He has a gf, and I have a bf..I think he's into me, but not sure if its real. Plus I really don't want for him think that I am a sl*t...what should I do???
2007-01-10 13:26:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Apparently, you are open to being with him. That sounds to me like you are not into your bf anymore. You should break up with your boyfriend since you are still looking. It's not fair to him. Then, when you're single, you wouldn't be perceived as doing anything wrong. By the way, why would he think you're a slut if he is participating? That sounds like you would be the only one...he would be just as guilty.
2007-01-10 13:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you might want to reconsider being with your boyfriend. If you are just holding on to him because this other guy at work might not work out maybe you don't like your boyfriend that much and are just with him because of comfort. That's not fair to yourself or your boyfriend. You can be alone for a little bit and find yourself if this guy doesn't do it for you.
Secondly, maybe this guy is just flirting. Plus if you do end of hooking up, would you really want to get with somebody that dumped his girlfriend for you. What if he is notorious for this and he does the same thing to you in a few months or even few years later.
If you don't want him to think you're a sl*t, break up with your boyfriend, put up the I'm single flag and put the ball in his court. It is a gamble because you might lose both of them, but hey you obviously need a change in your life if you are thinking about all this stuff.
Oh another way to make him think you're not a sl*t, don't kiss him yet or do it with him. If he's always trying to get in your jeans he just wants to get laid and play on his girlfriend.
Good luck
2007-01-10 21:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by lifeagent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it ... with doing one other guy besides your bf, you are just "comparing". Pick up a 3rd ... and then you are a sl*t.
2007-01-10 21:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule # 1- Don't date co workers
Rule # 2- Don't cheat
Rule #3- don't date co workers
There is a lot of trouble with this so spare yourself the misery and don't do it.
2007-01-10 21:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT!!!!! If he is in a relationship and so are you, dont go there. no matter what he says, he will see you differently. besides, you will be hurting your bf and his gf and you dont want that on your conscience. a roll in the hay isnt worth it.
2007-01-10 21:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by Roshonda S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the crush... but keep your distance. Don't take another girl's man from her and don't be that cruel to your boyfriend. You've got more character than that.
2007-01-10 21:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats a gf?
2007-01-10 21:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Annie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋