okay guys do u find it attractive if a girl is herself and not afriad to be loud and out there and funny . like girls who have a great personalities that everybody wants to be friends with but arnt mean but really nice and polite but still herself and not afraid of what people think
2007-01-08 11:25:43 · 28 answers · asked by lancasterangel03 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cause im that kind of girl whos not afriad to be herself and i found out being myself i have alot of friends and lots of boys want to be my friends
2007-01-08 11:29:53 · update #1
im smart too im in advanced math and reading and im a dork i love reading and have great grades . but i think people do like me cause im pretty but thats not right i dont judge people btw they look . and im not really loud im just not like really shy and quiet .
2007-01-08 11:53:44 · update #2
Yes I like them...as long as they know how to behave gracefully in fancy restaurants and other posh places!
2007-01-08 11:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of guys who do find someone attractive when they are themselves, I think that is best, But really.. and not knocking you this is a personal shot, I was about 265lbs and only 5'2" so you can imagine that fat girl who is always so nice shes a really cute girl, and she has a cute face, but I only had friends, I recently had surgery due to medical complications and I am a cool 130lbs and a smooth size 7 boy do I look good!!! I also have an endless supply of guys at my disposal even the ones I wanted to look at me just a year ago. I'm probably not the right person to answer this, but in my opinion men/guys/boys are all after the initial attraction, so sure, the can like you for you, but most like you for what you've got-- I tell most guys these days (especially the ones who don't recognize me) don't even go there because you would have never looked my way a year ago.. some still just don't' get it. Girl be you and don't be afraid of what others think, because someone will scoop you up in a minute and when they do that's when everyone will realize what a great catch they had right in front of them the whole time
2007-01-08 11:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by Leticia H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An amazing question! I find it highly attractive as long as loud and funny doesnt mean loud and obnoxious. Im generally the life of the party with my quick wit and humerous attitude and just recently I met a girl like the one your describing and for the first time in my life I have honestly met someone who made me just shut up and listen. She is amazing, bold, witty, loud, and in no way annoying. So yeah, being yourself and confidence is very attractive.
2007-01-08 11:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by forgiving_madison 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as said girl is being herself when she acts this way. I hate when girls act like they're all down with the guys and "wooo! I'm so totally fun and one of the guys, OMIGOD!". But if its in your natural personality to be a ball-buster, and even a bit of a tomboy in some senses, go for it. I'm like that too (that's why I hate the fakers).
Snobby girls are so annoying, so if you're friendly and nice and funny... you got a lot going for you.
Good luck hun ♥
2007-01-08 11:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice and polite, yes, loud not so much. Be yourself definetely, I'm not sure how old you are, but stop hitting boys when you reach middle school, I hated that, Calm down and don't act like you just had 5 monsters. Other than that be yourself, polite, nice, and not too shy but not to loud and obnoxious.
2007-01-08 11:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
herself yes... i don't want to be with a girl who puts up a front and when i get with her she's a whole different person... her personality might not match with mine she might not even be my type but if she is herself and does not put up a front i have respect for her and i am attracted to her a little if we dont click and alot of everything fits.
so regardless of similarties or differences if you are yourself then there is something very attractive about that
2007-01-08 11:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like that are usually awesome. I just don't like it when they scream REALLY LOUD ALL the time. It's so annoying. Otherwise those girls are awesome. Just require a bit of intelligence and they're perfect.
2007-01-08 11:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the best kind of girl! If you're not yourself, you can't really have a real relationship, because you'll be going out with a guy who thinks you're someone else.
2007-01-08 11:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by lazerybyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOST "out there" women are either crazy or fat. But if you got the goods and an "award winning" personality, I don't think there is a guy out there who wouldn't want that
2007-01-08 11:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by Neil h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hhaha dude omg my gf is so loud and funny around her friends and i love it but when shes with me shes just so...quiet and sweet all she ever does is sweet talk me and there nothing wrong with that but sometimes i want to be able to just be friends with her and be stupid and loud ya know...so yeah i think thats attractive sometimes.
2007-01-08 11:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋