went out with this guy for 3 months and we kind of decided to become friends. It woudn't work out for us as a couple for now (I recently broke up with a guy with whom I was 2 years with and I need some time alone to think about school, myslef and what I want out of life). He also thinks we should just be friends. I know though that he would want sex with no stings attached with me. I know he still likes me and this would just be between us but I'm wondering, would this be a good idea to do? I never had sex with no strings attached. he was the 3rd guy i slept with. will i develop feelings by just sleeping with him? will i be ok if someday he finds a girlfriend? will he if i find a guy? what would you do?
2007-01-08 13:12:48 · 7 answers · asked by maya 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I recently split up with my bf of 2 yrs and also recently slept with him...twice, we agreed to have a casual thing just us but then he told me that he would sleep with someone else if he got the chance which really hurt me so its not happenin anymore. its really up to you to decide whether you are gonna handle it if he finds someone else, i think the best thing to do is to have a clean break and clear your emotions before you embark on anythin that is only sexual with him
2007-01-08 13:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have sex with no strings attached because there is never a win-win situation and usually ends up in a lose-lose situation. Sex is meant to be the ultimate form of showing love to the one man in your life(your husband) and something to bond yourselves together. Wait until you find him and know that he will complete you in every way, mind, body and soul.
2007-01-08 21:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by tx_earthangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are women who do the sex with no strings attached thing, don't know their rates, though. Sex does bring intimacy and if he doesn't want to go there with you, don't sell yourself short. Find a guy that wants all of you.
2007-01-08 21:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by lucy7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from experience bad idea. i got attached to the sex and when he found a girl i didn't get jealous because he had someone. i got mad when he cut me off.
2007-01-08 21:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
up to you hon, what do you want? For my personal opinion, dont do it. In the end of the day, you are the one who will lose more
Go and find someone better for you, you deserve it
2007-01-08 21:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called a friend with benefits!! Those can be fun, if the feelings stay out of it. :)
2007-01-08 21:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by Smilies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can have sex with any feelings than do it but if you think you will fall for him dont do it,it will hurt your feelings when he finds someone else.
2007-01-08 21:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by bstcrpntr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋