My common law wife and I have been together for 10 years, and we have 2 kids.
We have been fighting so much in the past few years that there are only a few days a week where I really want to go home to her at night.
I really want to leave her, and I am ready to tell her. But, she is a nice person and a great mother, and I want to hurt her the least possible (It won;t be a complete surprise...this has been coming for a while)
So...... How/what do I say to her to ease some of the pain for her? I am not looking for sympathy...many of our problems were my fault and there is no hope of reconciliation.
Even with her faults, she is still a good person and we would both be happy with a great spouse.....just not each other.
Also, do I mention right away that I plan to help her financially, and that I would not fight her for the children (ther are better with her than me) or is that going to backfire on me?
2007-01-08
11:27:37
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Raj B
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Marriage & Divorce