I was over at my aunt's house for new years, and a girl I had met on a couple different occasions was there. Now, I had always thought she was pretty, but we had a really fun night. But the entire ride home - takes about 30 minutes - I couldn't get her off my mind. I even had the butterfly feeling in my stomach. I also had a bit of trouble falling asleep that night since my mind wouldn't shut down, so to speak.
A week or so afterward, we got another chance to hang out. When I saw her again, it was like my heart stopped. Like last time, it was all a very good time, but I get a strange feeling like she likes my best friend (who was also along for this time). I think this is just paranoia, but the question is, am I in love? As a note, I also had trouble falling asleep last night, which was the last day we hung out. We exchanged emails, so I'm just hoping to be friends for now so I just don't screw anything up because I think I really like this girl.
So am I in love?
2007-01-08 13:12:28 · 4 answers · asked by iamdino2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should mention that I've liked girls before, but I've never felt like this. She leaves me with butterflies, which is the first time I've ever had this feeling. Meh, I'm 15 if that helps anyway.
2007-01-08 13:43:32 · update #1
Only you can know if your in love or not. It sounds like you really like her but does she feel the same way about you ? I say you just go with the flow and see where this all takes you. just let it all develop on its own. you sound like a good guy and im sure if you told her how you felt and explained the same things to her as you did in this post , she'll be the one who will answer your question.
2007-01-08 13:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by ashlee_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger, I fell in love about every 5 minutes, and felt all the things you are feeling, not to worry, this too will pass. You are right in wanting to be friends with her, as friendships last a lot longer that "couple" relationships do in most cases, and by being her friend and getting to know her, you could in fact find that she is the one for you. You will look back (as I am doing right now) and remember these feelings with fondness, and you will reflect on what you did right etc, and hopefully things will go forward for you, just remember to live in the now, and don't rush things. Good luck!!!
2007-01-08 13:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, infatuated maybe, but not in real love...yet.
You really don't know her, you know a little about her.
So...who knows. With some time there might be love, but you really need to spend some time together, getting to know what each of you like. Give it a whirl!
2007-01-08 13:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Robbie trd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend... you are not in love. you are attracted to her and that doesnt mean that you love her.
there are a lot more stuff to consider when you say you are in love with someone... how large have you invested emotionally in the relationship? -- stuff like that...
ask her out... if you feel uncomfortable calling it a date then just hang out together... get to know her more. just do something... if she's really attractive as you say she is, then your friend might end up asking her out.
it's attraction... love comes afterwards.
good luck
2007-01-08 13:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by klao8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋