okay, so i had my first real kiss last night with this guy. as far as mine and his relationship goes, we're going out. he's my boyfriend, i'm his girlfriend, our parents know we like each other, they just don't completely approve and we're waiting for that day to come. there is no way in hell that i'm going to tell my mom what happened cuz she'd kill me. the only ppl on this planet who know what happened are him, me, and my brother (just cuz i tell him everything). its making me crazy that its bottled up inside of me and i can't tell anyone else because then ppl i don't want to know wud find out and that wud suck. i'm kinda in this position where i just went through something amazing and now i dunno what to do with myself. i had my very first kiss!!!! this is a really big thing for me!!!! someone please tell me what to do!!!!
2007-01-10 13:22:28 · 29 answers · asked by jgmice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey gorgeous,
I totally understand how you feel. Everytime me and my boyfriend kiss I just wanna shout it out too! Last night I went to his house and was with him, and I just wanted to tell everyone what we had done! (it was only kissing lol) I know its hard but just try to keep it to yourself, and besides...kissing is just kissing, it isnt really a big deal (compared to sex etc.) so just smile to yourself and know its all good for you, thats what I do.
Your parents will come around once they know that you two really do like each other and are serious. I hope it's soon that they do!
Good Luck :)
2007-01-10 13:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by loves.ozzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about telling your mom. She knows it is bound to happen some day. Just be honest with her if she asks you about it. We (parents) have a way of knowing what our kids are doing. She will be able to tell by your attitude that something is going on. She may not like it but she went thru the same thing also when she was young.
2007-01-10 21:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you also told the whole world. ha ha. Congratulations. You don't need to kiss and tell. Got a diary write it in there. Just enjoy the experience. Ah youth I remember my first kiss. I was 14 and he was 16. We rode bikes to get around and he took me mini golfing a lot. When he tried to kiss me I didn't know what to do. He stuck his tongue in my mouth. Later he explained what french kissing was about. I had no idea. Enjoy it for the time and keep it to yourself.
2007-01-10 21:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll be nice to keep these things as little secrets to yourself. Something special that you would always remember. It really dosent matter to others about your kiss, and those who would react would usually be more negative than positive. Honestly not many would care much. So think about it this way, since not many do care, why tell them? It would just be more valuable if it remains your own memory to keep.
2007-01-10 21:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by Bomberman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said the only people on the planet who know are you him and your brother, but you left out anyone who answers this question that isn't really a question. Anydangway congrats on your first kiss, that's the one you never forget.
2007-01-10 21:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by kangaroo Jesus Fish LaFrack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were a guy in which i thought you were in the first seconds in which i read your obviously long post for a question, you should wait inside someone's house or in your house seek out a way out of this then come out
go to http://www.teenhelp.org
this is the most helpful thing you can get from the internet
2007-01-10 21:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by Ressst 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there. one of my ex's who was two years older than me was not approved by my parents. it depends on your age i have a sibling who is 12 idn how old you are but when she gets her first kiss i know shes going to tell everyone esp. when she gets her first bf. find someone you can confide within like friends. stay calm if youre parents arent okay with it its okay no one wants to let their litte baby go. they will get used to the fact that youre growing up but dont push anything.
2007-01-10 21:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, it is an unreal experience and you will remember that kiss for the rest of your life, I'm glad it was a good one. Not much to do, maybe invite him round for some more kissin'.
2007-01-10 21:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write it all down like on a diary or a word document. like you are talking to someone.
it will get all of your emotions and how you feel out. its way better than telling yahoo answers.. i mean, most people don't really care, they just want points...
or if you have a pet or stuffed animal you can tell them that
i hope your parents aprove and everything works out!
2007-01-10 21:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by nikki! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sigh deeply, close your eyes and enjoy being the happiest girl on Earth for a little while. It's a wonderful feeling isn't it? And the best part is . . . you'll get to do it again!
2007-01-10 21:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by Gretchen C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋