At skool my boyfriens and i never talk?
OK MY BF AND I HANG OUT AT SKOOL BUT WE JUST SIT THERE CAUSE WE HAVE NOTHIN TO TALK ABOUT.....HE IS VERY SHY AND DOES NOT TALK MUCH SO WHAT DO I DO TO START UP A CONVERSATION
2007-01-08 12:19:15 · 17 answers · asked by mckinna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all depends on your age. If your young and in middle school, it's a phase. To have him break it is very hard. Don't make him feel as if he's being shy! Give him questions that wont be answered in a simple yes or no. Talk about yourself here and there as well, but don't overdo it chica.
2007-01-08 12:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a conversation of course personally me being a guy I'm not very shy and i talk to everyone I can although no one ever starts the conversation but still I would start up a conversation so that i could get to know them better i also understand that you might be weirded out because you were friends just think of it like your just close friends with benefits :)
2007-01-08 12:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by iceray0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are unable to pick up a conversation, it could mean you guys don't have enough chemistry to be in a relationship together. First off, how old are you both?, if you guys are young it's likely that you guys are in the relationship in a nonemotional way. Try to find out his interests, and go from there. If you still can't conversate, face it, your just not meant to be.
2007-01-08 12:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by beth3988 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
School is for learning, so get busy with learning because thats whats more important, after school call him and make a date, go see him, talk to him. He'll probably be more calm and talkitive during afterschool hours anyway. And if your really keen on talking to him at school and he's not being talkitive slip him a note.
2007-01-08 12:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i started going out with my boyfriend
we were both really shy. he's even more shy then me.
we didn't talk alot either the first 2 months. but later on we
became comfortable with eachother and now we've been with
eachother for almost a year.
you'll come up with things. look at your surroundings for ideas.
but if this relationship will last. you will eventually start
finding things.
2007-01-08 12:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by a_lawl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it's school (not skool) and PLEASE don't type in all caps...it's not only more difficult to read than lower case, but it's the internet equivalent of yelling (and there's no need for that).
Talk to him about things you have on common...school classes, his hobbies, his family, upcoming events you'd like to attend together, etc.
2007-01-08 12:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask so how was your day in school?You will have to stand up and be the man so figure out what he likes and see what you have in commen,try to do things out side of school and see if he opens up.Good Luck
2007-01-08 12:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by carly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you guys have nothing in common to talk bout. Yea try starting a conversation.
2007-01-08 12:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by nikki<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man wazza matter?
u wanna go 4 ice cream?
then talk to him most important find out every thin about him so he wont be too shy 2 talk to u later
2007-01-08 12:24:49 · answer #9 · answered by zarina s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats kinda like my bf. just ask to see if he still likes u or sumthing. and if he does see y he doesnt talk much. just be honest and everything. thats what i said and did to my bf and it worked out great!
hope the same goes for u:)
good luck!
2007-01-08 12:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by Xtremly_cute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋