Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

What do you think? would you go with her?

2007-01-08 12:27:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you have a sec and are interested read my other questions.....

short version....

i left a realtionship because it was starting to become verbally abusive and the fights were stupid and out of control.

he refused counseling for along time but told me today he has an appointment tomorrow with a therapist because he wants to do anything he can to get back together.

it is what i wanted for the longest time. i love him but he has hurt me so much in the past i dont know how to "get over" and forget. I can forgive....i already have but i have a hard time forgetting that terrible things he said to me. i have been going to counseling for the last 6 months to get my head straight about it all.

I dont want to be the woman who goes back and in a few months the verbal and emotional abuse starts allover again. I am not stupid and a doormat.

I do love him,we have a history that was not all bad. Can someone like him (angry, verbally explosive,sometimes very mean and cruel) learn to be nice?

2007-01-08 12:26:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband says that he loves and respect me because I have never used his money, and I manage all our finances in our family, I guess these things have worn me down and I stopped caring so much, I realize that I am bored with aspects of my life and have with general laziness

2007-01-08 12:26:44 · 7 answers · asked by roslyn_nguyen2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i contacted an old flame that i still had feelings for. he said he was happy to hear from me etc, initiated our first date, initiated seeing me again. when i call within the last week twice, he has turned me down to go our. first time he said he had work to finish (reasonable answer) the second time, he said he had a hangover and would call me back and never did. its been two days i haven't heard from him. should i call, should i leave him alone? please please help!

2007-01-08 12:26:26 · 8 answers · asked by yumyum69 3 in Singles & Dating

scorpios seem to be hard to figure out but here goes at first he was quiet we work together. then he started talking to me asking for help so i helped we talk im usually shy and as time went on im not with him anymore we make each other laugh one day he needed lotion for his hands cause they were rough his day job he works with his hands he ask me to touch his hand i did he walks behind me i caught him checking by butt out and now i know y he wants me to go ahead of him one night just joking he said we should leave and head for the ocean he also joked about he and i sleeping together i think he was joking the thing is i cant tell he is complicated to figure out and i dont want to be to pushy what do u all think he called me out of the blue and i didnt catch his voice and ha said do u have that many guys calling u i said no is he interested in me for a night of sex ormore please honestly what do u think? he ask me so many questions i thought i was on trial lol

2007-01-08 12:26:04 · 2 answers · asked by shelly_has_heart 1 in Singles & Dating

you know get married, start a family, get serious about a career etc.



(= much appreciated

2007-01-08 12:25:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We dont have a commitment, so I dont have the right to question it. What would you do honestly?

2007-01-08 12:24:44 · 29 answers · asked by John's Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

I bought the house and had hired a live-in nanny and well things between me and the nanny began to get romantic and she caught us fooling around, so I told her either you accept it or move out and so far she hasn't moved out saying she still loves me but she says it's either her or the nanny, I plain told her I'd pick the nanny so once you go don't let the door hit you on the way out.

2007-01-08 12:24:21 · 32 answers · asked by Hello 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm curious. Haha.

2007-01-08 12:24:01 · 7 answers · asked by Starstruck in LovE 2 in Singles & Dating

I have blondish browninsh hair down to the shoulders. Side bangs. Blue eyes. 5 foot 3 inches. 110 pounds. A little chubby. Some freckles. I mostly wear american eagle, aeropostale, abercrombie, and nordstrom. Seriously, guys would you go out with a 12 year old girl like me? I am in 7th grade.

2007-01-08 12:23:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that is not aloud to talk to their sister? I'm not and i want to know if i'm the only one or not. plz answer!!

2007-01-08 12:23:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay, there is this really cool awsum best skatepark in the world to me called the allen edge skatepark which is in allen(a town in dallas, tx). i love the people there. okay i haven't been there for more than 9 weeks mostly because of school, but part of it and which really is becoming a huge problem is because i go no friends to go with. last week i wanted to go. i had my chance but i had no friends to go with. what can i do about it. how can i get my skateboarder friends to beg their parents or get them(if they don't want to go) to go with me. it won't be as fun. how can i inspirate or inspire them into skateboarding to get them to go because all my friends aren't skateboarding as much for some goddamn reason. what can i do to get them more into it. how do i? i need your best answer. please take time to solve this huge problem because i really very very extremely badly want to go to that skatepark. so just please solve this problem the best you could

2007-01-08 12:23:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 15, and many teens my age get to go out with their friends and have fun. My parents are different, and they are the common steryotypical over-protecting parents. They sometimes let me go out with my friends, and those few times that I can, I have to notify them with every little detail. My parents don't do curfews but I have to let them know everywhere I go with every person I am with. Over all, I am a good kid, with good grades and have never betrayed my parents' trust. HOW CAN I CONVINCE MY PARENTS THAT I AM A TEENAGER AND TELL THEM THAT I SHOULD HAVE A CURFEW OR AT LEAST LIGHTEN UP?

Thanks.

2007-01-08 12:22:27 · 21 answers · asked by Lupe! 2 in Family

2007-01-08 12:22:22 · 26 answers · asked by David D 1 in Singles & Dating

When i was 13yrs of age i use to sleep over my friends home ;i walked into the restroom and she was out the shower and she was on top of the restroom counter rubbing her self; never told my mother and i never slept there again. I was scared, because she was 15 yrs old don't know why i was scared but i was >

2007-01-08 12:21:44 · 6 answers · asked by claudia a 1 in Friends

And the time before that?

2007-01-08 12:21:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i asked this already, im phrasing it different. it doesnt matter what the circumstances are, lets just say what u think he should have in his savings. maybe based on your own experience, or what u know of other people, etc.

2007-01-08 12:21:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

French Kissed someone??? haha just wondering
guys act like they know everything but were you ever nervous or worried??? did you ever NOT know how to kiss someone like that?

2007-01-08 12:21:01 · 10 answers · asked by brendi ^_^ 2 in Singles & Dating

your teacher/professor??? cuz well i have this really hott teacher thts like 29 and like when i come into class and stuff he tells me "oh tht a beautiful shirt" and i was like "uhh thx....." he doesn't usually tell the other students these comments. and i always say he's my fav teacher and my friends are like getting sick of me talking about him and well i can't help it. on the last day of school before christmas break i was exempted from one of my tests so i had to go to the holding room which ended up being his class and i was with some of my friends and he was cleaning out his desk and he gave me this mood ring he found in it and like candy and stuff when he didn't give the other students. i dunno wht he's trying to tell me cause he doesn't treat other students like this. but anywayz i think i have like a little crush on him and well is tht normal and have u ever had a crush on your teacher??????

2007-01-08 12:21:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 12:20:58 · 2 answers · asked by mr. Y 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 30 years, to the same woman.
I believe I have figured out how to make your marriage last a long time, but I would like to hear your opinions also.
1. Treat your spouse like she is high maintenance.
Every day I tell her I love her, two or more times a day.
Every birthday, valentines day, wedding anniversary, mothers day and christmas, I give her a card and a present, usually jewelry.
Thank Heavens for layaways at Walmart.
I call her during the day and always tell her were I am going in the car.
I help with the house chores. I do the dishes, laundry, take care of the dog, make breakfast, make our lunches for work and our son's school.
My wife has a lot of insecurities and fears. Abusive father. By treating her as a very special person, we have been blessed with 30 years of a GREAT marriage. People ask me how do I do it? This is how; treat her like she is high maintenance.

What do you all think?

2007-01-08 12:20:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 12:20:11 · 5 answers · asked by mckinna 2 in Singles & Dating

will teen boys go out with you?

2007-01-08 12:19:30 · 18 answers · asked by Arely M 1 in Singles & Dating

At skool my boyfriens and i never talk?
OK MY BF AND I HANG OUT AT SKOOL BUT WE JUST SIT THERE CAUSE WE HAVE NOTHIN TO TALK ABOUT.....HE IS VERY SHY AND DOES NOT TALK MUCH SO WHAT DO I DO TO START UP A CONVERSATION

2007-01-08 12:19:15 · 17 answers · asked by mckinna 2 in Singles & Dating

makes email accounts and chats to girls as a 16 year old lesbian???????? i think i would break in to his email account and see what is going on, would you?

2007-01-08 12:18:24 · 18 answers · asked by freesiahigh7814 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband's daughter is so disrespectful. She is almost 22, married to a creep that doesn't work, & has a 3 year old. She is an LPN & makes pretty good $$$.

Husband is a bipolar ADHD kind of guy - can't hold a job, has tried to get disability - he is almost 22. She takes the 3 year old to daycare because she doesn't trust him to watch her.
They both have cell phones. They eat out because they claim they don't know how to cook. They both smoke & drink. There is a $100 cable pkg in their trailer so he has something to do during the day.
She has left us msgs asking for money to pay her utility bills - she says they will accept a credit card. We refuse to pay her bills. She expects dad to drive 200 miles to come & see her, but she wouldn't drive 15 miles on Christmas day to spend an hour with him.
I am really losing it when it comes to this selfish kid. Dad would rather I dealt with her so he doesn't look like the bad guy, & that's fine, but I am going to let her know what I think.

2007-01-08 12:18:24 · 8 answers · asked by Troy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf wants to send me flowers at my house..my dad would flip. so i asked if they could be sent to the school and he wasn't happy. what should i do?

2007-01-08 12:18:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this one guy that i went out wit lets jux say that i havent goten over him how do i get him jealous

2007-01-08 12:17:57 · 20 answers · asked by ¤ஐ*T£@§£*ஐ¤ 3 in Singles & Dating

if you had the power to do so, would you give a job to your gf at your workplace ? ..A friend of mine recommends his gf as the secretary of his boss ...I really it is a big mistake from him ..What do you think ?

2007-01-08 12:17:54 · 6 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so this guy I kind of know can be cool and funny sometimes but most of the time he will hit you and beat u up infront of everyone, he'll also crack hella jokes about you. I noticed when I make jokes back at him or hit him back, he beats my ***. I cant just stay away from him because he always trys to sit by me on the bus. what do i do?

2007-01-08 12:17:42 · 9 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Friends