Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

I have a girl we are daiting for a month I ask her to be my gf but she said not now..She is staying with me for 2 days.I touch her , make massage to her,I touch her all body even kiss her body but when I want sex she just said no.once I was inside of her and after 3 min she said no again..I ll get crazy I cant understand what she wants?? Please girls help me to find out

2007-01-08 13:19:33 · 6 answers · asked by infinity 1 in Singles & Dating

is there every a point in your relationship where u need to be left alone. My boyfriend has made no effort to hang out with me. He doesn't even call me anymore. Does he want to break up or is this somethin everyone goes thru....it's been 7 months

2007-01-08 13:18:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy dated 3 yrs ago,and weve been friends ever since.We stopped dating for whatever reason(unknown).And weve always had a attraction towards one another.and he tells me all the time how close he feels to me.How beautiful I am.What a great girl I am. But we never spend time together,b/c he said hes afraid that hell kiss me,and emotions will get in the way(we see each other with a group around us usually).I know he cares for me,but he pulls away all the time.And recently Ive found myself to never be able to get over him.I remember he was the ONLY guy who has made me smile after a date.and when i DO see him I get nervous and shakey.And he gets nervous too.He said that he couldnt see us long term together otherwise we'd go for it.But i want to tell him how I feel.Cause he doesn't know.Do you think the outcome would be good ?I don't want to put my heart out there and get stompted on.

2007-01-08 13:18:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Leave your 8 & 5 year old daughters home with a teenage babysigtter while you go on vacation to Cancun for a whole week?? The father lives about 30 miles away and can't take them to and from school every day while she's gone, she can't find any one else to ....so the mother is going to hire a teenager to watch them in HER home all week? I'm I crazy or is that CRAZY??

2007-01-08 13:18:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i want to join boxing so bad i train hard i bought gloves bag everything but my dad doesnt want me to join hes nice and everything but still, after few days he said go ahead do what ever you want but i no if i join hes not probaly gana talk to me and yea we have a nice strong relationship as a father and son but what can i do to make his mind and enjoy what his son is doing im not a bad kid or anyhting im smart and all but boxing is my life. help for advise

2007-01-08 13:18:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay, so i like this guy, and i THINK he likes me back! (see...told ya) he stares at me, makes me laugh and sticks up for me. it's really cute and sweet. does he like me or not?

2007-01-08 13:16:45 · 24 answers · asked by Rachie-chan 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I if we took a second honeymoon would probably take a cruise. Like to the Carribian.

2007-01-08 13:16:34 · 12 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my family is killing mee

2007-01-08 13:16:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He was laid off 3 times the last 8 years .... during the times that he was employed, we paid for many other things for his daughter (a clarinet for band, school trip, summer camp 3 years, cell phone so no worries about when she needed to be picked up from school events, car insurance --- things that saved her mother money, many clothes, many things we would not have been able to do for the child --- but things that benefited her mother). 3 days before the child turned 19, my husband was served with papers for contempt and she is now requesting back child support, interest (50% interest) and attorneys fees. No request had ever been made prior to this that she needed us to begin payments ... now we feel like she set this up and we were her "lottery" interest savings acount. This is a woman that we were on good terms with, and who never once in these 8 years asked for the child support. Is there anything we can do?

2007-01-08 13:15:58 · 11 answers · asked by strwaytohvn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hello im a girl who is 13 and well my school is in to going out with people and in the 4 years of middle school u have i am in my 3rd year u have to have a least 5 bfs or gfs to be on at least the a list and im BEST friends i mean tight since 4th grade and they are on the top of the a list and the only reason im on the a list is because im friend s with them so the are always hooking me up people but the always saying the same thin "srry but i like u as a really cool friend" and i have this HOTT friend (top of the a list with the emos and goths) who is going out with a girl named natile and my two other friends are also going out with guys named nick and kenny so no a lot of people are calling me the ugly 3rd wheel and like there the pudding and the ice cream will im the jello or the fruit cup (everyone wants the pudding and the ice cream better than jello) so bacilly please help me get a boyfriend u can email me at iluvusher24@yahoo.com or im me iluvusher24 thank you
Love
lonly girl

2007-01-08 13:15:48 · 36 answers · asked by iluvusher24 1 in Singles & Dating

This sounds kind of wierd but i have actually met a few guys who have tried getting one of their friends (male buddies) to actually have sex with their girlfriends. It seems so strange I would think it was the ultimate betrayal. One guy even pressured one of his friends to sleep with his wife.

2007-01-08 13:15:24 · 15 answers · asked by lydia w 1 in Singles & Dating

Stephen John Mielke. I need to locate him to relinquish his parental rights. He has never seen my daughter and she is now 10. My husband really wants to adopt her but we cannot locate him. The county child support office has not been able to locate him in over three years! He has 3 younger siblings, Laura, Andy, and Amy, and his mothers name is Pat. He is from Minnesota and we are NOT looking for any money we just need a current address so my husband can adopt my daughter. If you know him or his siblings please please help. Thank you.

2007-01-08 13:15:14 · 4 answers · asked by momof3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, why do men feel the need to yell at their wives in front of the children???

2007-01-08 13:15:02 · 11 answers · asked by Smiles 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Let me state the scene. You are sitting at a table alone in the club, then a guy you dont know comes to talk to you for the first time, what is the best approach that you would desire from him?

2007-01-08 13:14:24 · 4 answers · asked by da_htowns_finest 1 in Singles & Dating

being running on rotten luck since last year till now,what shouls i do,any suggestion,help pls

2007-01-08 13:14:21 · 1 answers · asked by jimmybai123 1 in Friends

there is a guy I like, but don't wanna call him habibi yet. so I wanna know about some good sentences in arabic to tell him. don't want him to ask me if I like him. ok? but kinda wanna tell him some sweet stuff. so plz help :)

2007-01-08 13:14:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 13:14:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ive gone to school with him sense kindergarden. we have always been friends. we both play and love soccer. he gets jealous when i talk to other boys sometimes and he jumps into the conversations. he does whatever he can to get my attention. we have a lot in common. hes hardly ever mean to me. he always makes me laugh. i think he is really hott. he has a outgoing personality and he likes to have a good time, just like me. he makes jokes about kissing me or anything else thats sexual, which i think is cool. he isnt afraid to get close to me. he will talk to me when his friends are there, most of the time. he will take the blame for something i did in school. he helps me on my homework when he gets it and i dont. i love talking to him and whenever i see him i always get a big smile. ive liked him for 2 years now. whenever im away from him i miss him. i think about him alot. and im really hoping he likes me. but i cant really tell for sure. please help me as soon as possible. thanks so muc

2007-01-08 13:13:42 · 15 answers · asked by Rochelle H 1 in Singles & Dating

went out with this guy for 3 months and we kind of decided to become friends. It woudn't work out for us as a couple for now (I recently broke up with a guy with whom I was 2 years with and I need some time alone to think about school, myslef and what I want out of life). He also thinks we should just be friends. I know though that he would want sex with no stings attached with me. I know he still likes me and this would just be between us but I'm wondering, would this be a good idea to do? I never had sex with no strings attached. he was the 3rd guy i slept with. will i develop feelings by just sleeping with him? will i be ok if someday he finds a girlfriend? will he if i find a guy? what would you do?

2007-01-08 13:12:48 · 7 answers · asked by maya 4 in Singles & Dating

I was over at my aunt's house for new years, and a girl I had met on a couple different occasions was there. Now, I had always thought she was pretty, but we had a really fun night. But the entire ride home - takes about 30 minutes - I couldn't get her off my mind. I even had the butterfly feeling in my stomach. I also had a bit of trouble falling asleep that night since my mind wouldn't shut down, so to speak.

A week or so afterward, we got another chance to hang out. When I saw her again, it was like my heart stopped. Like last time, it was all a very good time, but I get a strange feeling like she likes my best friend (who was also along for this time). I think this is just paranoia, but the question is, am I in love? As a note, I also had trouble falling asleep last night, which was the last day we hung out. We exchanged emails, so I'm just hoping to be friends for now so I just don't screw anything up because I think I really like this girl.

So am I in love?

2007-01-08 13:12:28 · 4 answers · asked by iamdino2003 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a very open minded person and i get along with most people. I guess i'm pretty b/c i used to model about a year ago.( I have the same features as my picture)I run track and xc so i'm in great physical condition. I think i have a good personality but u can't really judge that by yourself.
I'm kind of laid back and shy so it's hard to attract the right guy. Usually i get guys who use me and take advantage of me because they know that i won't do anything. Guys who are really outgoing and are players. But i'm sick of that type.I don't really know how to get the right guy so please help me on this situation.
Thanks,Chloe g :)

2007-01-08 13:12:18 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know why it is so difficult to tell the girls to live their own lives, but I am having a hard time with it. One of the girls asked me to get an aparment with her. She said that I could pay the bills for the first few months until she got a job, but I don't think she will ever go to work or help me pay the bills. My wife will surely divorce me if I move in with her.

So, my question is this, what words do I use to tell the girls that I am finished supporting them? They need jobs and they need to pay their own bills. I am done. I want my wife and little girl back and I can't have them and continue taking care of my grown children too. My wife demanded that I pay her back every dime that I spent on the girls. She figures that I spent about $22,000 of her money. I think it was more.

Again, the question is, what words do I use to tell the girls to get a life-- not my life, but a life of their own?

2007-01-08 13:11:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I cannot wait until my teenage boy is out of the house! He is demanding, moody, hates school, annoys his sister, argues, has to be told everything twice or more & drinks out of the milk carton!!!!!! I can't stand it! He is also loud, slams all the doors...I am going out of my mind! Is it me or is it him? He'll be 15 in a few months. Am I being punished? What!?!?

2007-01-08 13:11:11 · 3 answers · asked by Forever 6 in Family

why is soo hard to understand the mind of a woman for a man, and why do women not understand their husbands?

Or at least that seems to be the majority of issues on this site.

2007-01-08 13:11:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it seems to be hard to find a woman in this world that is faithfull commited, accepts one as they are. as in i see alot never greatfull about the other person. there always trying to mold us to be something were not ment to be... and why is it i hear all the time ladies crying about decent guys like me are hard to find when alot that do find one screws it up for themselves by cheating, lieing, useing etc... it seems cry wolf. you want and when you get you destroy it.... just wondering... why do alot of females talk alot about us, when it is there side ( females) that are the reason decent males are hard to find... hmmmm food for thought....

2007-01-08 13:10:32 · 6 answers · asked by archangel8191974 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl at school and we dont like each other...she sits next to the guy that I like a lot in spanish...he used to talk to me all the time but since she moved there he doesnt even look at me cuz she keeps tickling him and playing with his hair!! sometimes I wanna kill this girl!!! I really really like this guy and I dont just wanna let this girl win! but I dont think I can just go out and tell him how I feel!!! what should I do???

2007-01-08 13:10:19 · 1 answers · asked by mandy_711 2 in Singles & Dating

If you dont know why im talking about, its bout the young/model she's really pretty teacher(im not lezbo) it was all over the news. she went to jail but the kid didnt get into anytrouble, i mean he agreed to have sex with her, it takes two to tangle. plus he probably had a choice. Like lets say my teacher is gerard way, and he wud wana do it, i mean..i wud he's effin s e x y. and some1 saw and reported us, and hes the only one that got in trouble but i wanted to do it so its not rape or anything. y is that?

2007-01-08 13:10:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it ture that most teens by 16 years old have it?kuz im 14 n most ppl in my school have kissed n sh!t u kno the dirty stuff.N i think im the only that hasn't not. or should i wait for the "RIGHT" one. this is for guys n girls oh yea n when did u lose ur virginity wut age?

2007-01-08 13:10:09 · 25 answers · asked by Euro Boy 1 in Singles & Dating

he is 20 and i hadnt seen him since last july and he grew a whole foot and has a huge adams apple, he is 6'7 and has a deep voice, im not gay and he isnt either but i immediately got an erection upon seeing what happened to him since we last saw eachother. should i tell him anything or just let it go. he is polish and has a lot of moles on his arms so that could have also stimulated my reactions. any advice would be appreciated. thanks

2007-01-08 13:10:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 20 and obviously not been married, or even in a serious relationship. I have a very good friend who is 33, and his wife recently left him, and moved out. She also took their 2 sons with her, but I think they will have shared custody when they get a divorce. He is so bummed and lonely. He went from having a family to having an empty house... What can I say to him or do for him to help him cope with this?

2007-01-08 13:09:48 · 11 answers · asked by pfwqjkhk 2 in Marriage & Divorce