Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

I finally told my bf that i liked his best friend and he got mad and asked if he should be worried and I told him that i didnt know and i told him that after they left from my house that his best friend liked me and i had to tell him all the secrets that i was keeping from him but he told me that he could not tell me some secrets that was about me. And he said that he was sorry that he coudnt tell me but i told him that he wasn't and i hope that we could work it out.

2007-01-07 11:55:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i love my bf t is just he wants to have sex and i dont
i tried to do it but i couldnt and i told him i dunna why i cant
he always talks about it and pushes me to and i once felt like he is going to hit me but i started cryin so he stopped
and i keep cryng for hours cuz i dont want to lose him i love him so much
we r together since 1 year
and plz nobody tells me to leave him cuz i cant and i know he cant leave too
and i could see that

2007-01-07 11:54:30 · 39 answers · asked by aha i wanna know 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm 18 and my girlfriend is 17. I have a feeling she's lying about her sexual past. I mean, she's told me that the most she has ever done is give 1 guy a handjob 1 time. But when we started going out, she was quick to give me basically anything but sex. (I probably could have done that too if I wanted to). And she is the one that wants to do these things, i'm not asking her to.

So it's a little weird to go from her saying she hasn't really done much before, to being quick to get in my pants.

How do I know what she has done in the past? Because I have a feeling she's not telling me something.

2007-01-07 11:53:34 · 11 answers · asked by BMD 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

always tell us girls that they love us and want to be with us and then go cheat with the first thing that comes along ?

2007-01-07 11:53:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 13 years old, but I'll be 14 in march. Is a 15 year old guy too old for me?

2007-01-07 11:52:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When guys say "they'll call you" why do they take forever to do it? It drives me crazy.

2007-01-07 11:52:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I met this REALLY attractive guy while out with friends over the weekend.......physically he is EXACTLY my type. So we got to talking a flirting and he has an amazing personality and we got along great. So we exchanged numbers and screen names, and today I was chatting with him online when I realized I never asked how old he was. Turns out he's 32. I'm 19, 20 in about a month. Do you think thats too much of an age difference. I'm pretty sure my friends and family would think it was odd, and might have a problem with it. But I REALLY like him! What do you think?

And yes, he does know how old I am, and doesnt have a problem with it.

2007-01-07 11:52:29 · 8 answers · asked by xosunshinexo63 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 11:52:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm just tired giving ideas to my husband, we can do this, we can do that... 5 years together havent buy a house havent buy a car, havent buy a table!, only this computer that HE bougth. I buy my piano.
HE always in financial problems, and I pay what I have to pay some of the rent, my food, my clothing, my transportation. If i drive his car i have to pay him too cause he always complain about the money.
I gave him thousand ideas how to fix our financial problems and I told him if we dont do this... this will happend , AND yes HAppend! but he still never listen to me....
HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP
I have my own money but I cannot keep giving money, either I dont want to support him, he put me in a bad situation with my legal paper work, other words HE never ask INS for me to stay in USA .
so for them I dont exist yet . i am not permit to work. Im tired , Im so happy with him but he looks like is not intrested in the marriegue.

2007-01-07 11:51:38 · 13 answers · asked by JUST ME 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-07 11:51:04 · 11 answers · asked by Kevin T 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has a female friend who he hangs out with about once a week. She used to have feelings for him, but he talked to her about it and she stopped. I know that my boyfriend does not have romantic feelings for this girl nor did he ever. I also know that she does not like him anymore (she has moved on and likes someone else, now).

However, every time I know that he's hanging out with this other girl, I get this horrible, "He's cheating on me"-feeling in my stomach. I know for a fact that he isn't, but I still get this miserable, jealous, insecure feeling when ever I think about them just hanging out, together.

Can anyone give me tips on this? How can I go about to change this jealous feeling? I've felt this way for almost a year, now.

2007-01-07 11:51:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really thought that we had a special relationship, but then I find out that he doesn't love me, or he has possible someone else. but why can't he just be honest with me instead of playing me for a fool? and they wonder why some woman turn lesbian.. geezzz..

2007-01-07 11:50:41 · 11 answers · asked by Spirit 5 in Singles & Dating

We have a 7 year old daughter together the ex and I. I watch her 5 days a week thurs thru Mon. How ever my ex drinks to much and when she does she terrorizes my family how do I stop it?

2007-01-07 11:50:11 · 15 answers · asked by priflex2002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i went to my mom and said i don't think i am close to my father and that i need more emotional support and i brought up a time where i told my grandparents i was abuse physicaly and mentely and sexualy because i tried to have my grandparents contact my aunt so i ciuld live with her behind my mothers back i am not allowed to have any contact with my dads side of the family i told my mom that i was upset because i was intimidated for my whole life and she screamed at me and said that is her decision and she got more mad and i tried to stop the talk and i was so scared to talk i cried my eyes out while she baggered me like a hardend criminal for 2hours and she always deneys i was ever abused she even lets her husband mistreate me it seems like she wiould rather an abuseive man rather then to see me live a happy normal life

2007-01-07 11:49:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-07 11:49:34 · 12 answers · asked by dodgecharger6901 1 in Singles & Dating

hey i have been having a crush on this guy colin who only likes blonde preppy cheerleaders !!!!

should i change myself so tht he will like me or should i move on ???

2007-01-07 11:49:23 · 30 answers · asked by brandicharbo 2 in Singles & Dating

where you're going and who with and why you're going etc?

2007-01-07 11:49:14 · 5 answers · asked by coz_6 1 in Singles & Dating

me and Laura harve decided that when we get married we would like to have our wedding on the beach, I love the idea, thing is we dont want it to be religous at all if we can get away with it, its just how we feel so I am wondering if we have to have a preist or someone religous deliver our volws or what other options we would have...eg a JP or someone like that....options and opinions please...

Mitch

note: we're in Australia

2007-01-07 11:49:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

a girl living in my flat and studying in the college in uk.i am from india and she is from argentina.We've been living here since 4 months and there are other students as well.So from some weeks i feel that i began to start loving her as she is nice and cute.But i havent told her yet.I start caring her so much.2 Weeks ago she fell ill and i used to start going to her room asking about her before going her and when i come back from work.Started making meal for her.Last week she went to some place for visit and when she came she was missing her family as the whole trip went wrong .When i went to her room, She started crying and she cried alot,i tried to soothe, then i went with to kitchen and made pizza for her , then we watched a picture with together in her room.She forbade to tel others As her study burden is more than last few weeks so i started making meal for her now but she forbid me to do so, like she dont want me to take her extra care. So should i tell her and continue or stop

2007-01-07 11:48:16 · 5 answers · asked by Shahmeer 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 11:48:13 · 3 answers · asked by Des C 1 in Weddings

hey well im in love with my 1st cousin and he doest even no and last nite he told me that he likes my bestfriend and i got jelouse and angry and she likes him too and if they get together and im gonna be so angry even tho its my cousin i want him to be my boyfriend i no its rong but i love him and should i ask him out

2007-01-07 11:48:07 · 13 answers · asked by xx_tiff_xx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hey. i like this girl at my school. we're kinda friends and i like her, but i dont think she likes me like that. i've been to shy to ask her out for almost 2 years. what do i do? helpful answers please

2007-01-07 11:47:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do ?
when i try to talk to him about he get's all mad and starts screamin and saying he dont need to be with a girl that dont trust him

but he had sex with her about two miles from my house and i seen him and her kissing

what should i do ?

2007-01-07 11:47:42 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What problems you might face if not married?

2007-01-07 11:47:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a lot of men hit on me and tell me I'm attractive and sexy and they want to go out with me, but they never want to be my boyfriend (unless they are totally clingly stalker types).

I've been in many situations where men have pursued me or shown interest in me (for years), then when I give them a chance all they want is sex and not a relationship with me. One would think that if a guy is after you for years he would want to pursue something more then just sex, (Why put in so much effort for so long?)

So what is wrong with me that I can't get a guy to get beyond the sex part? Am I just attracting the guys who want the chase and then once they've gotten that far they have to move on to someone else?

I'm college educated, have a decent job; pay my own bills, have a great sense of humor; I love video games, I am a bit of a tomboy, but very feminine. I don't ask for anything other then companionship and love, I don't even mind paying for dinner now and again....

2007-01-07 11:46:45 · 20 answers · asked by Quest4questions 6 in Singles & Dating

It was my birthday on Saturday and my **** of a partner had not made much off an effort. He went shopping supposedly last week with our daughter to get my gift. Then when I went shopping for clothes he took them from me and said they could be for my birthday and he paid. So what had he down all day with my daughter, got a card and clothes for himself. Then he went out another day to get his car fixed and said he was getting more stuff. Later found out he went a detour and got new designer trousers for himself .Last day before my birthday with our daughter he stopped at each shop with her jumping in to the shops to get candles, paper etc with me hanging about outside. He told me later in the night that people were coming for my birthday and I asked did he have any food in for them he said no and I said you can't do that and he said its no big deal. I was pi**ed off. I always make a big effort for him. Not spoke for 3 days should I keep ignoring him, kill him or make no effort for his

2007-01-07 11:46:43 · 39 answers · asked by samporter1968 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is she planning a breakup? Thanks!

2007-01-07 11:46:41 · 11 answers · asked by alsd12345678 1 in Singles & Dating

I am talking traditional no cheating others' needs are just as important as yours type marraige? I think many enjoy a good wedding, and I think many "mean" to have a good marriage but cell phones, internet and IM's are ruining the idea of ever after? Do people get married to not be alone? or to have a better material life? What about 2nd marriages? Do you try it again to "get it right"? Or was it to not be alone?
I know many questions in one but hey we lose 5 points w/each individual questions?......

2007-01-07 11:46:21 · 22 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

whenever my boyfriend goes out with his friends he says "i don't think i'll be seeing you today" when he knows he won't, so why bother saying 'i don't think' when he really knows that he won't? and that's EVERYTIME! it's starting to get annoying.

2007-01-07 11:45:52 · 2 answers · asked by T-NEE 3 in Singles & Dating

My father-in-law has been living with us for 2 years. He has a job that earns very little money, therefore, he can't afford rent on his own place. I suggested to my husband that he could have a roommate or rent a bedroom at a home.
My husband and I have been married for 10 years and it seems that we always have someone living with us. I just want some time to ourselves.
Am I too cold hearted?

2007-01-07 11:45:10 · 17 answers · asked by Gfrog123 2 in Family