if you and your ex was on and off for a couple of months then he cheated on u and u quit tryin with him but out of no where he calls and now u want him back....if u loved someone so deeply and they meant everything to u would u take them back and work it out. they say that they are trying to change....could u do it over again? could u start over? could u trust again and forget it? if they are the only one for u and u kno it. what would u do?
2007-01-10 13:46:42 · 7 answers · asked by LeAnn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh heck no...I would tell him to jump off the nearest bridge...
2007-01-10 13:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard question for anyone to give advice to because you have to answer the last few questions yourself. we can say what we'd do but its all on what you would do. it depends, would you be able to deal with the fact that he cheated on you? would you be able to forget him being with other girls or would it taunt you all the time and end up causing you more pain then its worth? are you the jealous type? would he do it again? these are things you need to concider. as far as me, i would not give someone the time of day if they cheated on me because that means they didn't respect me or care for me, or else they would not have done that. if they were unhappy the least they could do is tell me straight up. like i said, its up to you, that was just my opinion. good luck!
2007-01-10 21:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by kera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could work out but i think it would be best to get over him. I know how much it hurts. I know that you think about him 24-7 and you hate seeing him with other girls but it will pass. I've been there. I've dated a boyfriend twice because i really loved him but he broke my heart twice and that's the worst feeling in the world. I know your heart is saying you want to go back with him but do you really want to get hurt again?
2007-01-10 21:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by nagas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could because ive done it over and over again but what makes things more complicated for me is our two children. the question that we need to ask ourselves, me included, though is for how long will they change? until they get back into the relationship and comfortable and think that theyve got us where they want us and then their true colors shine through again. we both know they are never going to change but yet we keep praying. we are in denial - we need to recognize that, the sooner we do the sooner we can move on and find someone to make us happy.
2007-01-10 21:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally... i wud try again... becuz u shud never give up on ur true love. and if u know he is the one for u then u shud just go for it. thats all in the past. stop tinking about the past and deal with the present. thats how i feel. cuz thinking of the negativememorys in the past will just make u more stressed. so ya try over again. its the best way to handle it. good luck
2007-01-10 21:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by jessicacd91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been through this before but without the cheating stuff. it also took me ages to decide. but i chose to give it another go. but only as friends, with no commitment. cause its very hard to commit into something you're unsure of. after months, i noticed that he did change. and now, we've been together for like...more than 3years.
2007-01-10 21:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by aesthetic90210 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woww. uhhmm... lol. It depends if i think if he's worthy of a second chance! Sometimes I just KNOW that guys aren't for real, and I just forget about them. but if u really think this is the one then yeah maybe one more chance wouldn't hurt now would it? You can really tell a deep, heart-felt apology from a.. "crappy" one lol.
2007-01-10 21:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋