Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

Me and my bf of 8 years off and on were living together and I thought things were fine. I found out his ex, had called him. A girl from before when we broke up last year. Well he had gave her his new number, while out partying one night. I was ticked off and made him move out.
No chance to explain, nothing..........I feel horrible he cant go back to hir parents and he stays with his friends and sleeps on the floor.
I feel like such a horrible person for not talking it out like adults.....

So I texted him and said lets go do something and I ask him if he wants to be with me and he just says I dont know.
I dont know what to do I put the ball in his court and I apologized. we talk as friends and I know he does not want his ex cause he told me.
What should I do ? Hold my pride or should he be begging me back?

2007-01-10 14:09:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is in the military. Originally we were going to have our wedding in Dec. of 2003. He received military orders and he was told that no one could take vacation during that month. So, after discussing it, he and I decided to get married in a civil ceremony and have our dream wedding later. We have been married over three years now and are starting to plan the wedding. There are some problems though. We have had a rough time with my SIL's and I made the MISTAKE of telling my Mom once. She said that she does not care if she ever meets his family now. What a disaster! I know I never should have told her anything, but I had NO idea she would react that way! Our families have never met, because we move alot with the military. My Mom constantly tells me that she wishes my husband and I would take the money for the wedding(which we are paying for entirely) and use it to buy a house. I feel so discouraged and wonder if we should even have the wedding? HELP! Proud Army Wife

2007-01-10 14:08:55 · 16 answers · asked by Dolphin73 1 in Weddings

What to do? I don't want to ask her out....yet. So please don't even mention it. How should I act to let her know I'm interested? What should I say? I'm not looking for "lines" to use, but I just want to get an idea...What signs from her should I look out for? I'm in high school by the way. She's not really the touchy/feely type, and doesn't touch me at all, so any other body language signs? HELP!!!

2007-01-10 14:08:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I go to Monrovia Middle School and was just wondering if anyone honestly new her because I was her best friend and then she got in a fight with my other best friend and made up a whole bunch of lies about her and I confronted her about it and she doesn't want to be my friend anymore can anyone helpme.

2007-01-10 14:08:44 · 2 answers · asked by hannahs_superstar 2 in Friends

2007-01-10 14:08:20 · 11 answers · asked by veeo3 1 in Singles & Dating

About 3 Month ago i split up with my boyfriend. I love him and i thought he loved me. I found out that he had another girlfriend. He picked me up and dropped me for about two months in total. All in all we were together for about 10 months. I dont know what to do. we ended on quite a bad note because i found out i was pregnant. I told him i didnt want it. Then i found out that it was an etopic pregnancy and we have only spoke once since i was in hospital. Every body keeps telling me i deserve better. my head is screaming get a grip girl but my heart wont let me.

Please sombody tell me how i can get him back , its killing me. I just cant get over him.

2007-01-10 14:07:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 3 Month ago i split up with my boyfriend. I love him and i thought he loved me. I found out that he had another girlfriend. He picked me up and dropped me for about two months in total. All in all we were together for about 10 months. I dont know what to do. we ended on quite a bad note because i found out i was pregnant. I told him i didnt want it. Then i found out that it was an etopic pregnancy and we have only spoke once since i was in hospital. Every body keeps telling me i deserve better. my head is screaming get a grip girl but my heart wont let me.

Please sombody tell me how i can get him back , its killing me. I just cant get over him.

2007-01-10 14:07:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i dont get it i was talking to my best friend and ive known her since i was in 3rd grade and she was tlkin to my ex and i called him an *** cause he was laughin at the fact that Chinese peple sometimes have to abandon thier children and she got mad at me and took his side and i know that she really likes him cuase first off its just obvious and second she keeps dreaming about him but even if im wrong i think she should take my side just cause shes my friend i mean it doest really matter if im right or wrong i always take her side and defend her so shouldnt she do the same or am i just paranoid???

2007-01-10 14:07:00 · 9 answers · asked by Katarina P 1 in Friends

Hi. Mr girl is turning 11 and i waited to the last min.!!! What should i get her. She doesn't reall do make-up or hair. she is kinda tom boyish but not completely. WHAT SHOULD I GET HER!!!!!

2007-01-10 14:06:52 · 8 answers · asked by haydenrox05 2 in Family

The S factor? Sheila Kelley's stripping and pole-dancing workout that incorporates yoga, dance, and traditional stripper moves to help women harness their erotic power as a fitness workout?

2007-01-10 14:06:29 · 11 answers · asked by Kelly V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About 3 Month ago i split up with my boyfriend. I love him and i thought he loved me. I found out that he had another girlfriend. He picked me up and dropped me for about two months in total. All in all we were together for about 10 months. I dont know what to do. we ended on quite a bad note because i found out i was pregnant. I told him i didnt want it. Then i found out that it was an etopic pregnancy and we have only spoke once since i was in hospital. Every body keeps telling me i deserve better. my head is screaming get a grip girl but my heart wont let me.

Please sombody tell me how i can get him back , its killing me. I just cant get over him.

2007-01-10 14:06:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so I lost my father at age 13 and my boyfriend and i are thinking about getting married but the problem is the father and daughter dance. Is it possible to have a mother and daughter dance??.

2007-01-10 14:06:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been dating this girl for about a month now, and I need some new places to take her.

any ideas, Thanks

2007-01-10 14:06:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I used to work in two different countries for four years and saw each other once a year or even longer. During this period, I happened to know a guy who probably had a crush on me at the first sight. After he told me that I just let him know I was married. He gave up. But because of our work we had to see each other very often. The feelings were still there when he talked to me and stared at me. I began to like him back. I didn't want to ruin the life of three people. I tried my best to hide my feelings and avoid any contact with him. Maybe sometimes I was rude to him. Later he quitted the job and moved to another city. I left too. Since then we've had no contact.

I thought everything would be ok when living with my husband. But actually that's not right. It's been almost 2 years and I am still thinking about him. I hate myself.

2007-01-10 14:05:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok this is probably more for the ladies but Im sure that men will have a opinion also , my man tells me that I am to loud during sex I explain to him that with the pleasure he gives me any women would make that much noise , Im not usually that loud but we have only been together for 5 mnths it seems with him thats what I do .

any suggestions please ???

2007-01-10 14:05:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lost my husband in 2004, got remarried, lost the baby inside of me at 8 1/2 months, this past September my mother passed away. Are things ever going to be normal again ???

2007-01-10 14:04:41 · 9 answers · asked by Bobbi 5 in Family

2007-01-10 14:04:14 · 20 answers · asked by angels and airwaves 1 in Singles & Dating

trying to find some ideas on what to write for his baby book, also any words of wisdom I can tell him?

2007-01-10 14:04:00 · 6 answers · asked by Baby Julie due 5/12 3 in Family

being like sisters for over 10 years. she was going to rough times and bailed her out borrowing some money. well we never said it was a loan, I mean we never discussed the terms or anything, at that time I just wanna to help her. after the loan thing she vanished. tried to call/email and she said that she was involved in this relationship and was too busy. then I asked her about my money and she said it was never a loan (??) and got even very mad at me for trying to collect the money. my heart was broken. then a friend of mine said she would tell the guy my friend was dating and tell him the kind of friend that she was. they guy dumped my friend in a sec. the obvious happened, she got REALLY BUT VERY UPSET and now the money is gone and the friendship too.......I am still heart broken and not that worried about the money anymore

2007-01-10 14:03:37 · 14 answers · asked by Annie D 1 in Friends

My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. With in the past 8 or 9 months I've noticed he's picked up a new hobby or habit which completely disgusts me. Whenever he goes to the bathroom he decides to pass time by "digging for gold" and then he displays his "treasures" on my walls. I thought I must imagining things at first, but no, that's exactly what it is. It's only the two of us in the house, so it's not like there's someone else doing it. It's very obvious, but I feel embarassed to say something. I don't know how to go about it. But he has to know that it is noticeable. How do I descreetly let him no to STOP and clean up his mess, he's almost 30, not 3.

2007-01-10 14:03:18 · 48 answers · asked by Lady blah blah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Or is that just my friend James?

2007-01-10 14:03:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-10 14:03:04 · 6 answers · asked by flickerstik_dude 1 in Family

I asked a question earlier and put it in the wrong place, Sorrry. I asked when someone tries to make u out of a liar -by twisting around what u say. What do u do?

And, when u confront the person & let them know (that u realize they r playing mindgames) they start an agrument w/u?

And, how would u avoid them?
And, suggestions on ways to keep busy; so u don't have to cross path w/them again?

2007-01-10 14:02:59 · 2 answers · asked by Nedda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy for 2 years and we have a 13 month old boy. I met my boyfriends family when i was 5 months pregnant and everything was cool we got along but when i had Matthias everything changed they started talking about me behind my back to my boyfriend and when i mentioned my family they would roll thier eyes and say mhm. They also complaine about my family seeing matthias more then they do but we go visit them every two weeks and my mom if i'm lucky once a month (my boyfriends parents live closer) so what should i do? I have been putting up with this for over a year now. My boyfriend and I are planning on getting married but i don't think i can marry him with his family not liking me or my family. sorry it's so long.

2007-01-10 14:02:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-10 14:02:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm dating a guy, he emailed me last weekend and I emailed him back inviting him to come over to my house this weekend. I live about 2 hours away but he has come over before. Well he wrote back and said let's play it by ear because he has a suspicious he has plans but is not sure, but he thinks he is free, etc. Is this weird? Do you think he's lying? Did he really "forget" if he had plans or not? Or he is keeping me as a backup plan in case something better comes up??

2007-01-10 14:02:00 · 8 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK, so there is this guy I really like a lot. He knows it.
Imagine you were him if you could and try to tell me what he is thinking maybe...
This happens like every week at least once:
Ok so one day he'll do everything he can do get my attention, whether it is staring into my eyes or walking right towards me in the hall and smiling at me when he walks past.
The next day, he will avoid my gaze if I look towards him, or he walks a different way in the hall to avoid me.
I really like him and would do almost anything to get a chance with him. I know that he used to like me when we were kids (14-15 now)
Does the way he is acting mean that he likes me still? I don't understand. Please help me if you can!! I need to know... there is a school dance coming up and I want to ask him but I want to be sure first.

2007-01-10 14:01:45 · 11 answers · asked by Doz 3 in Singles & Dating

So I have this friend right and he thinks i am such a guy. Not like tom boyish but like, I act like a guy i guess. He says i have more guy friends than girls and i have more sleep overs with guys than girls and i can hit harder or as hard as some guys hes knows and finally I am always wanting to be sexual. (like being horny i guess) All my guy friends think i am my own breed of girl but in a good way. And all my girl firends think im to close with them. And i shouldn't trust them as much as i do. Like i tell them pretty much everything but they tell eachother anyway but i just keep telling them. But yea am I that guyish

2007-01-10 14:01:28 · 4 answers · asked by DKC36 2 in Friends

we had gotten married by hte justice of the piece at the town hall. we had 3 people ther(our 2 best friend's and my sister). after wards we went to a restaurant to celebrate and have some drinks and it was nice. we did it that way cause we didn't have alot of money at tthe time. We have been together for 10years but married for 66 in june. I wanted to know if we were to do the who church and reception thing if gifts and money were to be accepted. Now I am not sure how the rules go. I just want to have a real wedding now that we can afford it and for everyone to have a good time. what does everyone think?

2007-01-10 14:01:20 · 10 answers · asked by whijess03 3 in Weddings

hello can you give me some example of speeches
bec. im going to get married and i need all your help
speeches after eating in the reception
thanks to the one who can help me=)

2007-01-10 14:01:02 · 4 answers · asked by lomi 1 in Weddings