no tellin what goes on between the 2 of them. All the signs are there... the pic... talking about him...and he tries to hook up with her sometimes... I would try to get to the bottom of it and asap

Answer 8

Personally, it sounds like she's not ready for commitment, Although, i'm not saying it's not ok for your gf to have guy friends, but it's really selfish to be crying over her ex about getting a new gf. If i was in your position i would dump her! If she comes crying back to you, then you know she really likes you. Make sense?

Answer 9

well i think it just a matter of time before she hooks up with somebody. it sucks that her ex is always there. you guys sound young. i would stay with her but don't get to involved with her yea she hot so still be with her but don't act jealous that's going to make her turn to somebody else even faster. but yes she will find somebody else sooner or later. she is talking to to many guys. and girls cant have guy friends because all the guy wants to do is get in her pants to be quiet frank with you

Answer 10

Anytime there is a ? in your mind LISTEN to it!!! I would let her be she sounds not concerned about having just one man and she is craving the attention. Go find someone who will be true to you and not make you worry so much!