so I lost my father at age 13 and my boyfriend and i are thinking about getting married but the problem is the father and daughter dance. Is it possible to have a mother and daughter dance??.
2007-01-10 14:06:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My father had died two years before our wedding, so I know what you are going through. I had my older brother dance with me at that time. However, my mom did come get me for a dance later in the evening, she surprized the heck out of me, but it was so cool!
So, do it with your mom!
2007-01-10 14:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can have a mother and daughter dance. I've seen this done.
Or, in place of the father/daughter dance, have an anniversary dance. For this dance, all the married couples dance. As the song plays, the DJ says "Will anyone married less than 1 year please sit down" and so on until only one couple, the longest married, is left dancing.
2007-01-10 14:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We just skipped that part. My parents have been divorced for a long time and our problem was the switching. Eventually my husband and I did dance with all our parents (both of our parents are divorced and his dad is remarried) It took a lot of stress off of an uncomfortable situation. The only formal dance we did was our first dance.
2007-01-10 16:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by emmandal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to have any kind of dance you want, it's your wedding. I think that would be beautiful. My dad also passed and I would have done that with my mother too but she also passed last year. Do whatever makes you the happiest on your big day.
2007-01-10 14:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do any special dances if you don't want to. I did two dances--one with my dad and one with my stepdad.
I say go for it! This is your special day and if you want to honor your mother that way, by all means.
Btw, I think you should ask your mom what she'd want to do. I think she'd be honored even if she doesn't want to dance with you. :)
2007-01-10 14:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Dawn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says you even have to have a dance?
2007-01-10 14:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by gummygrins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure this could be fun....you could pick out one of your moms favourite dance songs and after awhile invite everyone to join you!
2007-01-10 14:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by Ŗεŋεε 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can share your special dance with anyone you like. It's your day.
2007-01-10 14:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by Dom . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not or pic your close uncle or cusin unless you just choose to do mother and daughter dance
2007-01-10 14:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by lugnutt_65 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is! Work with what you have-I'm sure your mom would be honored.
Congratulations
2007-01-11 02:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋