My parents?

Question

I want to tell you my experince with my paretns. Sometimes my parents agured about the stuff. I do not like that. They were plan to dircove but they can't because they do not want to hurt me. I hate to see them end their marrage. I have no sibling and no sibling for me to talk if the situation is bad. Now I am almost 22 years old and I do not like see them end up their marrage. If my parents agured again, what I should to do?

Answer 1

Don't take this the wrong way, but you seem to be a young woman with a lot of issues.

You are a 22 year old woman. Yes, it's unfortunate that your parents argue, but guess what: that's their business. Don't get involved and don't allow you to draw you in. They should divorce or remain together because it's best for them, not because they're worried about hurting you.

You need to take a look at your own life and let your parents live theirs. No one can decide what is best for them other than them. You don't want to see them end their marriage, but it's not appropriate for you to have any say in it.

If your parents argue again? JUST KEEP OUT OF IT.

If you're living at home, count your money, get a job and move out. Stay out of your parent's business.

Answer 2

You need to learn to spell, at least use the spell check so you sound your age. It is not any of your business. At your age, if you are still at home, to tell them what to do or not do. They are old enough to do as they want. So, they argue. I think a lot of couples do that. You didn't keep them together, they would have split regardless if they really wanted to so, do not feel responsible. Get your life together and take care of you and get out on your own. Maybe they will settle down sometime soon, maybe not. Some people like to argue. I hate it but, I know people that relate that way. Just do what you can to make life easier for them if you are still at home. Make their lives better if you can, do what you can and let them go. Tell each that you love them regardless and that is it. They can figure it out now. Good luck. Please practice spelling and writing, it may be hard to find a job that pays if you don't know how to communicate in writing. Really. Finish school? If not , go back. you still have time.

Answer 3

So, you want your parents to stay together just to be miserable just for you? Gee...that sounds kind of selfish. My parents divorced way before my 21st birthday. Just because your parents split up (or may split up) does not mean that they don't love you any less. It all started when my mom moved into her own room, then my dad left (he started off with a hotel room, then got an apartment), then the divorce proceedings (took about two years). There were only two instances where me and my sister saw them fighting. I knew that my parents did not get along. sometimes people grow apart, and fall out of love. There is nothing that you can do about that. My parents are still divorced to this day, but they respect each other much better than they did in the past. You need to let your parents do what is best for them and stop thinking about yourself so much. If the situation is so bad...are there any close friends or relatives that you can reach out to? Dont wait for them to reach out to you...you need to go to them. and if you don't have any friends...then maybe it's time for you to make some. you are 22 years old. It's time for you to start living life for you and not for someone else (including famliy, friends, parents...whoever). while i understand the concern for your parents, you need to let them work out their relationship in a manner that is best for them. You want to know what you can do? nothing. I really don't want to come across as mean to you, but, maybe you can get some activites or hobbies to get your mind off of it so much. no child likes to see their parents argue. but that's what parents do. sometimes they just don't see eye to eye. it's nothing that you are doing. it's the nature of the beast. every relationship (work, personal, marriage) will have parts where people just don't see eye to eye. sometimes it escalates, sometimes it doesn't. you need to let your parents do what they need to do. or what you can do is to tell each one of them that you love them no matter what they decide to do for their own relationship.

Answer 4

You should let them know that you don't want them to continue in an unhappy marriage just for your sake. They really aren't doing you any favors. Don't they know that you know what is going on and can't stand to see them so unhappy. Talk to them. They deserve to be happy too.

Answer 5

you can try taking them to couples therapy. if that doesnt work, try to help them rekindle their marriage with romantic things. if that doesnt work as well, you can call it quits. you're an adult now, and in an adult world, nothing is perfect---help them through this hard situation, that's all you can truly do. the rest is their decision. Good Luck!

Answer 6

divorce is hard no matter what but you cant do anything for them they have to sort it out themselves

STAY STRONG



P.S.use spell check next time

Answer 7

they are sacrificing for you. can you do that for them?? they have to end it coz it makes their life miserable. let them to be happy for themself. just support them in everything that they do. as long as u know that it's right and their happy.
GUDLUCK!!!

Answer 8

IF you are as old as you say...You should get out of their way.

Answer 9

taLk tO them,,caLmLy and rationaLLy..teLL them hOw much u Love them and make them understand divorce is nOt the onLy sOlutrion fOr their prObLem..

Answer 10

divorce=not sexiii