I broke up with my "significant other" 3 weeks ago and I'm still moping around and depressed. Any suggestions?
2007-01-08 11:31:53 · 8 answers · asked by Nnnnewman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best thing I've found is to eliminate all traces of them from your life. Sure there may have been good times, but dwelling on them won't make you feel any better. Don't call them, don't sit around wondering what they are doing right now, don't look at things she may have bought for you as a gift and get all teary eyed, etc.
Forget them, and move on...because that is what they have done with you. I know it is hard, but you'll find someone else. ;-)
2007-01-08 11:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfshadow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I keep running into questions like this that make me think. I don't exactly know what to say. Oh, the usual things like, get a hobby, go out with friends, etc. are easy to say but, we both know it's easier said than done. They tell me it will eventually get better. I hope it will. We can't live with this kind of heartache forever. I sympathize with you as I hope you will with me. And I wish you future happiness. I can only say keep busy. I'm sorry.
2007-01-08 11:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, make 2 mixed cd's. One "slit your wrists" depressing one, and one peppy upbeat one. Allow yourself 2 more days of listening to the crappy sad one, and then force yourself to change the music. Also force yourself to shower, shave, wear clean underwear and call a friend who will drag you out of the house. Remember relationships do end for a reason, and what's for you won't go past you. He/she wasn't the one. Period. Don't get all nostalgic looking at pics of times gone by. (ps..don't actually slit your wrists, that's a bad bad plan.)
2007-01-08 11:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out, keep your self busy, go out with friends find something you really enjoy doing.
2007-01-08 11:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by Alley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have feelings and the break up wasnt because of abuse try and work it out if possible
2007-01-08 11:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by tmayne420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. Its worked for me.
2007-01-08 11:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by kelly l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep yourself busy, go out with your friends, do everything that will take your mind out of it and u'll forget about it.
2007-01-08 11:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by lady_master28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prozac. loads of people swear by it!
2007-01-08 11:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋