No I am not having an affair but I have to be johnie on the spot when she wants it but I can't even put my arm around her waste with out getting the evil eye when she isn't in the mood.
2007-01-11 05:57:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'll even give a serious heart felt answer...lol.
Because many women don't understand the different way that men and women "feel" and "express" love. Whether you know it or not you (us guys) are able to feel love and express love through touching intimacy rather then through symbolic gestures. Women feel and express love through symbolism and emotions.
It's the same reason we sometimes can't understand why our wives have to communicate sooo much about love and feeling and why our wives love romantic soupy movies and we do not. Mars and Venus basic differences.
Try explaining to your wife, and have proof ready from a trusted source, that as a man you identify love and caring through touching and intimacy. Tell her that if she will keep in mind how men "feel" love, you will keep in mind how she "feels" love.
2007-01-11 06:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not always that way!!! Maybe she's just selfish. My husband and I have been together for a long time and it has never been on MY terms, we are after all equals in our marriage. I know there are times when I am really not in the mood or he's not but we take the time to put one another in the mood. Neither of us has ever told the other no when it comes to having sex, we both feel it's an important part of our marriage.
2007-01-11 14:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well hey, That isn't fair.Maybe your timing is off. Try making an appointment.ha ha. Think that would work out for both of you. An affair will get you all kinds of attention and on the other hand it may set you free.~~~Jill
2007-01-11 14:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sex is proudly very important to her but don't be a jerk and think she wants it every time you do try surprising her with a weekend get away flowers even chocolate try telling her you love and respect her and you need her not just for sex and us woman are moody we go through alot more then you men do periods change of live stress out more then men oh try doing some house work for her might help stop thinking with your u know what and use your heart instead
2007-01-11 14:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by countrycollecter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the trick is to put her in the mood. try something different. dont make it apparent that you just want sex. cuddle and act like you want nothing. she'll quickly warm up. if that doesn't work, i got nuthin'. good luck.
2007-01-11 14:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by N I K I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't put all women into this category. Most women crave the affection, obviously your wife doesn't and only wants sex when she wants it and no other time. I am sorry for you.
2007-01-11 14:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk about it to her,she'll appreciate it in the long run!are you doing it when shes busy?like doing the dishes etc..that might be why.try getting her to relax,help with whatever needs doing,then go for it!if you don't tell us properly what you need and want we don't know,tell her how it makes you feel when she says no!but it works both ways like when your watching sports etc.
good luck!
2007-01-11 14:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was fu,.,.cking good
2007-01-11 14:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by layjc01 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋