Me and my bf of 8 years off and on were living together and I thought things were fine. I found out his ex, had called him. A girl from before when we broke up last year. Well he had gave her his new number, while out partying one night. I was ticked off and made him move out.
No chance to explain, nothing..........I feel horrible he cant go back to hir parents and he stays with his friends and sleeps on the floor.
I feel like such a horrible person for not talking it out like adults.....
So I texted him and said lets go do something and I ask him if he wants to be with me and he just says I dont know.
I dont know what to do I put the ball in his court and I apologized. we talk as friends and I know he does not want his ex cause he told me.
What should I do ? Hold my pride or should he be begging me back?
2007-01-10 14:09:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he was completely committed to you, he would not have given his number to a girl he was doing when you were on a break. Its completely disrespectful to you and it crosses a line in your relationship. Would he like it if he found out you gave your number to a guy you were doing when you were on a break. You said you have been off and on for years.....maybe that is a sign you are not meant for eachother. He is a big boy and doesn't need to sleep on anyone's floor.....thats his choice and you are not responsible for his decisions, like giving that girl his number. . He can find a bed somewhere.....maybe with the girl he gave the phone number to. HOLD YOUR PRIDE and move on.
2007-01-10 14:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by t f 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want his ex back because he told me,are you really that naive to believe that.Any man who preferred sleeping on the floor over a warm bed with a girl and sex when ever he wants it.Tell me something would you believe that story if one of your girlfriends told you that. Take a step back and look at it through someone Else's eyes if you can.Your ex would of left you anyway for his now girlfriend that was his ex when you two were together. If I were you I would leave it alone and let it burn its own self out and it will.If he loves you he will come back to you,but he needs to on his own .If he does come back to you then you have his heart forever.GOOD LUCK I HOPE THINGS WORK OUT FOR YOU.
2007-01-10 22:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's sleeping on floors, he probably really wants you back, but he doesn't want to be a desperate fool. You should hang out with him more and jokingly say I'll let you sleep on my couch so you don't have to sleep for one night. Than expand from their maybe offer to let him sleep on the couch for a few nights (never the bed). He's already learned his lesson, and this way you allow him to come back in your home without giving in.
2007-01-10 22:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by TICKLES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a huge mistake.
You can't go around acting on impulse.
You should forgive your BF and let him move back in.
He most likely was drunk at the club, and didn't realize what he was doing when he gave his ex the number.
Swallow your pride and admit that you made a mistake.
2007-01-10 22:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by Guess 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you need to talk to him about the whole situation before you ask him to come back. You need to ask him why he gave her the number. Also you need to ask him what his intentions where. Then you need to decide where to go from there, whether its askin him to move back in or to just let things be the way they are
2007-01-10 22:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him some time and space to think about what he wants...he maybe havin second thoughts about your relationship or he may just be makin you worry to feel bad bout kicking him out. You have apologised so theres nothin more you can do except let him work it out himself and let him contact you. Good luck!
2007-01-10 22:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold our pride. if you ever want to have a succeful relationship you must learn to communicate. Jeleousy is good to have a bit of, but not even talking to him about it just tells him that you may not be worth the trust he placed in you.
2007-01-10 22:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by donttrustsheep 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shoed tack to him if you love him because you cant lose something you love
2007-01-10 22:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋