used to date this girl, in the summer we dated and did some stuuff wit eachother for about 3 months.. but wen school started up.. we knew things wouldnt work... b/c we were both too busy with other activites. But it was a harsh break up and we both ignored eachother. Long story short.. i had a party, we talked... and got back together durring X mas break , but a week and a bit later we came to terms and realized again this wouldnt work. (we go back to school on mon.) However this time, we promised that we wouldnt ignore eachother, and that we would remain best friends and always talk.. it was a firm agreement .. and we appologized for wut we did.. was this the right desicion? b/c i was thinking to try us out , b4 we say it wont work, (even thou it looks like it wont). If it was the right desicion.. wat are things i can say to her to keep her with me and on good terms (in case i want to do something in the future?) .. it almost seems to me like there'll b nothing to talk about now.
2007-01-08 11:55:05 · 8 answers · asked by david edwards 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on. theres almost no other way.
If your hellbent on staying together, keep convorsations to a minumum. Oh, and get your head checked out.
2007-01-08 11:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Interested 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really do like this girl and would like the possibility of having something in the future, stay friends with her. There are plenty of things to talk about you said the reason things wouldnt work was because you both are busy with other activities. You could talk about the activities that keep you so busy you cant be together. And be there for here when she needs someone to talk to. I dont suggest being tooo close of friends cuz sometimes when boys and girls become that close. A relationship or intimacy may be hard since you know too much..
2007-01-08 20:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should just remain as friends you both dont know what you both want unless you both have a sit down and talk about it all, about your feelings. Im pretty sure that if you already got other plans for the future,and it doesnt involve her then i might just pass and wait and see how you feel in a couple of months time. get to know her first while you got the chance, before jumping into a relationship with her.
2007-01-08 20:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why you made the decision you did in the first place. If you were having a good time, and really liked each other you would find the time, however slight, to be with each other now. Be friendly, keep in good contact, and invite her to functions whenever you can. Good luck!!
2007-01-08 20:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by magpie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are friends and that's about the best thing. You can pick up your relationship anytime you are both single. instead of hating your ex you can maintain a friendly atmosphere between you guys. watch out for jealousy though!
2007-01-08 20:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good decision. Keep in touch with her. When you are closer to finishing with a degree, if you are both still interested, then make another move.
2007-01-08 20:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you don't really have to say much. Just show her that still care for her through your actions.
And regaurdless what you feel don't talk about the relationship no more. It will just make things akward.
2007-01-08 20:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by aceunique7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally rite descions. ur cool but not together. staying friends is best.
2007-01-08 19:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by something 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋