me and this guy met on a cruise. we hung out since day one, but i never really noticed him until the 4th night. the 4th night we hung out the whole entire night just me and him talking about everything. and then he made it a point to make sure we were hanging out the next night. by the end of the 4th night we had layed together, and hooked up as well. he slept over that night, and the next night we hung out again. at one point he was in the casino, and my friend went to the casino and asked him to come hang out with us. sure enough, he came within 10 minutes and we hung out. me and him went to his room to be alone and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening in the moment. it was great, but he didn't talk much. after we had sex we walked to my room, and he was about to come in but his cousin walked past us, and asked if we wanted to go to the casino. so we went to the casino, and then i left to go lay down. he told me he'd come back, and he did to sleepover. the next night he came looking for me but my friend told him i was with another guy (which i wasn't). he supposedly got upset and didn't hang out with me the next two nights. i told him that i wasn't with another guy and everything got cleared up, and we hung out again. the whole entire night, me, him, and my best friend hung out. then my friend left with some guy, and me and this guy ended up hooking up again, and everything led to sex again happening in the moment. this time he talked a lot more, and he told me he wanted to do it with me for a long time. he constantly asked me if i was alright, and we acted like a couple, having a cute relationship. the next night we hung out the whole night and kissed goodbye. after the cruise he messaged me right away on myspace, and we kept messaging eachother back and forth until about october. i had visited him and he acted the same exact way he did on the cruise and he kissed me goodbye on the lips and everything. when i stepped outside for a minute, some guy even asked this guy where his girlfriend went. haha. at one point i thought this guy had been avoiding me because the computer does crazy things, so i messaged him and i was like..if you don't want anything to do with me..please don't write back..but he did write back explaining how of course we're still friends and he doesn't have a girlfriend. i happen to be going to college where he lives in august which was planned before i even met him. but now it's been 5 months after the cruise, and he just got a girlfriend. i have no intentions of breaking them up at all. it's only normal to move on, we live far away and can't be together. do you think he really liked me a lot? or do you think he was using me? and if you think he was using me..can you please tell me why
p.s. i never gave him head or anything at all and why would he write back to me if he really didn't want anything to do with me? or why would he even talk to me after the cruise?
2007-01-10 13:29:52 · 3 answers · asked by alice r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he liked you but as you said you two lived very far apart and i am sure that led to him not wanting a regular relationship with you. Maybe when you do get there you two will hook back up if he doesnt have a girlfriend then.
2007-01-10 13:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a romance at sea is not unusual at all, it just happens... like you said it is just time to move on.. ya'll live far apart and if it is meant to be you will see him again, in the mean time just go on with life and enjoy all the other ppl that will come into your life.. no one on here can say if or not he used you... if anything you used each other, but not realy in a bad way... it is like the saying * two ships passing in the night *... if no harm was done to anyone just count him and the cruise as a very nice memory !!!! God bless
2007-01-10 21:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my dear...I am sorry but it sure sound's like you were a convenient fling for him..You had fun with him on the cruise so leave it at that.Move on and stay away from him he has a girlfriend now so there is no sense in torturing yourself over it.Consider yourself lucky that you did not become pregnant.You had some fun with him for a bit and leave it at that.
2007-01-10 21:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋