Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

i just broke up with my boyfriend and i've been with him for 3months. But he has alrady found another girl and i dont want him to be will eny other girl.I was talking to him and he told me he like's me alittle bit but i just want to be with him but i broke up with him cuz i though i didn't like him enymore what should i do ???plz help me

2007-01-10 14:00:09 · 7 answers · asked by ecuadorian girl * 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, there is this classmate of mine that acts odd around me. Like its fine when he always comes up to me and says the same thing again like "so uh What's up" But there was one time when i was sitting next to him at lunch and we and my other friends were talking about deaths and stuff(random conversation,) and then this girl next to him was saying "Oh i know who you like. I won't tell though. But i know!" She made it loud too so i could hear what she was saying. I was annoyed and didnt say anything. He never denied her comment. He just was nervous and quiet. During another day, a lot of people in my class were talking about our th grade dance. They were already asking eachother who was going with who. I was planning to just have fun with my friends, but he came up and started a conversation about it. He asked "Who was i going with" and i told him my friends and he was shocked and then left quickly. I'm just wondering, does he like me? Even if he did, he's good-looking, but not for me.

2007-01-10 14:00:08 · 19 answers · asked by pink 2 in Friends

there's this boy who likes me and hes 14 but the problem is im 16 but hes so sweet but i really dont wanna be with him becuz o fhis age but then agin i do wanna be with him cuz hes sweet and hes caring and i really dont wanna break his heart .....should i be with him or no

2007-01-10 14:00:01 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and I HAVE to ask her. I want to ask her before she gets taken. Its in 4 months. we both like each other a lot and are curious to take it further. How soon would be too soon, like making me look desperate? p.s. neither of us are in relationships.

2007-01-10 13:59:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just to have fun

2007-01-10 13:59:39 · 4 answers · asked by bratz294 2 in Singles & Dating

i tried to hard to keep our relationshipe from falling apart and he finally got the hint, i really liked him but i dont know if i do so much anymore. like i dont really want to hang out with him as much as i used to and i dont get upset when he doesnt talk to me. am i just getting used to being neglected by my boyfriend, or does it sound like i really dont like him anymore?

2007-01-10 13:58:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 13:57:33 · 8 answers · asked by artsycasey 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend has a 6 year old son, who she thinks the sun shines out of, but he is a very naughty boy who will lie to your face to get out of things he has done wrong,do you think its wrong for me to say to her he needs pulling into line,he causes alot of tension with my 13 year old son and her 14 year old daughter who are best friends also. The mum is always sticking up for him regardless of if he is in the wrong or not and im finding myself having to restrain myself more and more because im afraid if i say something she might get offended, but its making me not want to spend time with them all.

2007-01-10 13:56:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you prefer your kissing to be slow/sweet/sensual, or heavy/fast/passionate? With tongue or without?

2007-01-10 13:56:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where to meet decent, and respectful men in Lima Ohio? what do men like on women in general) I just do not interest anybody at all.

2007-01-10 13:56:21 · 2 answers · asked by Justagirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 13:55:37 · 19 answers · asked by Oakstah T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and this guy had sex which happened in the moment naturally..it was great. he didn't talk much the first time, and when he was putting the condom on, i knew he was but stupid me asked what he was doing and he said "nothing"..i then asked if he was going to use a condom and he said "yes"..he even let me feel it to make sure it was on him. he didn't talk much at all that time during sex, but the second time we had sex he talked a lot more and constantly asked me if i was alright. after the first time we had sex, me and him went to the casino, and then i left because i wanted to go lay down. he told me he'd come back, but i wasn't sure if he would. well, sure enough..he came back to sleepover and hang out with me..and after the second time we had sex he slept over as well and we layed together. he said really sweet things to me about how i was his girlfriend on this vacation, and we held hands and acted as a couple. and yes, of course we also hung out and it was not all about sex at all. he's kiss me on the cheek a lot..and he cared about me and treated me with a lot of respect. however, we can't be together now because we live really far away. we talked after the cruise, he contacted me right away. i want to get over him though, because now it's been awhile and he has a girlfriend.

do you think he really liked me from what you hear?

ps. i never did anything to him physically such as giving him head, and he also was not with any other girls, and he asked my friend what the deal with me was, and he got upset because he thought i was with another guy for two nights of the cruise.

2007-01-10 13:55:29 · 12 answers · asked by jess p 1 in Singles & Dating

Are people just not friendly anymore or do I send out psychotic signals?

2007-01-10 13:55:05 · 5 answers · asked by sipppihercoldsaursasaurus 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting a divorce, & its because me and my husband cant get along, & i cheated on him, because he was verbally & physically & sexually abusive. Now i tried, for the sake of our child to work things out with him, yet all he can say is that i cheated, no apologies for all the abuse heput me through. he claims i was miserable to live with, yet i did everything ( short of wiping his butt- seriously i had to go to the doctors office with this man so he wouldnt "leave" anything out). he picked me aprt so badly that i went away for four days ( with my child) to think things through ( i hadnt cheated at this point) yet things never changed, i came back he called me all the names in the book threw me around. Now i have been dating this person i have Known & dated before i even knew my husband, & he loves me more than words can say he is forgiving of the fact that i was with my husband as well as him, all he wants is to be with me and he's fighting tooth & nail, what to do ? try w/ the ex?

2007-01-10 13:54:32 · 10 answers · asked by Jane Doe 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 13:53:31 · 6 answers · asked by cahoonanthony 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a girl after she gave me her number and met for coffee. She felt very comfortable with me from the get go because was beet red alot when I talked to her and she would extend her arm out towards me with her palms up and ask me a lot of questions about myself. She also had me sip her drinks a couple times, and asked me if I wanted to go out for drinks with her at a nice mexican restaurant after coffee. Her and I flirted some more and she laughed at practically anything I said. She also wanted to show me her new house she was trying to buy.and when I asked her for dinner she smiled broadly and said "I'd love to".

We were supposed to go out again tonight and she hasnt' returned my calls. What's the deal? It's been a week now and she's always returned my calls and has taken lengths to get in touch with me.

I know it's not me. Or is it? Why are they usually so insincere?

2007-01-10 13:53:01 · 3 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend is coming down to see me on Sat and im really scared of what he will think of me when he sees me. Ive changed alot and im not sure if he will think im pretty ive sent him one of my best best pics so he had an idea of what i looked like and he really thought i was cute and he put it on his cell and everything...HELP! :(

2007-01-10 13:51:55 · 21 answers · asked by poster451 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i really like him and in october he said that he liked me but the next day he said that he didn't want to date in his "friendship circle". but now in january he (according to everyone i talk to) flirts all of the time and apparently so do i. but i don';t know what to do recentally he's gone out of his way to spend as much time as possible with me and when we walk together (which is most of the time) he is touching me in some way. and when we talk he looks me in the eyes. help me i'm soo.... confused.

2007-01-10 13:51:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and this guy had sex which happened in the moment naturally..it was great. he didn't talk much the first time, and when he was putting the condom on, i knew he was but stupid me asked what he was doing and he said "nothing"..i then asked if he was going to use a condom and he said "yes"..he even let me feel it to make sure it was on him. he didn't talk much at all that time during sex, but the second time we had sex he talked a lot more and constantly asked me if i was alright. after the first time we had sex, me and him went to the casino, and then i left because i wanted to go lay down. he told me he'd come back, but i wasn't sure if he would. well, sure enough..he came back to sleepover and hang out with me..and after the second time we had sex he slept over as well and we layed together. he said really sweet things to me about how i was his girlfriend on this vacation, and we held hands and acted as a couple. and yes, of course we also hung out and it was not all about sex at all. he's kiss me on the cheek a lot..and he cared about me and treated me with a lot of respect. however, we can't be together now because we live really far away. we talked after the cruise, he contacted me right away. i want to get over him though, because now it's been awhile and he has a girlfriend.

do you think he really liked me from what you hear?

ps. i never did anything to him physically such as giving him head, and he also was not with any other girls, and he asked my friend what the deal with me was, and he got upset because he thought i was with another guy for two nights of the cruise.

2007-01-10 13:51:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have known somone for about 3 years now, the 1st 6 months of knowing him he was for the most part sneeky and monipulative due to extream insecurities. I never know if he has an alternative, greedy motive to his what would to the naked eye seem very normal behavior.

2007-01-10 13:50:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend says myspace is like hook up site and he gets jealous when I check my myspace and someone wants to be my friend. I keep telling him that I'm not there for dating but he still gets jealous. Is it normal for him to be that way?

2007-01-10 13:50:10 · 15 answers · asked by Jus_014 2 in Singles & Dating

When this happens, some guys are either with their girlfriends or with their homeboys or by themselves. Do they think that I am ugly? Do they not want me to know that they are looking at me? What is it?

2007-01-10 13:49:25 · 29 answers · asked by mybabygyrl73 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to support him, but I am afraid of what my parents will do if they find out. Dad is very traditional and thinks women should wear the aprons in the home. And mom still thinks of him as her little bambino.

He's planning a big super bowl party and the family is invited and I'm just dreading that he'll whip out his chicken in the middle of the party and people will freak out. Should I talk him out of it and tell him to keep it a secret or will it all come out eventually anyway?

2007-01-10 13:49:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-10 13:48:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 13:48:29 · 15 answers · asked by Roxie H 1 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with my guy today, i need time to myself, i've distanced myself from him for the last month or so. today he says "this is how you do me on my birthday, we'll see what happens" then he says "i got you". should i be worried?

2007-01-10 13:48:03 · 6 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's like this, I smoke pot/weed/mj/cannabis and I want my parents to know.

Why you ask?
Well, basically, I don't like having to sneak around. At 18 I feel like I should be able to work things out rationally with them, we're all adults in this house at least nominally. They've always been honest with me and we're all on good terms.

Except I know they're against it, which they remind me of whenever I mention something related. I know it's because they care about me I understand, but I also know they did it at my age and understand that it's relatively harmless. I'm in the top 10% of my class graduating this spring, have a 4.1 gpa and will be attending a good college next year. Sometimes I smoke with the class valedictorian I have a job, do extracurriculars etc, I just like to get high on a saturday night to unwind with my friends.

Of course there's no excuse for the fact that it's illegal but I know not to put my self in stupid situations where I could get arrested.

help...

2007-01-10 13:47:58 · 4 answers · asked by andyseaver 1 in Family

my stepmom has never really treated me well ever since i was a child and i don't know my real mom cause she left when i was a baby . MY dad was in the airforce and remarried when i was 5 years old and my little sister was 3 years old . Im now 21 and getting married soon and i want my stepmom there cause she's the only mom i've got but she says she doesn't know if she wants to come . it hurts my feelings cause i know she's trying to avoid me at all costs . should i not worry about it and just forget about it , or make her come to my wedding ?

2007-01-10 13:47:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i met this boy in a chat room...ive talked for like 5 months and now i think like him...what should i do does cyberlove really exist?

2007-01-10 13:47:25 · 7 answers · asked by Shenty H 1 in Singles & Dating

if you and your ex was on and off for a couple of months then he cheated on u and u quit tryin with him but out of no where he calls and now u want him back....if u loved someone so deeply and they meant everything to u would u take them back and work it out. they say that they are trying to change....could u do it over again? could u start over? could u trust again and forget it? if they are the only one for u and u kno it. what would u do?

2007-01-10 13:46:42 · 7 answers · asked by LeAnn 1 in Singles & Dating