Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

What do I do now? I just got engaged to a guy who im begining to literally hate.What have I gotten myself into? Everyone knows im engaged.what an embarassment that would be if I told everyone we called off the engagement! My family are kings and queens of gossip, ooh how they would love to gossip about it....Im so freaking miserable.He will never change..I cant be happy with this guy

2007-01-10 13:31:23 · 37 answers · asked by Joanne a 1 in Weddings

I like you just fine I just don't want to put our friendship in jeapordy by throwing something like romance in it, u see? Yes I do like someone else but I'm not that shallow, k? I don't want a relationship with anyone right now. I don't want to get hurt and I don't want to hurt anyone in the process either.

what do u think

2007-01-10 13:30:21 · 5 answers · asked by ford 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 13:30:17 · 8 answers · asked by My Poetry Is Deep I Neva Fail 4 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy met on a cruise. we hung out since day one, but i never really noticed him until the 4th night. the 4th night we hung out the whole entire night just me and him talking about everything. and then he made it a point to make sure we were hanging out the next night. by the end of the 4th night we had layed together, and hooked up as well. he slept over that night, and the next night we hung out again. at one point he was in the casino, and my friend went to the casino and asked him to come hang out with us. sure enough, he came within 10 minutes and we hung out. me and him went to his room to be alone and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening in the moment. it was great, but he didn't talk much. after we had sex we walked to my room, and he was about to come in but his cousin walked past us, and asked if we wanted to go to the casino. so we went to the casino, and then i left to go lay down. he told me he'd come back, and he did to sleepover. the next night he came looking for me but my friend told him i was with another guy (which i wasn't). he supposedly got upset and didn't hang out with me the next two nights. i told him that i wasn't with another guy and everything got cleared up, and we hung out again. the whole entire night, me, him, and my best friend hung out. then my friend left with some guy, and me and this guy ended up hooking up again, and everything led to sex again happening in the moment. this time he talked a lot more, and he told me he wanted to do it with me for a long time. he constantly asked me if i was alright, and we acted like a couple, having a cute relationship. the next night we hung out the whole night and kissed goodbye. after the cruise he messaged me right away on myspace, and we kept messaging eachother back and forth until about october. i had visited him and he acted the same exact way he did on the cruise and he kissed me goodbye on the lips and everything. when i stepped outside for a minute, some guy even asked this guy where his girlfriend went. haha. at one point i thought this guy had been avoiding me because the computer does crazy things, so i messaged him and i was like..if you don't want anything to do with me..please don't write back..but he did write back explaining how of course we're still friends and he doesn't have a girlfriend. i happen to be going to college where he lives in august which was planned before i even met him. but now it's been 5 months after the cruise, and he just got a girlfriend. i have no intentions of breaking them up at all. it's only normal to move on, we live far away and can't be together. do you think he really liked me a lot? or do you think he was using me? and if you think he was using me..can you please tell me why

p.s. i never gave him head or anything at all and why would he write back to me if he really didn't want anything to do with me? or why would he even talk to me after the cruise?

2007-01-10 13:29:52 · 3 answers · asked by alice r 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 16, and my thing is alittle over 6 1/2, is that ok, or what for someone my age. my girlfriend likes it, and thinks its big but i dont know

2007-01-10 13:29:08 · 21 answers · asked by elzilcho16 1 in Singles & Dating

How is it that I have one friend and we have totally clean fun, like watching movies or beading, yet when I'm with my two other friends(all girls) they'll makeout or talk me into being sillier than I usually EVER am? Is it okay to have two type of friends? If you makeout at 13, does that make you lesbian? Could you just be experimenting? I mean, it was like kissing a sibling... except for the making out part... and like, I've told them my deepest darkest secret! I just trust them more and I dunno why, but still, is making out w/ girls okay if your straight?

2007-01-10 13:28:38 · 10 answers · asked by thissilentangel 1 in Singles & Dating

He has a gf, and I have a bf..I think he's into me, but not sure if its real. Plus I really don't want for him think that I am a sl*t...what should I do???

2007-01-10 13:26:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 13:26:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 13:26:07 · 31 answers · asked by ahhihello 2 in Singles & Dating

It's fun and flirty and nothings going to come of it except fun. When he found out how old I was, he stopped writing. How can anyone be so small minded as to rule out a friendship?

2007-01-10 13:26:02 · 16 answers · asked by Sharyn 5 in Friends

I want to tell you my experince with my paretns. Sometimes my parents agured about the stuff. I do not like that. They were plan to dircove but they can't because they do not want to hurt me. I hate to see them end their marrage. I have no sibling and no sibling for me to talk if the situation is bad. Now I am almost 22 years old and I do not like see them end up their marrage. If my parents agured again, what I should to do?

2007-01-10 13:25:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a crush on someone and i'm close to his parents and they always find a way to make us close and he rides it. Do you think he like me?

2007-01-10 13:25:47 · 3 answers · asked by janecoolet 1 in Singles & Dating

my daughter wants to stay on the phone from the time she gets hom e from school until she goes to bed.She wants to skip dinner and not eat or she wants to talk while she is eating.Please help am I wrong to only allow her 2 hrs on the phone only after she has eaten her dinner.

2007-01-10 13:25:37 · 9 answers · asked by peglar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am depressed! Should I or should I not be depressed as he loves me a lot! I am scared and confused.

2007-01-10 13:25:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok heres the deal there is this guy that ive liked forever and he just broke up with his girlfriend. ive finally worked up the courage to tell him i like him, but i dont want to rush in because he just broke up with the girl also if i wait to long he'll get another girl !!!!!! PLEASEhelp me i despretly need advise PLEASE.....

2007-01-10 13:24:38 · 16 answers · asked by hollywood_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I was dating this woman who'd broken up with her man, who asked a friend of mine if she knew me and what I was like. She told him that if I was after his lady I was "probably going to get her" and I "work very fast." The dude stalked me for weeks and jumped on me at Happy Hour!! Why would my so-called friend tell a rejected man such things?

2007-01-10 13:24:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you ever ignore him for awhile? As in playing hard to get, even if you weren't sure that he liked you? High school girls mainly.

2007-01-10 13:23:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do people want to live together before they get marry?

2007-01-10 13:22:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well my dad is the one who is totally old fashion....my mom is okay with some things...but she says I have to talk to my dad about the dating thing..and I really don't want too.What can I do?

2007-01-10 13:22:46 · 6 answers · asked by singingheartout7 1 in Singles & Dating

My step son is moving in with us. He
is 10 years old. His father died. I have no kids of my own. I don't know how to deal with him. I am willing to be a good step father. advice needed.
Thanks much.

2007-01-10 13:22:37 · 14 answers · asked by Jimmy 1 in Family

okay, so i had my first real kiss last night with this guy. as far as mine and his relationship goes, we're going out. he's my boyfriend, i'm his girlfriend, our parents know we like each other, they just don't completely approve and we're waiting for that day to come. there is no way in hell that i'm going to tell my mom what happened cuz she'd kill me. the only ppl on this planet who know what happened are him, me, and my brother (just cuz i tell him everything). its making me crazy that its bottled up inside of me and i can't tell anyone else because then ppl i don't want to know wud find out and that wud suck. i'm kinda in this position where i just went through something amazing and now i dunno what to do with myself. i had my very first kiss!!!! this is a really big thing for me!!!! someone please tell me what to do!!!!

2007-01-10 13:22:28 · 29 answers · asked by jgmice 2 in Friends

My wedding reception is in June 2007 but I realized in Nov 2006 that I coud not afford it. I was the only person who signed the contract - my fiance did not. The site said if they can not find another party to reserve the space, I will be liable for the entire balance. Is there anything I can do to avoid being sued?

2007-01-10 13:21:06 · 20 answers · asked by Ki-Ki 1 in Weddings

Jus a lil game we used to play as kids....the RULES are

1) Take your pets name as the FIRST NAME.

2) Then take your mothers maiden name as the SECOND NAME.


Mine is TOMMY BEGUM...lol

2007-01-10 13:20:51 · 41 answers · asked by PrinceOfDarkness 2 in Friends

Why would someone be attracted to men who are either married, have fiancees, or have girlfriends? what does it say the person who is lusting after them??

2007-01-10 13:19:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, it all started in 5th grade. I met this new kid an made friends with him. we both had a crush on this girl in 5th grade too. In 6th grade he started to kinda act like me and made friends with all my friends, then he kept being with my other best friend, tryin to always hang out together (go to his house and play video games etc.). Pretty soon i felt left out and my other best friend was a closer friend to the kid back in 5th grade. He also was acting more like me and when i told him somthin i was thinkin of gettin he'd try to get it, for instance, i was thinkin of gettin a mp3 player and i told him, little did i know that he all of a sudden got a nano a week after i told him and i thought of gettin a PSP and he said "wait hold on my mom is callin me.............K im bak, so how much is a PSP cuz my mom asked me" HIS MOM DOESNT EVEN SPEAK ENGLISH!!!! HOW WOULD SHE KNOW WAT A PSP IS AND RIGHT AFTER I ASKED! now in 7th grade, he is now doin the same with my new best friend. soo mad!

2007-01-10 13:19:18 · 8 answers · asked by Jesse S 2 in Friends

Just wanna know if what i got is love or not

2007-01-10 13:19:16 · 13 answers · asked by ps2playout 2 in Singles & Dating

okay i have been dating this guy for awhile and i like him but whenever i am at skool and around this other guy i just cant stop thinking or looking at him and i want to keep dating the guy i am but whenever i am with him i cant stop thinking about the other one and wut it wuld be to be with him and when i am with the one i am not dating i feel like i am cheating on my b//f cuz i am flirting with him and i haven told him i have a b/f or anyone cuz he lives far away and we hardly see but now that i get attached to the guy i am not dating i want to break up with the one i am even though i like to be with the other guy but i dunno if this guy likes me or not so wut shuld i do?????

2007-01-10 13:19:11 · 3 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 13:19:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-10 13:18:46 · 11 answers · asked by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a guy but I am too ashamed to reveal I'm a virgin to my first girlfriend (I haven't got one yet and I am 22). I want to lie and say I have had sex a few times. Can I pull it off?

2007-01-10 13:18:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating