OK my boyfriend can't go to my dance with me and one of my friends said he would go with me the promplem is that this guy friend of mine likes me alot and i liked him befor i meant my boyfriend and i kind of stilll have feelings should i take my friend whohas feelings for me or should i just go by myself or don't go???
2007-01-08 11:31:09 · 8 answers · asked by countrybitc89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should go with your friend, but before you do you have to let your bf know and asure him that you and that guy are justs friends.
if the dance is not important than maybe you shouldnt go, ex. if its a valentines dance do not go because your bf should be the one going with you but if its like some kind of prom than dont limit yourself.
2007-01-08 11:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have a boyfriend. I feel you should go to the dance alone. Because if you go with the friend knowing that he has feelings for you, you may be setting yourself up. You may have mixed feeling about your boyfriend not going with you and make some bad decisions. But don't stay at home because I feel you really want to go. You can still have a nice time even though your boyfriend will not be there, just enjoy yourself with your friends. You should learn to enjoy yourself without your boyfriend anyway because in a relationship there may be many times you will be alone. Because in life things will come up and it's not always just an excuse. Have fun at the dance. I know you will miss your boyfriend not being there, so save the last dance for him, meaning dance with him the next time you see him.
2007-01-08 19:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by relationcounseling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend does not have a problem with you just going out with your friend just go and have fun with him, you don't have to cheat. If he's approachable then ask him first. If he gets upset or something just forget about it and go by yourself. You can still have fun without a date can't you?
2007-01-08 19:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Baddgyaal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is do u like ur guy friend more than ur boyfriend? if u do then take ur guy friend with u, if u still care for ur bf more than ur guy pal then go by urself or make it a girl thing and go with a bunch of girl friends///
2007-01-08 19:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by Summer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a boyfriend and he can't go for legitimate reasons, you should not go. If you did, it would suggest you are looking for another boyfriend and he would be hurt.
2007-01-08 19:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go. but if you go with your friend set some ground rules. make sure he knows you're going as friends and nothing else
2007-01-08 19:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go wit ur friend.if u bf wont go then he dont like u tht much
2007-01-08 19:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by Avril 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT HAPPEN TO ME, I TOOK MY FRIEND AND EVERY THING GOT DIFFERENT MY BF FOUND OUT HE LIKED ME, MY FRIEND LIKED ME MORE THINGS GOT CRASY, I LIKE HIM BUT NOT THEN BEFORE I DID BUT HE TOOK IT DIFFERENT, IF I COUNLD DO IT AGIN I WOULDNT THINGS GOT TOO WEIRD, BUT MY BF DOES GO W/ME EVERYWHERE NOW HUMMM... I DONT NO WHAT TO SAY,... ITS UP TO YOU.
2007-01-08 19:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by CANDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋