ok i dont get it i was talking to my best friend and ive known her since i was in 3rd grade and she was tlkin to my ex and i called him an *** cause he was laughin at the fact that Chinese peple sometimes have to abandon thier children and she got mad at me and took his side and i know that she really likes him cuase first off its just obvious and second she keeps dreaming about him but even if im wrong i think she should take my side just cause shes my friend i mean it doest really matter if im right or wrong i always take her side and defend her so shouldnt she do the same or am i just paranoid???
2007-01-10 14:07:00 · 9 answers · asked by Katarina P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she aint ur friend... plain and simple
2007-01-10 14:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hells no! gurl this is not a friend. she is taking your EX-BOYFRIENDS side. when people like this take a guys side more then their bestfriends side then im sorry to say that she aint your friend. i kinda went trough this situation but i got over it now. anyhow if she never takes your side then what type of friend is she dont be all messed up about it but talk to her and tell her how you feel about this situation. friends should always come first when it comes to guys and in your case she is putting ur ex infront of you. i mean you guys are friends since 3rd grade thats a long friendship and trust me either you put a stop to it or get over it and stay as her friend i mean a pretty long friendship.or just simply let her get the picture.(do the same to her if you want) besides its kinda meesed up of her to be talking to your ex i mean are you ok with it?
2007-01-10 14:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by krazy&sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right because friends are suppose to be real with you maybe it's because she like him and taking his side is just a way to make you upset so she can have him even easier you should try talking to her.or she probably thinks you are sometimes too hard on the guy.
2007-01-10 14:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by angel star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what friends should NEVER go out with friends ex's!! that's the first thing you sould know! second if she is a true friend she would back you. and if she dosent let her know that he was your firend first. dreams are not what is to come, it represents that she want's a relationship, and he's just a guy she knows! if she starts going after your ex- she's not your friend!
2007-01-10 14:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not taking her side now....
How about you only take her side when she's right? Be nice to her, but don't "agree" with her just because she's your friend. I wouldn't want a friend with no mind of her own anyway.
2007-01-10 14:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she is not your best friend when she never takes your side. Friendship is about two people listening to two points of view not just about her. She needs to listen you and you are apart of her life too. and if she can't deal with that then you are truely not best friends.
2007-01-10 14:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by jrealitytv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she's your friend doesn't mean she has to agree with you. She has a right to her own opinion.
2007-01-10 14:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like this girl wants what you had. Maybe she's envious towards you and she's trying to score major brownie points with him.
2007-01-10 14:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time has taken it's toll on your friendship, time for a new friend.
2007-01-10 14:14:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋