boy problem?

Question

there was this boy at my old school in russia who i think i upset. that was 4 years ago. a couple of days ago i texted him saying 'u probably dont want to hear from me but i want to apologise' then he said 'What?:)'
yesterday i texted him again, saying why are u ignoring me? (coz he did) and i apologised AGAIN. in return he said 'do u know what time it is? people r sleeping'
so today i was like,'did i wake u? soz, but u still didnt answer my question'(about ignoring) and he texted back saying, 'what do u want from me?'

i dont know what his reaction means (because he used to like me and then i moved to england and couldnt tell him - i think thats why he's pissed off). i just want some understanding in return, but he doesnt seem to understand it.

does his reaction means he wants to ignore me or is it that he's shielding himself????

what do i do?

he DOES remember who i am, infact we saw not a while ago

Answer 1

I think the problem is, is that it was 4 years ago, and that is a long time. he has probably forgotton about what you did too upset him ( that is, if you did upset him at all). he does not sound too pleased to hear from you.

I suggest that you txt him one last time, and explain that you dont "want" anything from him. just that you came accross his number and was wondering how he was, and that you didnt mean to bother him, then wish him all the best.

if he does not respond the move on, dont txt him all the time.

4 years is a long time, he may have someone else.

Answer 2

The poor boy is probly puzzled as to why someone would want to contact him out of the blue after 4 yeras. he also probably does not have aclue what you are on about and thinks you have a screw lose.
I think you need to stop texting the poor lad and find yourself a proper realtionship.

Answer 3

you know what you should do, delete his number he just isnt worth it get someone who will apprieate you more he just don't want to know. Before you delete his number text him one last time and tell him its his loss that should make you feel a bit better, good luck.

Answer 4

Let it go you nut job. It was 4 years ago. Who really cares anyway?

Answer 5

i think he has moved on, it was 4 years ago, the best thing for you to do in mY opinion and its only an opinion is to chalk it up to experience, learn from it and move on

Answer 6

it was 4 years ago he probably doesnt even remember who you are

Answer 7

I think its time to leave the past were it belongs & move on.