I don't know what to do! I've dating my bofriend for 2 1/2 monthes and i really love him! But all the things my friend has been saying has got me worried! MY last relationship ended after 3 years with him cheating on me with my best friend! I guess i'm scared that this will end the same way! Please help me i want this to last but i'm afraid of all the things she's been telling me! What should I do? How should i handle this?
2007-01-08 11:28:24 · 22 answers · asked by hippie_at_heart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a different friend! trust me after my last best friend slept with my bf we stoped being friends!
2007-01-08 11:38:09 · update #1
To all those who have said things about her getting her own boy friend she has one and she's wanted to date him forever, which is part of what i don't understand
2007-01-08 13:51:38 · update #2
i'd say she is jealous and is trying to get you worried. maybe you should set both of them down and talk to them to see what is going on. if anything is lose him and your friend. you don't need people like that. you seem like a very sweet, kind, and good person. if people think that is how they need to be friends with you and to tell you stuff like that and it not be true they are not your friends. take charge of the situation.
2007-01-08 11:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by baby_girl_46366 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I would lose the so called best friend who feels the need to chase your guys. She's obviously not a true friend. I would talk to your boyfriend before I listened to any of her accusations because she might just be talking so you will break up with him, thus freeing him up so she can get her hands on him. If you are worried, you need to talk to him though. Good communication is the base for any relationship. Good luck!
2007-01-08 11:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by ♫Joshua's~♥~Girl♫ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop!! Breathe deeply for a few minutes here. Now, let's kibitz for a few minutes, okay? If your best friend is the one approaching you telling you there is sexual tension between her and YOUR boyfriend, why hasn't he said anything about it? Before jumping the gun as it where, go talk to him very bluntly. Then, go and talk to her and get a better explanation about this whole scenario. THEN make up your mind as what to do about it all!!!
2007-01-08 11:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said 'best friend" twice. Is this the same person? If it is then I say dump her and get a new friend. It sounds like she just wants him because he's yours. She's jealous of you. And is this "sexual tension" only on her part, or is it on his too? If he admits to it then get rid of both of them. Definitely get rid of her.
2007-01-08 11:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he could elect to allure to close out someplace sometime, have a drink or coffee after artwork (or something corresponding to that throughout a casual way). you will have a extra robust attitude the two on his reaction or once you 2 party. and there is no embarrassment or rejection on asking somebody in the event that they could elect to seize a drink/coffee/something to consume after artwork, as human beings of the two genders do it all the time in a casual friendship way. once you're making it a delightful, co-worker get-at the same time interior the commencing up, it takes the complication and soreness out of the loop. attempt it.
2016-10-30 09:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by gennusa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it seems like you can't trust your best friend so ask your boyfriend. if he gives you a funny look when you ask him and tries to avoid the question you know something's going on. and no offense but your best friend needs her own boyfriend and not yours.
2007-01-08 11:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me...when your friend says sexual tension, she just as soon say that she wants to go to bed with him. Same thing. You need a new friend.....cause she is not one .
2007-01-08 11:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honestly your best friend is trying to get in bed with your boyfriend. Ask him if he feels anything for her. If so I would dump him in a heartbeat if not keep her as far away from him as possible.
2007-01-08 11:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by forgiving_madison 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if this is the same best friend, u should probably not listen to her because she is only trying to take your boyfriends, and if it has happened before, it surely will happen again.
2007-01-08 11:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not love after 2 1/2 months......dump the punk and pick better best friends who wont take ur men
2007-01-08 11:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by URworstNITEmare 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋