ok i really like him and in october he said that he liked me but the next day he said that he didn't want to date in his "friendship circle". but now in january he (according to everyone i talk to) flirts all of the time and apparently so do i. but i don';t know what to do recentally he's gone out of his way to spend as much time as possible with me and when we walk together (which is most of the time) he is touching me in some way. and when we talk he looks me in the eyes. help me i'm soo.... confused.
2007-01-10 13:51:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he does anything i ask him to and i'm the one he trusts with everything even his deepest secrets. we have all of our classes together and i don't want to push him away by saying something. if i pushed him away i would be lost and broken.
2007-01-10 13:58:57 · update #1
by the way to get this straight he is scared of bisexuals and gay guys
2007-01-10 14:03:22 · update #2
he likes you but he's probrably too scared to step over the "friendship circle." he doesn't want to ruin ya'lls friendship with a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. but you should really talk to him about it one day while ya'll walking together alone and ask him how he truly feels about you're relationship. don't ask him too much about it cuz he'll try to push you away after a while (too much pressure to do something that he may not be ready to do). if he really doesn't like you like that, don't waste your time waiting for him.don't hurt yourself by taking the touchy-feely thing seriously. just move on and find someone that's ready to make a commitment with you. good luck hun and i hope he doesn't end up hurting you emotionally.
2007-01-10 14:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by yung_boricua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have changed his mind these last few months, watching you flirt with everyone and maybe a little jealous. he is letting you know that he is feeling something for you, whether it is bf / gf feelings I am not quite sure. He realizes what he said to you a couple months ago and doesn't want to seem that he is going back on his word. He might have had a little pressure from the boys back then and now he is feeling a little more confident .
Just take the ride and don't push and see where it leads you.
2007-01-10 22:00:51 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he sincerily likes you, take your time and be open with him on how you feel. Men usually have a hard time talking or expressing feelings but that does not mean all men are like that. Also are you two flirting with eachother or other people? If you are flirting with eachother I don't think you have anything to worry about just take your time and be patient. If it is with other people then this is not a good sign for either of you. I hope it works out the way you want it to.
2007-01-10 21:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by lost angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously likes you or he wouldn't be doing these things . He probably had something going on in October that made him not ready to open up to you, seems like hes ready, but don't push or you might scare him off he may need just a little tiny bit more convincing so play it cool if you want it to work out
2007-01-10 22:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by anjilla_kohl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants u tell him to stop with the games and be real, put it all out there if u want me let me know if u dont then stop with all the extra activities!He knows that he wants u maybe he's scared, maybe at first it was true that he didn't want to date but now being around u and all that he cant control himself anymore, He's like friendship circle...What is that? Girl he wants u!
2007-01-10 21:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by SingleMommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. He's probably embarrassed to make a move because he already made the "friendship circle" comment. When the moment's right, kiss him. The rest will fall into place.
2007-01-10 21:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously likes you and doesn't want the friendship to get ruined. if i were you i would sit down and talk to him about it, ask him what he wants now - that was then, this is now. sounds like his feelings have changed and if they haven't then tell him he should keep his hands to himself until his feelings do change. it sounds like he likes you though. :) hope it all goes well! good luck!
2007-01-10 21:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by kera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just conflicted about what to do since you both know a lot of the same people. he definetly likes you and wants to step to you. but, his doubts are holding him back. if you want to really kick it with him, then just let him know that things will be cool and that there will be no drama regardless of whether or not your relationship works.
2007-01-10 21:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by Rell Smooth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust what guys say......but you can always tell what they're thinking when looking into their eyes. He wants you girl!!!!
2007-01-10 21:57:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes you alot. Just keep beening his friend and see what happens. good luck
2007-01-10 21:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋