I am a guy but I am too ashamed to reveal I'm a virgin to my first girlfriend (I haven't got one yet and I am 22). I want to lie and say I have had sex a few times. Can I pull it off?
2007-01-10 13:18:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be honest, relationships shouldn't be based on lies. Besides, being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of!
2007-01-10 13:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by jlee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah sure you can pull it off. the truth is most guys do. Its a bit personal but i didn't lose my virginity until i was almost 20, and the girl wasn't a virgin. Have you at least gotten off with a few girls? you know made out and felt them up, stuck your fingers inside, stuff like that? Then yeah you CAN PULL IT OFF, just make sure to get her drunk and let her ride you. this advice is of course assuming that you aren't trying to have a real relationship with her, in which case maybe you should do the whole honesty thing that the other people are talking about.
2007-01-10 13:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by michael H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you but probably not. Guys who've had sex know what they like and what they should do to get it. Don't be ashamed of your virginity. I'm sure your girlfriend-to-be will understand and feel special aboout sharing your first experience. Besides, what kind of relationship would it be if you have to lie about something important like sex? Good luck!
2007-01-10 13:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being around guys, sometimes its hard to keep up with all the tales. Being a 42 year old man, and in construction . One of my helpers a young boy of 23 let me know he was a virgin, he was very comfortable with his decision. I am proud to know the kid. He. If your situation is not a choice but just haven't found girl. Give it time, as for the guys, don't worry. no need to lie. as far as pulling it off, anyone can. remember this, while talking to guys, the best lie that want get questions is " yeah i did a fat girl" guys don't want to know about fat girls, they want to know about hotties.
2007-01-10 13:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by gimlost2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hun it's not a good idea.
you cannot pull it off unless she is an innocent virgin too.
first time is always a bit different and bit experimental so you better be honest with her about it.
i'm so proud of you that you are still a virgin at the age of 22.
most college guys are (even girls are) players and they are just jumping from bed to bed.
if, by any chance, she makes fun of you about it, she is not the right person for you.
your first time should be sacred and deep so don't lie anything.
be your self and everything should be ok.
2007-01-10 13:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT LIE!! Its nothing to be ashamed of!! If she cares about u, then it would not matter. Being honest a bout it, is man - ing up to it. I would be amazed if any guy said tht to me who i was seeing, and very very flattered......be honest, its definately the best option!! Good luck!! xx
2007-01-10 13:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by lulu261187 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! Dont do that! I think most gurls will be pleased if there guy's a virgin. I know I would, because I would know he's innocent and was waiting for that special moment. Thats really romantic!!
2007-01-10 13:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by Kittykaren 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One should never choose to save virginity unless that is truely what you want to do. Now, to your question, don't lie if she truely respects you she wouldn't make such a big deal over it.
2007-01-10 13:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lie. and dont be ashamed. it is really awesome that you are a virgin. you should be proud about it. and if your girlfriend isnt okay with that, she is not the one for you
2007-01-10 13:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by Syd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't lie just be honest, think of how would you feel if she lied to you about something like that. so just tell the truth i think a lot of girls would respect that and if they don't then you didn't find the right one yet.
2007-01-10 13:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by missaboo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋