why wont guys like me?

Question

hello im a girl who is 13 and well my school is in to going out with people and in the 4 years of middle school u have i am in my 3rd year u have to have a least 5 bfs or gfs to be on at least the a list and im BEST friends i mean tight since 4th grade and they are on the top of the a list and the only reason im on the a list is because im friend s with them so the are always hooking me up people but the always saying the same thin "srry but i like u as a really cool friend" and i have this HOTT friend (top of the a list with the emos and goths) who is going out with a girl named natile and my two other friends are also going out with guys named nick and kenny so no a lot of people are calling me the ugly 3rd wheel and like there the pudding and the ice cream will im the jello or the fruit cup (everyone wants the pudding and the ice cream better than jello) so bacilly please help me get a boyfriend u can email me at [e-mail] or im me iluvusher24 thank you
Love
lonly girl

Answer 1

you're 13, you don't need to date, just focus on making it through middle school

Answer 2

chill out I'm 14 and people do the same thing to me I doubt you are ugly cuz if you were no one would tell you cuz they'd feel bad for you. Just wait you'll meet a nice guy who's not superficial but you definitely have time you 're only 13. Right now it's not the most important thing just worry about having the right kind of friends and getting good grades. Boys are a waste of time right now. All that drama about having to have a boyfriend is so over rated. I doubt these relationships are serious. You don't want a reputation

Answer 3

You're only 13.. you have your whole life to date and find someone who likes you for you. If you're looking for a boyfriend just to get a status that everyone will forget about, you're doing it for all the wrong reasons. Be yourself and if a guy would only go out with certain girls because of their looks then they're not even worth it. Trust me, in 10 years, you're going to look back and think what was the point of that? Besides, have fun being single while you can... you're gonna miss being single later.

Answer 4

sweetie, you're 13. The list is stupid, don't let it rule you're life. We had something like in my middle school but in the end it doesn't matter. Just keep hoes before bros and you'll be fine. Bc middle school relationships in the end don't really matter, you kissed and you giggled together but emotionally it's pretty much a lot of extra drama that nobody needs!

And you can't "get a boyfriend" it has to happen, because if you manupilate a boy into dating you it will just end horribly.

Answer 5

I think teenage romance is overrated. I'm 17 and have yet to kiss a girl, so you shouldn't feel too bad. I've only had one girlfriend in my entire life, and it was only for a few days when I was 13. Don't let others bring you down by using peer pressure to force you into doing things you don't want to do. I have everything going for me, except I don't have a girlfriend.

You don't need a boyfriend in order to be happy and feel good about yourself. If your friends make fun of you, then they aren't very good friends to begin with.

Answer 6

First of all I don't think you should be giving out your personal information if you're 13. Secondly, I went through the same thing except I'm a guy and it all started changing when I turned 16. So just wait people may later on be all over you.

Answer 7

Young sweet little lady. Please do not worry about this. You have your entire life ahead of you and please do not develop these types of thought patterns. Give things time. Relax. Life doesn't happen instantly. If you are uptight, others can sense it and will run away from the negative energy. If you really need help with your self esteem so early you may email me and I have some books and other things that I may suggest. Be cool, have fun. Life is so short and you need to start today enjoying it. Think about what you want in life. Write it down.

Answer 8

wanting a boyfriend just to be more popular is a totally backwards way of looking at things, but hey you're 13 you'll know better in a few years. Trust me by the time you're 18 you'll laugh your a** off over the stuff that used to bother you. Hang in there being a teenager is rough.

Answer 9

I had friends like you in school. Maybe you are just trying too hard. Whatever you do do not do things that are stupid just to get a boyfriend, that is how some girls end up pregnant and alone. You will find the right person when the time is right.

Answer 10

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Answer 11

if you dont l0ok for a guy they all come to you.. you could always do what jan did on the brady bunch and make up a boyfriend such as george glass hes a hottie... say you have a boyfriend from another school and then just show people a picture of your hot cousin... or go to a local college and have some hot guy take a pic with you and say i dont date little boys i go for older men... that should work well good luck