Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

honestly, whatever i do, she does. i got this really cute skirt, she got the same excact one! i got these really cute shoes, she got the same ones! i got an mp3 player, she wants to trade in her IPOD for the same excact one! ive tried to talk to her about it, but she wont listen! she said to me one day "When i get MY mp3 player, i want you to put all of your songs on it" my mom says its because she wasnt brought up to be social and she wants to be, so shes doing what i do because i have "a lot of frends". everyone at school thinks she a poser cause she didnt know what EMO ws until after i moved here! she thought vampires were "nasty" until she found out I like them. as ive said already Ive tried to talk to her but she doesnt think shes being a poser! she gets all cocky and she said "If im such a poser then why'd you buy the same skirt as me?" but i bought it like 3 weeks before she had ever seen it! help?

2007-01-08 13:08:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well i just got this girls number from one of my friends (keep in mind that she doesnt live near me, so i cant talk to her in person) and i texted her the other day and never got a response, and im not sure why she hasnt responded, like she doesnt know it was me, or she hasnt gotten around to it, or something like that. well, do you think i should send her another text or something, cause i dont want to sound too desperate.

2007-01-08 13:07:53 · 18 answers · asked by wb 2 in Singles & Dating

I moved into my dorm room wayyy back in August. I did okay, homesick wise all the way up until Winter Break. A week before I had to return to school, I got really sad and depressed and I just really didn't want to go. I just returned yesterday, and I've never been so homesick ever! I cried all Sunday, and this morning. Now, I'm just really really sad. I miss my home, my Dad, my Mom and my sister. I miss them more than my own Boyfriend!
Normally, by now, students are feeling more comfortable at school, but I'm feeling more lost and sad than ever.
Is this normal?

2007-01-08 13:07:32 · 6 answers · asked by Leah 1 in Friends

Im not populer in school.. NO boys even think bout thinking about liking me... i think its shalow but i need a popularity boost or at Least a confidence boost what should i do.

2007-01-08 13:07:16 · 2 answers · asked by CryssB 2 in Singles & Dating

been dating tom for almost 6mons.right before i met him he broke-up with his gf.they have been dating on and off for the last 15 yrs(he left his wife for her).he has kep in touch with her since they broke-up 7 mons ago but has told me they were just friends.well last night i found a 5 page love letter from her in his briefcase.it went something like this "what tom murphy means to me" then she had eash reason numbered #1.you told me i will allways be # 1 to you #2.i love the way you smile when u look at me...and this went on for 5 pages! i could tell by the way she was speaking she wrote this after they brokeup.when i asked my bf about it he just blewed it off and said oh that thing its been in there forever i just forgot to take it out.well maybe so but i sware it was not in there last week,plus it was right infront how could he "over look" a 5 page letter?my question is what is she up to wrighting something like that reminding him of all the things he has done/said to her?

2007-01-08 13:06:35 · 3 answers · asked by jennyhomes6578 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my best friend have been friends for 4 years now and even though she is a close friend to me i feel like she hurts me i feel that im always competing against her like as if she was the one that always got me sad i always felt that our friends would pick her instead of me i dont think im jelous i just think when im around her i feel weak like if im just someone whos help less someone that isnt cared for like if none of my other friends ever even liked me why do i feel this way? am i jelous? sad?

2007-01-08 13:05:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-08 13:04:23 · 31 answers · asked by BULL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 13:04:23 · 27 answers · asked by amanda. 1 in Singles & Dating

been dating tom for almost 6mons.right before i met him he broke-up with his gf.they have been dating on and off for the last 15 yrs(he left his wife for her).he has kep in touch with her since they broke-up 7 mons ago but has told me they were just friends.well last night i found a 5 page love letter from her in his briefcase.it went something like this "what tom murphy means to me" then she had eash reason numbered #1.you told me i will allways be # 1 to you #2.i love the way you smile when u look at me...and this went on for 5 pages! i could tell by the way she was speaking she wrote this after they brokeup.when i asked my bf about it he just blewed it off and said oh that thing its been in there forever i just forgot to take it out.well maybe so but i sware it was not in there last week,plus it was right infront how could he "over look" a 5 page letter?my question is what is she up to wrighting something like that reminding him of all the things he has done/said to her?

2007-01-08 13:04:20 · 7 answers · asked by jennyhomes6578 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 13:03:15 · 13 answers · asked by Jeff M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 13:03:09 · 13 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm young, thin and pretty. I have a little girl. I live with my mom. My dad has supported me since I was born. I don't want to work so I think the easiest thing to do would be to marry a rich old man who is desperately seeking a trophy wife. How do I find one?

2007-01-08 13:03:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

other guys why do u cheat on ur woman if u don't like her then just break up with her

2007-01-08 13:02:54 · 3 answers · asked by Euro Boy 1 in Singles & Dating

ive known this guy since kindergarten and i never liked him before, but now i like him alot... when he is sad im sad wen he is happy im happy he tells me alot of stuff .. like his old crushes. he liked my best friend after he told me he didnt and it only lasted a week and we talkk aboout how love was a mess and stuff and we talked about wut makes love , love and in the middle on of the convo he said "we are reflecting off our selfs. i still he likes my best friend and it hurts alot wen i think about it i really want him to like me but my best friend would be broken. i dont know if he likes me that way eitehr because he looks at me alot and we talk alot and he makes me laugh all the time and we talk for hours on msn and on phone. he said he likes someone and he said he cant tell me .. even though eh usually tells me everything. i think i really like him .. but i dont think he likes me should i not say anything about it even if it hurts?

2007-01-08 13:02:25 · 5 answers · asked by sweet.hearrt 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my job but I wonder if men think it is unsexy. What do you think?

2007-01-08 13:02:24 · 23 answers · asked by ahhihello 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends and family always ask me if i like being the only girl in the house out of 5 poeople. Well actually, soon its going to be 6 because i am pregnant with another boy. Well my friends are always bragging about there daughtors, and im the only one who dosnt have a daughtor, and they say to me " dont you ever wish you had girls instead of boys, because your daughtors would more likely come talk to you, than a son would". That made me so mad! Im happy with my sons. they also say stuff like " I cant believe you actually enjoy your life with 3 sons, wouldnt it be so much more fun picking stuff out for girls, and buying stuff for girls". I am like upset because they are saying stuff like that! They dont have sons, so what do they know. They think boys are hard to handle, but they dont know that! All they want is the easy way out of things! Should i make a comment about having a daughtor? Or should i just leave it alone??

2007-01-08 13:01:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-08 13:01:28 · 14 answers · asked by single mick 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex called me last week, and he wanted to see a movie with me. We hadn't seen each other in a year. He would still say hi to me on msn during the year but we never met up. HE was the one who ended it. I went with him to the movie, but now I wanna ask him for coffee one day, should I? My question is: How do I do this whole friends with with an ex. What topics can I talk to him about, what topics are taboo, and generally, I need all the help I can get. haha thanks:)

2007-01-08 13:01:21 · 4 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 13:00:42 · 4 answers · asked by Love_Forever 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay so the thing is that my friend and I are always fighting and I can't decide if she is a real friend. I am starting to think she isnt worth it because when I told her who I was going to the formal dance with she laughed. I have only been her friend for like a year and the friend that I have known for a long time didnt laugh. We are always getting in to fights and this is almost the biggest ever to happen. I don't know what to do anymore. Is she a true friend do you think?

2007-01-08 13:00:16 · 24 answers · asked by {*Naomi*} 3 in Singles & Dating

any body know any good studying tips for getting an A in school??

2007-01-08 12:59:50 · 9 answers · asked by zack 1 in Friends

oh no dont get the wrong idea.

i really love my youngest brother.(isn't he such a cutie - see my pic). i love him in a sense of a motherly love thing . our age gap is about 19 yrs .. he is now 6 yrs +. he is much closer to me then even my own mother. sometimes we can even pass off as mother and son.. is there anything wrong to love yr own brother as a son?
or is it just a sign that i actually want kids.. haha

2007-01-08 12:58:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mom doesn't like hot weather and I think she's only dating this guy because he makes a lot of money. Should I tell her I don't want her to go or should I just let her go?

2007-01-08 12:58:50 · 6 answers · asked by J 2 in Family

my parents separated *cough cough divorced cough* because my dear old mom cheated on him for three months and she moved into a tiny house and I am having major trust issues, and I cant stay focused in class.What should I do?

2007-01-08 12:58:19 · 4 answers · asked by ░▒▓Mollyஐ▓▒░ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 12:57:55 · 21 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to the 1st family reunion of the Granados. Anyways i want to impress my cousins what should i wear not preppy something gangsta PIMP whateva you know?

2007-01-08 12:57:55 · 8 answers · asked by Jonatan 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright.... I'm datng a guy, and I don't want things to get too physical between us until he asks me to be his girlfriend. But, I don't want him to try to do things, me stop him, and me seeming like a prude. How can I stay fairly innocent (just making out) until I become his girlfriend. What do I say when he tries to go further?
Thanks!

2007-01-08 12:56:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need help! I'm always in the shadow of my best friend! She's the hot one, she attracts all the attention, people DREAM of becoming friends with her! I just happen to be her best friend. My problem is - most of the time she's making me look like a loser on purpose.. If i'm trying to make a joke everyone looks at me weird because either she already said that or she didn't like it... She understands what im going through, i tried talking to her but she simply isnt me to feel like i do! I know it sounds harsh, but she actually doesn't mean to do those things, sometimes she's just showing off! All the time my other friends tell me that im copying her behavior, but im not - they just admire her so much they seek something negative in all my actions. Most of the people i met through her think im weird bc/ they compare me to her.. I like talking to her but when other people are around I feel left out. Can someone help me - tell me what I should do! I have to find a way to get some attention!

2007-01-08 12:56:30 · 1 answers · asked by __ 2 in Friends

My wife and I got married 6 years ago after 3 years of dating. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter but our relationship is terrible. Some days it's great (when she's in a good mood) but most of the time we're both very unhappy. I love her, but we don't have the same outlook on life. I'm a risk taker while she's overly conservative. We fight constantly, and unfortunately, sometimes in front of our daughter. Her sarcasm is cruel and uses name calling to make me mad. I'm a very calm person but she always makes me explode and I end up hurting my fists from punching walls. She always brings up divorce, but never actually tells me to leave. Like she wants me to say it so she won't be blamed. I don't know what to do. I wish we could work things out because I don't want to leave my family. The thought of being without my daughter pains me. We've had problems from the start but I thought we could fix things in time. Haven't yet. We're not even sexually compatible. Should I leave?

2007-01-08 12:56:05 · 12 answers · asked by ballpark_p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and puts all the work on her mother in law to raise her kids one is 5 and the other is 1 year old the mother in law cares for them 24/7 the son and daughter in law live with her

2007-01-08 12:55:47 · 15 answers · asked by poptart 2 in Family