2007-01-10
14:02:01
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I have been with him for 4 yrs. 1 yr ago he took a job about 2 hours away from where we lived. I own my home and have a good paying job. This move was only supposed to last 3 months, then 6 months, then a year. So then he tells me thathe was offered a management postion 3 hours away but if it was going to cause a problem then he wouldn't take it. I said although I supported him I felt it would be hard and cause a problem. He still took it. Due to our lifestyle this person's family doesn't accept me. So when he took the job it's only 45 minutes from his Sister who doesn't know we're together. So for the last 4 mnths I've only had 2 visits. I get a phone call his way to work & a phone call on his way home. O.k. so now he was able to get an apt. cuase it's hard to get one where the job is at. Now it's like "Are you ready?" I said "for what" he said "to come over here?"
I am terrified. The seperation caused me to go into a horrible depression and I am afraid of going
2007-01-10
14:55:31 ·
update #1
I am afraid that what if he sais he was offered another job offer somewhere. I feel like a shadow. Like my feeling's do not count. When we're together though it's usually great. I have so much resentment over being alone for so long. I am finally feeling better about myself and now I'm dreading this whole upcoming saga of train trips to see him and such! I don't know what to do. I would have to write so much more.
2007-01-10
14:57:20 ·
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You'll get goose bumps and will feel a natural high and confidence. :)
2007-01-10 14:05:45
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answer #1
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answered by Curious George 2
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When the person is the first thing you think about when you wake up and the last thing you think about before falling asleep.
You think about them constantly and get butterflies in your stomach just thinking about them.
You can't wait to see them and when you're together, you never want that moment to end.
You will not be interested in ANYONE else.
That's when you know it is the real thing.
It sounds like you might be "in love".
I hope so. It is the most womderful feeling in the world.
GoodLuck!
2007-01-10 22:09:21
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answered by Molly 6
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Love is a choice.
A good question woudl be if you know that you could forgive that other person if they did anything to you.
Being 'in' love means that someone else loves you. Having love inside you will be obvious because you experience that internally. You know someone else loves you when they care for you and do things that show they respect and want to make you happy.
2007-01-10 22:08:08
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answered by Anonymous
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When you trust and feel safe around the person your with,
when you'd give anything to save them,
when you care for them and visversa
when you wish you were with them all the time,
when they make you feel amazing and visversa
and when you feel in your heart that you can never let them go, then your in love my friend.
I am, are you?
2007-01-10 22:08:17
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answered by darkfallenangel 2
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For me I just felt it. Think about how you would feel if something bad happened to this special person. It is a little unexplainable but you will just know.
2007-01-10 22:07:49
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answer #5
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answered by Anonymous
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honestly..i dont know. i have been with this guy for 3years and my feelings for him havent changed. im too young to say that i have been truly in love because im not even that certain that what we're feeling is what they call love..just like michael bolton said: "love can never ever feel so strong". *wink*
2007-01-10 22:06:33
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answered by aesthetic90210 2
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umm either these ..
You keep thinking about the person even if you try not to.
You would do almost anything(maybe even die?) for the person.
You just really care for the person.
well i guess you just KNOW you like the person and you just cant help it.
you cant help yourself from loving.
2007-01-10 22:05:16
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answered by Love. 6
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When you wish what's best for the other person and are willing to put their needs ahead of yours, you are probably in love.
2007-01-10 22:08:29
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answered by domesticgoddess 4
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You wont have to ask yourself the question you just asked. You just will know and not question your love for your significant other
2007-01-10 22:05:44
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answered by . 6
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When you can breath truely for the first time
2007-01-10 22:05:29
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answer #10
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answered by Anonymous
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