i need help i love him!!!
2007-01-08 11:54:58 · 11 answers · asked by Ivonne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him, unless you like him sleeping with other girls
2007-01-08 11:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do one of two thing. Try and work out the relationship with him, talk to him about what he have done, if he is honestly willing to change and never cheat again stay with him, however keep close eye on him, make sure he is sorry for what he had done and will definately not do it again.
Second thing you can do is talk with him, if he is not sorry and you strongly believe he will do it again. Leave him, find better man that can take care of you and stay faithful.
Cheating is wrong and should never be done in first place, if someone want to mess around they need stay single so no one is hurting in the process.
2007-01-08 12:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you don't deserve that so yes I would dump him. My husband cheated on me for 10 months and I just found out about it a few months ago. You know what he wanted to go to counseling and work it out cause he loved me and we have been married for 11 years, guess what he has put his hands on me twice since then and I caught him in another lie. Don't end up like me get rid of him and never look back. You will find someone that will never betray you like that.
2007-01-08 11:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love him but he's hurting you and think about what it will be like later on if you continue in a relationship with this guy. Even if you talk it out with him and forgive him there will always be trust issues. Is this what you want?
2007-01-08 12:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by Angel_Face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously he doesn't like you as much as you like him. i would dump him and look at other guys who will treat you a lot better. you should be able to find someone else who you like as much. or make him jealous, flirt with other guys whatever it takes and see if he notices. then if he doesn't dump him
2007-01-08 12:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by caridio_17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you do need help.......if he cheats NOW, what kind of future do you think you would have? get out now.....your heart will heal and you will find a good person who loves you back. leopards do not change their spots....once a cheater.....always a cheater. good friends husband cheated on her on their HONEYMOON....and continued to do so for 14 years.....she cheats on him now to get even....what a life?? in public they seem like the perfect married couple....in reality....they are both unhappy and look for love in all the wrong places! i could go on....but you get the message..........GET OUT NOW......
2007-01-08 12:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by STARZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg!! he obviously doesnt love u,he`s cheating on u!! u deserve a better guy than him,dump him!
2007-01-08 11:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by ‹з Mae ε› 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to dump him or do you like him sleeping with some other girl???
2007-01-08 12:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by FML 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel as if you do it once you do it again but everyone needs a second chance. and you say you love him so why wouldnt you. just know that at any point anything can happen and you can have full trust in him and he has to gain your trust back.
2007-01-08 12:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by ms. williams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend is cheating on you,DUMP him.It would be cheaper to leave him now!!! Divorce cost money and would be a big depressing hassle!!!Why would you even want to be with someone who cant respect you??
2007-01-08 12:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by reikigirl8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋