i broke up with my guy today, i need time to myself, i've distanced myself from him for the last month or so. today he says "this is how you do me on my birthday, we'll see what happens" then he says "i got you". should i be worried?
2007-01-10 13:48:03 · 6 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we are both adults, honestly i forgot today was his b-day. i just hopes he doesnt act like an @ss.
2007-01-10 13:51:56 · update #1
Hi,
You have already answered it. You feel threatened or you would not be wondering what to do about it. You know him, we don't. The most innocent sounding things said a certain way or in the wrong tone of voice tell more than anything in the words. Think about it, has he acted in ways in the past that make you tend to think he will not act rationally now? Has he ever threatened any one before? If you feel threatened go with your gut instinct. Let him know you will not tolerate threats and tell him you will report them. Then do it. Good luck
2007-01-10 13:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by indianola_gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be alone,file a police report and possibly a restraining order. It could mean a threat or it could mean that he's gonna lay with some other girl. But better error on the side of caution. Look at my answers, I just answered a similiar question.
2007-01-10 21:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by vince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HURT HIM NOW HE WANTS TO HURT YOU BACK! NOT KNOWING HIM I HONESTLY CAN'T SAY. ONLY YOU CAN LOOK BACK AT HIS HISTORY TO FIGURE OUT WHAT HE IS CAPABLE OF TODAY AND THE FUTURE. IF YOUR NOT SURE WHAT TO DO, ERR ON THE SIDE OF SAFETY. MAKE A POLICE REPORT AND KEEP A BIG BODY GUARD CLOSE AT HAND! YOU COULD GO VISIT A FRIEND OUT OF TOWN? JUST BE CAREFULLY!!!!!!!!
2007-01-10 22:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by cat eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless he has a history of violence, it just sounds like a head-trip.something said just to bug you.pretty common.and it worked.many empty,petty,half-threats have been uttered by rejected lovers.usually dont mean a thing
2007-01-10 21:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by DEBI M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont b 2 worried what will he do !!dont hav deja vu!!!
if i were u i wont do nothin but b aware of othrs but it kinda sounded like threat but i will like to know how he said it!!!
2007-01-10 21:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you talk to one of his friends? see if they can talk to him
2007-01-10 21:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋