ok theres this boy named tanner i love him wit all my heart and hes the reason i live and i am like one of his bff and hes my bff and we like to hang and i know he likes cuz his cuz and bro and sis says he talks about me ALOT and sayin that im so sweet and funny and and all that stuff but i dont know what i should do cuz i love him and i've been told that he likes me and he stares at me he talks to me as much as possible exept on break time oh and im in 8th grade and hes in the 8th grade (TEEN DRAMA) OH BOY but i dont know what to do if i dont say somethin soon then im gonna explode words i dont want him to hear like I LOVE TANNER you know but i think he knows i like him but not 4-sure but anyways plz give me advice on what to do
im so young and i dont want to wonder for the rest of my life wondering what would happen but the deal is he's shy and im shy soo what do i do???
plz help HHHEEEELLLLPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and his bro is 11 and his lil sis is like 4 i think so we dont hang ok
2007-01-08 11:43:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, 8th grade. What a year that was (I hated it :P, you're gonna love high school). Anywho.. moving on.
ASK HIM OUT. Do it. Don't think, if you like him, then go for it!! I met my current boyfriend about two years ago and I eventually got up enough courage to ask him out and here we are, dating for a little over a year now and never been happier! You have to go for it while you can but if things don't work out the way you want them to then don't freak... you still have lots of living to do and life will go on, even if it doesn't seem like it.
A good idea as to how to bring it up (that you like him) is maybe if your school has a winter dance or social/party then you could invite him along with you? Just say that "Hey, Tanner, would you want to go to suchandsuch with me? I'd really like you to come along." Or if there's no dances then try for a friends party or a big group of friends going to the movies.
Btw, my cousin's name is Tanner :p. But his sister is a lot older.
Best of luck to you!!
2007-01-08 11:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO!
You're still young and need to consecrate on your study. Nothing wrong with having a boy friend though. Just don't get all hung up on the love part. You can be good friends. Talk and see each other. I don't know if your parents let you date yet. Best not to at this point. As you get older you will understand. Just hang in there. Every thing will work out. Good luck and enjoy your youth. Because you will not have it forever.
2007-01-08 19:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
slow down back up and shut up.
its just a crush and not your forever soulmate though it may seem like it is. you need to find other guys and experience them before you can set you true eyes on tanner. I am in eighth grade too and ive hit some guys down the road and i thought it was true love but it wasnt. girl if you want him take him but dont cry to any of us when he breaks that heart.
2007-01-08 19:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if he likes you, and you like him, then go for it!!!!! I know it can be really hard, even if he is your friend, but if you are close, it shouldn't really matter. One of my bffs asked me out, and since i didn't like him i said no. We're still friends though, and nothing has changed. So go for!! Tell him how you feel. If you don't say something you may bth spend the rest of your lives wondering (a bit melodramatic i know)
Good luck girl!
2007-01-08 19:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by Hawkgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Talk to him privately, if that helps.
2007-01-08 19:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by Weston 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋