me and this guy had sex which happened in the moment naturally..it was great. he didn't talk much the first time, and when he was putting the condom on, i knew he was but stupid me asked what he was doing and he said "nothing"..i then asked if he was going to use a condom and he said "yes"..he even let me feel it to make sure it was on him. he didn't talk much at all that time during sex, but the second time we had sex he talked a lot more and constantly asked me if i was alright. after the first time we had sex, me and him went to the casino, and then i left because i wanted to go lay down. he told me he'd come back, but i wasn't sure if he would. well, sure enough..he came back to sleepover and hang out with me..and after the second time we had sex he slept over as well and we layed together. he said really sweet things to me about how i was his girlfriend on this vacation, and we held hands and acted as a couple. and yes, of course we also hung out and it was not all about sex at all. he's kiss me on the cheek a lot..and he cared about me and treated me with a lot of respect. however, we can't be together now because we live really far away. we talked after the cruise, he contacted me right away. i want to get over him though, because now it's been awhile and he has a girlfriend.
do you think he really liked me from what you hear?
ps. i never did anything to him physically such as giving him head, and he also was not with any other girls, and he asked my friend what the deal with me was, and he got upset because he thought i was with another guy for two nights of the cruise.
2007-01-10 13:55:29 · 12 answers · asked by jess p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
" i never did anything to him physically "
No you just had sex with him a couple of times. Nothing physical at all. So what else is there
2007-01-10 14:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many times when we jump into the sack with someone without really knowing them, we end up with our feelings hurt. He chose you on the cruise and out of all the other girls he probably preferred you, however, he had a girl at home...this guy is a jerk. He got mad because he was afraid you might be with someone else on the cruise and he would have to find someone else. Guys like this often have insecurity issues that they would never admit to. That is why he whispered sweet-nothings into your ear trying to get you to fall for him..this keeps him from second guessing himself.. move on and try to forget this guy..if he would do it to the girlfriend he had waiting at home..he would do it to you. Don't trust him.
2007-01-10 22:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He liked you .. But now that the cruise is done he moves to the next girl he see's or wants.. It's normal... So move on hun ... He just wanted some company on the cruise it's normal for guys to do this... Some girls do it to... So just forget about it ... Because on the cruise it was all about you because you were there and wanted him...
2007-01-10 22:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes himself. He uses girls like a stick of gum.....Chews them up, and then spits them out.
He doesn't respct you. You probably don't even know his real name. Why would you want to be somebody's girlfriend when you say he already has one? You were NOT respecting his girlfriend, and neither was he.
He doesn't like you. He likes sex with loose girls. You should probably have some VD testing done.
2007-01-10 22:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does like you but you will not know for sure until the cruise is over. if he continues to treat well ater the cruise then you have hope for the both of you.
2007-01-10 22:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by Cessy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of coruse he liked you. i think what you two had was a great experience, and i would not regret it at all. dont try to forget about him, you can still be happy about the times you had and hold a place in your heart for him, but at the same time, get to know other guys... plenty are out there
2007-01-10 22:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by chris_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sounds like he cared and still does,he would of left you the first time if he was"using"you but he stayed and was sweet:)
2007-01-10 21:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by carly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd say he liked u, but it was a ship-board romance, now over. Find someone close to home, & forget about him, it was just "one of those things".
2007-01-10 22:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by louise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds alot like a fling to me.
2007-01-10 21:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by A.P. P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah i think he sould
2007-01-10 21:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋