Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

used to date this girl, in the summer we dated and did some stuuff wit eachother for about 3 months.. but wen school started up.. we knew things wouldnt work... b/c we were both too busy with other activites. But it was a harsh break up and we both ignored eachother. Long story short.. i had a party, we talked... and got back together durring X mas break , but a week and a bit later we came to terms and realized again this wouldnt work. (we go back to school on mon.) However this time, we promised that we wouldnt ignore eachother, and that we would remain best friends and always talk.. it was a firm agreement .. and we appologized for wut we did.. was this the right desicion? b/c i was thinking to try us out , b4 we say it wont work, (even thou it looks like it wont). If it was the right desicion.. wat are things i can say to her to keep her with me and on good terms (in case i want to do something in the future?) .. it almost seems to me like there'll b nothing to talk about now.

2007-01-08 11:55:05 · 8 answers · asked by david edwards 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine (female) had an encounter with someone, thinking it was just supposed to be sex. Is it just a roll in the hay if the first thing he 'does' is gives you a long passionate kiss, continualy looks you in the eye during the deed, falls asleep with you after, kisses you on the forehead as he falls asleep with his arms around you, and when you wake up, he walks you back to your place and then gives you a long kiss before you part your seperate ways?

To make this even more complicated, they work together... he is her supervisor (in the military) and they were away in a foreign port. They had both flirted big time before they got into port, both read the signals. He is also married, but has mentioned problems at home.

I know the obvious... he cheated on his wife with her. But that aside, does it mean it was 'just' sex, or does he maybe see something more in her, even though it could never be? Why was he so tender and caring, and kissing her like that if it was just sex?

2007-01-08 11:55:03 · 8 answers · asked by synergie_hfx 3 in Singles & Dating

i need help i love him!!!

2007-01-08 11:54:58 · 11 answers · asked by Ivonne 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents recently told me that my sisters and their husbands hate my husband and are jealous of him (his job, paycheck, education, and relationship w/ my parents) and talk about us both behind our backs. My husband has self-esteem problems and has tried very hard the past 4 yrs. to be friends (helping them both move, help around their houses..) I think he has tried too hard and has came off as annoying. We spend alot on gifts for them and their kids and we feel like we get short changed on our b-days and at Christmas. One said my husband was not even welcome in their home to my mother, but our presents are and he is welcome when doing something for them. I'm upset over the news and do not want to have anything to do with them anymore. We are about to have our first child and my mother is sorry for telling me in fear that we will not include my sister's in our kid's birth & life. What should I do? I feel betrayed and foolish for being a door mat to them.

2007-01-08 11:54:35 · 2 answers · asked by cuddlekitty029 2 in Family

I am not sure what I need to do. I have been divorced for 3+ years. We have 2 daughters who are currently 15 & 18. Ever since out oldest daughter turned 18, my ex has had issues paying the support. It is frequently late and he is full of excuses as to why.

We are usually able to talk about this issue with one another but lately, it has not been the case. He lives in Florida and (although I have tried several times to contact him), he is not returning my calls/emails.

I guess I can go back to the court and request that they garnish his wages. I was really trying to have a civil divorce and not go back to court to go over this issue.

Just as a further piece of info to my question, I do have custody and placement of both of the girls (the 18 year old is now a full time college student)

I am only asking for support for our younger daughter. What steps can I take to convince him that it is important that he continue to send the support??

Any suggestions would be welcome.

2007-01-08 11:53:59 · 12 answers · asked by jan k 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok during school break my guy friend had a birthday i didnt go to his birthday party cuz it snowed i live in colorado!!! and i told him i was going to give him his present when we go back to school I DONT HAVE A PRESENT AND WE GO BACK TO SCHOOL TOMORROW WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!! i have nothing i dont want to give him a card because i gave him a x-mas card! and i dont have a photo of him or anything i dont know what ot give him?! i need to give him something somebody please help me!!!!!!!!

2007-01-08 11:53:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok my boyfriend is being a total jurk and makeing fun of over weight people and slow people right to their face and its so mean i talked 2 him about it but he wont listen. what do i do its sooooo mean!!!!!!

2007-01-08 11:53:52 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 11:53:33 · 6 answers · asked by concerned mother 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If we started seeing each other and after 2 or 3 dates I told you that I liked to dress as a girl, would you still go out with me?

As I only do it in private at the moment but was thinking about venturing out on special occassions only, so would you be happy with this as well?

2007-01-08 11:53:21 · 5 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Singles & Dating

Just want to know what women are thinking ? This is not chatting So Dont pull this Question .

2007-01-08 11:52:57 · 3 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

If you meet a girl that you are extremely physically attracted to, is it hard for you to know if you are only reacting to her hormonally or do you usually know if you want something more than just a physical relationship?

If it is hard to know when you initially meet her, how long does it usually take you before you know if you also want a relationship with her?

2007-01-08 11:52:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married nearly 15 years and have two children. I was married very young (aged 20). My husband and I had a long distance relationship when we were going out and thus wrote many letters and only talked once a week. We only saw each other a couple of times before we married. We developed a great friendship and still are the best of friends. Though, I have never had a great physical attraction to him (he is a nice looking guy though). I hoped that it would come, but it just hasnt and am now looking elsewhere for phyiscal attraction. As I was brought up in a strict Christian household, there was no "try before you buy" so was not able to realise beforehand that there would be problems in the bedroom. I am at loss what to do as I love him, I dont want to break up my family, but I need to experience a relationship where I am physically attracted to someone. Plus, I think my husband would be better off with someone who can give him more love and affection than I can give.

2007-01-08 11:52:33 · 30 answers · asked by Peach 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 11:50:39 · 22 answers · asked by queequeg 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Serious!!

2007-01-08 11:50:17 · 13 answers · asked by cheetah 3 in Singles & Dating

he like annoys me and i dunno y ..n im startin to like this other dude but i been with him 2 yrs n kno he loves me...

2007-01-08 11:49:59 · 33 answers · asked by 07Navy_Linnie17 1 in Singles & Dating

My father, recently retired, has applied weedkiller to his lawn in the shape of some boobies. So, now, there is a yellowy patch on the lawn, in the shape of voluptuous breasts. Obviously, my mother is concerned over his mental state and what they neighbours will say. His only response to our questions on the issue was 'I just love boobies'. He is 64 and other than this bizarre incident, he is a calm, dignified sort of gent. Should I do more about this?

2007-01-08 11:49:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i don't really know if i am pretty or not, and i know that my sisters, my brothers or my friends wouldn't be able to answere that honestly.... so guys? do you judge girls from the inside or the outside and why? ANSWER HONESTLY

2007-01-08 11:49:16 · 34 answers · asked by WickedWest 3 in Singles & Dating

talk about past boyfriends with your curent boyfriend if they ask you about them?

2007-01-08 11:49:06 · 16 answers · asked by coz_6 1 in Singles & Dating

Excuse me, do you know how much a polar bear weighs? When they say no, say: enough to break the ice, Hi my name's (what ever your name is)?

2007-01-08 11:48:20 · 8 answers · asked by Avatar89 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, there is this guy who is in LOVE with me. I am really good friends with him too. He has asked me out 3 times and i told him no 3 times. I just want to be friends. But everyday he tells me how much he loves me, and how beautiful i am. he tells me that I am the world to him. But i would normally say yes, because he treats me like im an angel. I no they say looks dont matter, but he isnt attractive at all. So am i completly wrong for not go out with someone just because they arent attractive?

2007-01-08 11:48:00 · 9 answers · asked by chiulls856 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex lied to me about little stuff but it bugged me.We were totally into eachother but after a while i felt it would be better if we were just friends.We were dateing for about 6 months but after we broke up he asked my friend out but she asked me if it would bother me if she said yes but i said no cause after all i was hurt but i broke up w/ him but i told her i didn't want 2 see her get hurt.He kept like dangling her but he would always look at me to see if i was watching.I told my friend so she broke if off. summer came and we went back to our home towns and we didn't talk for the whole summer not even e-mail.We got back to school and it was like nothing had ever happened he wouldn't stop comlimenting me and he kept remindin me of things that happened when we were a couple.Iasked him to stop callin me hot or nethin sexual and after that he won't really talk to me just small talk.Iasked him wut was up and he just said idk now we talk more but its notthe same will it ever be the same

2007-01-08 11:46:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

give me 3 good reasons to stay on here.............

2007-01-08 11:46:43 · 13 answers · asked by Tony D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-08 11:46:30 · 2 answers · asked by punk princess 1 in Friends

Ive been with my boyfriend for 4.5months...i havent doen anything with him...no hand jobs, no fingering to me, nothing. Wrestling on the ground and making out is about it. We are both in college, 18 n 19...ive been tempted to do stuff, but i always chicken out, n now i never find the opportunity or either 1 of us just doesnt find the mood perfect/exciting enough like the other times ive felt...i want to do something but i dont. Im willing to lose my virginity to him, but should i just wait for the mood? Am i being a chicken? How can I spark a mood? Am I being prude? Is this normal for a first time?

2007-01-08 11:46:00 · 27 answers · asked by Jiphire 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, i used to be with her for a really long time and i broke up with her a long time ago. we havent spoken in about 2 1/2 years but now i want her back. I broke her heart real bad, when i left her she didnt go to school for 3 days then on the 4th day when she went she left early cus she broke down crying in class. i no i hert her really bad but i want her back now. she is single. when i was with her, me and her had everything. not to be concited but we were tha **** in school. everyone wanted to get with me and everyone wanted to get with her. we had everything. is there anything i can do to try to get her back. I really want her back but we havent spoken at all. what can i do? plz help all u can. i miss her. i didnt even have a reason to leave her. i dont no why i did

2007-01-08 11:45:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The first semester is gone- and since I came back from vacation, my mom had put me in GT- Gifted and Talented.

First: it's really awkward. Second: I miss my old schedule, and I left all my friends in my other classes. Third: it's too much pressure.

Social Studies, Science, Language Arts- they're easy. Problem's Math. I'm not exactly a math whiz, but I'm not bad at it either. I'm learning all this new stuff, with a packet of work I have to do and such. But what now? I'm really tired, I can hardly keep my eyes open.

But I want to please my parents. They've been so tired lately, I don't want to pressure them. They ask every day how GT is going, I just put on a fake smile and say it's going great. They beam happily and tell me to keep up the good work.

What should I do?

2007-01-08 11:45:22 · 6 answers · asked by UnexplainablyBeautiful 2 in Family

i have had various speeds of relationships. I have had the slow ones where the first few monthes consist of talking to the mild ones that the first few monthes consist of hugging and holding hands to the extreamly fast ones that the first monthes consist of tons of kissing and the like. Although i am comfortable with the most part of these speeds (the last one gets on my nerves and the guy doesnt last long) what is the normal speed or does it vary.

(fyi i have been with more than 3 guys.... i was just wondering)

2007-01-08 11:45:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 21 m and she is 20 f, she has been my best friend now for almost three years and i have been in love with her for about two of those years. she has always been there for me she is even the reason i got into college. its hard to care about her so much and at the same time watch her date other guys without giving me a chance to even go on a date. she says that our friendship is too good to mess up but this heartach is starting to drive me crazy. how can i fall out of love with the best person in my life, and i dont want to lose the best friend i ever had. ?????????????????

2007-01-08 11:44:58 · 37 answers · asked by Ross 1 in Singles & Dating

i sware i will

2007-01-08 11:44:31 · 4 answers · asked by Sm!leyR0kz 1 in Friends

ok theres this boy named tanner i love him wit all my heart and hes the reason i live and i am like one of his bff and hes my bff and we like to hang and i know he likes cuz his cuz and bro and sis says he talks about me ALOT and sayin that im so sweet and funny and and all that stuff but i dont know what i should do cuz i love him and i've been told that he likes me and he stares at me he talks to me as much as possible exept on break time oh and im in 8th grade and hes in the 8th grade (TEEN DRAMA) OH BOY but i dont know what to do if i dont say somethin soon then im gonna explode words i dont want him to hear like I LOVE TANNER you know but i think he knows i like him but not 4-sure but anyways plz give me advice on what to do
im so young and i dont want to wonder for the rest of my life wondering what would happen but the deal is he's shy and im shy soo what do i do???
plz help HHHEEEELLLLPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and his bro is 11 and his lil sis is like 4 i think so we dont hang ok

2007-01-08 11:43:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating