Ok heres the deal there is this guy that ive liked forever and he just broke up with his girlfriend. ive finally worked up the courage to tell him i like him, but i dont want to rush in because he just broke up with the girl also if i wait to long he'll get another girl !!!!!! PLEASEhelp me i despretly need advise PLEASE.....
2007-01-10 13:24:38 · 16 answers · asked by hollywood_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my advice to you is to talk to him - what hard could that do? by talking casually to him you could find out many things you want to know such as 1. is he ready for another relationship? 2. does he like you? 3. what is he into/hobbies etc. - and you will do this by his body language and how he talks to you, if he will talk to you etc. friends make good relationships, don't rush but don't take too long. i think you will do fine you seem like a nice young girl, i'd say ask if he wants to go to a movie or just hang out or something that you two like to do, to get his mind off things or something - as friends, and see if it progresses from there, you will get to see if you even want to be with him & if hes worth your time. I'm sure he is and I'm sure everything will go great, just be confident, and you seem to be so goodluck!!!
2007-01-10 13:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by kera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, i'd rather b n ur position right now than mine but anyway, just relax and b happy the guy u like is avalable and that u have a chance to be with him. Just be there 4 him, let him know he can talk 2 u whenever about whatever and u won't judge him differently, ur there to help him get through his brakethrough. Um, try 2 be just friends 4 a little while since he is sumwut vulnurable right now and he needs 2 get over her completely first to keep u from getting hurt and 2 let ur relationship maximize fully. Try 2 cheer him up and take him sumwhere with u and just have fun but let him pout and be mad 2. Depending on how long they went out 4 i'd say give it atleast 2 weeks 2 a month, only becuz uz r already friends. Good Luck girl. Take advantage of the situation just not 2 much 2 soon!
2007-01-10 13:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going say, make your move sooner rather than later, but make it gently. Let him know how you feel, but accept the fact that he may need some time to work through his last relationship before he starts anything new.
The risk, if you don't put your cards on the table, is that he'll start something new without considering you...and this opportunity will be lost. Once he knows how you feel, he'll come to you in his own time...or not.
Good luck.
2007-01-10 13:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by David G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it. tell him exactly what you just said about you like but you not want to rush things because you know he just broke up with someone. let him know so maybe if he likes you to he will go out with you before he hooks up with someone else. Well also if he does not feel the same way about you it won't be said if he tells you right away and is honest.
2007-01-10 13:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cessy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely before everything, do not let this guy administration your life. What i advise is, do not let him distract you. in case you want him you may tell him climate or no longer he has a gurl already. And if he likes you tell him he more effective useful pick between you and the different gurl. If he chooses her then skrew him. Now if he thinks you loopy for askin contained in the first position, do not sweat it. There are over 10 million adult men in this u . s ..
2016-12-28 16:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out as friends, just to go dancing or some kind of get together. This way you keep him close, he doesnt go looking , and your not rushing him. then when you have chance then hit him ...
2007-01-10 13:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by gimlost2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a little while, you dont want to be his rebound. if this guy likes you back, he'll work with you in it..if not, then you two are better as friends.
2007-01-10 13:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by xeternal_heavnx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try it slow start small talk them try to let him talk to you start to contact each other soon after this you can pop the question if he really like s you the way you like him.
2007-01-10 13:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by Meghan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to just tell him that you like him, and you know he just broke up with that girl, and you understand if it is to early for yall to start going on dates, but you would really like to start hanging out with him.
2007-01-10 13:29:55 · answer #9 · answered by felicialovesjoshua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me/
I suggest waiting a little while
2007-01-10 13:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by cloudburst147 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋