THIS IS A QUESTION FOR GUYS!!! please answer honestly!?

Question

i don't really know if i am pretty or not, and i know that my sisters, my brothers or my friends wouldn't be able to answere that honestly.... so guys? do you judge girls from the inside or the outside and why? ANSWER HONESTLY

Answer 1

I judge by both, but not the way one might think. I judge looks by how well you hold yourself, groom yourself, how you present yourself as a whole. 90 percent of all women have something going for them in natural looks, so it is easy from there.

On the inside, I tend to look for affection, compassion, and honesty. I like someone fearless, whose not afraid to live out life with me, go explore new places, or do new things. If you have these kind of qualities, everything else is workable I think.

Answer 2

Both. If the outside is not appealing then I would have a hard time wanting to date her. I can get to know someone on the inside. But if there is no physical attraction for me, then it just won't happen. Presentation is everything. And people always, but always judge a book by its cover.

You must remember what one finds attractive may not be what the other finds attractive. Everyone has their own tastes. My tastes are not the skinny model types with breast implants. If a woman can't be herself without needing surgery then in my opinon she has serious esteem issues I don't want to deal with.
And as for makeup, less is more with a woman. Wrinkles are a badge of honor and not to be scorned at or done away with surgery. Life is to be lived in all its stages, not just perpetual youth.

Well anyway that is just my opinion and I am sure many others will not agree with it.

Answer 3

both... the first is always outside unless you have known the other person since you were young then it's inside. Reason being this is not just guys but girls as well you do not go walk up to some and talk to them unless you are visually attracted to them. Think of it this way if there were 5 dishes on the table that you had never had before you will obviously go to the one that is most visually appealing first wouldn't you? And if it taste good stick with it if not the second and so on. If it taste good which represents to inside you stick with it but if it looks good but does not taste good meaning the looks are great(outside) but the personality(inside) is not you move on to the next candidate.

Answer 4

We look at the outside first (honestly) and go from there. I guess the reason we look at women from the outside is because of our nature and to see if there's an attraction there. I personally, look at the outside and once I start talking and getting to her, if she is what I want I would continue to pursue. Now if she is gorgeous on the outside and has a terrible attitude, no morals or nothing going for herself then most men wouldn't bother to pursue a relationship. So you see, most men just don't stop at the way a woman looks but the way she carries herself which makes a big difference.

Answer 5

personally i feel that it's a journey of discovery... to truly discover a person you must, at the very least, be interested in them.
there is no rule on how or why you are attracted to that person (physically or personality).

i would have to say that most guys' initial attraction would come from the girl's physical qualities but there are exceptions...
you know how you never really notice someone until you've got to know them better or when they're gone, then you realize that you liked that person.

you know the old saying "Dont judge a book by its cover."? i think it still holds true.
Physical beauty fades... it's inner qualities that makes a guy want to grow old with you.

Answer 6

The first time I see a girl, it is all based on looks. But as soon as they start talking I start basing my impression of them by what they say, how they say it, how they behave, how they smell, their voice, how they treat other people, and 1000 other things that are based on the “inside.” The reason why is because men are just wired that way. We are initially stimulated visually.

Some women, who when I first met I considered visually un-appealing, are now what I call beautiful, and some of the women who upon first glance were “hot,” have become very “ugly” once I have gotten to know them.

Answer 7

It's a little bit of both. I have to find a girl attractive, but personality does go a long way. Plus, you a lot of times personality will effect how a girl looks.

For example I like smart, confident women. They usually have great posture which highlights areas of their body that a girl with slumped shoulders isn't to. I have a thing for glasses and a girl who is willing to argue her point. I find fire in a girl sexy.

To answer your question, looks do count, but if the girl is dull or airheaded, I am probably going to stay clear of her. You gotta have the balance.

Answer 8

Good looks never hurt. But, I like girls that are good on the inside best. Outsides can change pretty easily. But the inside is what makes people who they are.

Answer 9

BOTH. since there can be girls who are realy hot but are total biches, i hate those, as there are fat girls that i would not even go near because well, they are fat, or some are just plain ugly. now i dont know about their hearts some of em are nice and all but i wont find out because i dont feel atracted to fat girls. so yes looks are important to as and any guy who disagrees its eather a looser fat ugly chump himself or just plain dumb.

now if i find a chubby girl with a sweetheart, guess what mylady she is comming home with me for a tough work out till she looks amazing, then how about that i can have both the hot uber looks and the tender heart that i love. aint that a good deal.

Answer 10

Well there has to be something physical that attracts. Its mandatory. Believe it or not, it could be eyes, face, body, whatever. We judge based on the inside but there has to be something that attracts us. Sorry but I noticed it. No matter if we say we are not shallow. We tend to be a bit on some features.