Ok, there is this guy who is in LOVE with me. I am really good friends with him too. He has asked me out 3 times and i told him no 3 times. I just want to be friends. But everyday he tells me how much he loves me, and how beautiful i am. he tells me that I am the world to him. But i would normally say yes, because he treats me like im an angel. I no they say looks dont matter, but he isnt attractive at all. So am i completly wrong for not go out with someone just because they arent attractive?
2007-01-08 11:48:00 · 9 answers · asked by chiulls856 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should go out with him, ***** about everything you think is unattractive about him, And ask him how could he be in love with a girl as shallow as that.
But I don't blame ya, I don't want to go out with fat women either..
2007-01-08 12:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not. If you are not at all attracted to this man then you shouldn't go out with him. There is no way to tell him easily, you just have to let him know the way he treats you is wonderful and you love it, but you are not attracted to him at all, and it would make you more comfortable to be just friends.
2007-01-08 11:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by mdsmith9372 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really, I bet if you polled 100 people, 90% would say that they tend to go for looks first. I mean, if he isn't attractive and that makes you not want to go out with him, it's not that big of a deal. Just don't keep stringing him along, you'll seem shallow and insensitive, as if you couldn't care any less about him.
2007-01-08 11:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no looks don't matter but the possibility of losing a good male friend is a consideration to be addressed try going with him to a movie or other social event as friends if looks matter i would be single
2007-01-08 11:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by allaboutus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you aren't wrong. Remember, if momma ain't happy, ain't nobody going to be happy. So, make yourself happy. BTW, he CANNOT be in love with you by any definition you can find in a dictionary without ever having been alone for a time with you.
2007-01-08 11:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what you are saying he is a really nice guy you just have to tell him you don't want more then to be friends ... you have to be attracted to him in someway or it will never work ... good luck
2007-01-08 12:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by bonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to be honest with yourself as well as others. And if you aren't attracted to someone at all, then I think it would be wrong to lead him on.
2007-01-08 11:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him that there are no sparks, and you would like him just as a friend and nothing more.
2007-01-08 11:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
......well...... if you arnt attracted to him..... and dont want to be with him.... then whatever..... i know it sounds mean but... as long as ur happy enough without him ....
2007-01-08 11:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by 07Navy_Linnie17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋