Family & Relationships - 7 January 2007

I'm getting married and I have a maid of honor and 6 bridesmaids. My fiancee has his best man and 9 groomsmen and so we obviously have a discrepancy in the number of bridesmaids to groomsmen. My question is what do I do with the extra groomsmen in the church and in the reception?

2007-01-07 12:10:15 · 11 answers · asked by Rosie 1 in Weddings

My brother plays Maple Story(PC) and now, my dad would let us play it because he plays too much everyday. I think he's reached his patience limit because he let my brother play like, all day and told him to take little breaks and stuff. My brother wants a laptop and now, my dad's kinda forcing us to buy it because he also needs time on the computer, So, the point is, (my dad asked this) What can he do? My brother really wantes to play Maple Story but my dad says he needs to buy the laptop to play it. My brother doesn't feel any guilt that he played over his limits and whines that he should play longer .

2007-01-07 12:09:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He didn't want to live the remaining years of his life with her cause he said he loved her but wasn't IN LOVE with her like it should be.He met me while married, and he moved out, then divorced her 8 months later. Problem is I ask him where our relationship was going and he said something that hurt my feelings. He said" I left her ,sold my house and changed my whole life didn't I? Point is, I never ask him to leave her or divorce her but I do love him dearly but every since he said that I've been pulling away from him slowly and realizing I made a mistake. How do I correct this???? Its a very delicate situation. His ex wife had an affair 2 years before I came into the picture also. I know I shpuldn't have started our romance but he needed me at the time and I needed him also. It wasn't just a LUST thing. Help?

2007-01-07 12:09:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter and son-n-law just gave birth to their 2nd child. They are great parents. My daughter relies a lot on her PC for information, she is in several chat rooms with other young mothers, along with support groups, updates on child care, etc. A lot has changed sense we had our children, new discoveries, toys, interventions, etc. I enjoy learning all the new approaches, and respect my daughters judgement and her decisions concerning her children. However her mother-n-law does not. This is creating problems all the way around. Any suggestions on how she can get her mother-n-law to understand that she is the mother and the one who calls the shots concerning her children without being aggressive, or rude. Thus causing even more problems. All suggestions welcome.

2007-01-07 12:08:57 · 12 answers · asked by mo 5 in Family

2007-01-07 12:08:53 · 9 answers · asked by rn 1 in Friends

I think i'm pretty attractive, but no one likes me that i know of, and I really want a new boyfriend. What do guys like in girls?

2007-01-07 12:08:48 · 14 answers · asked by marie73 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 12:08:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 12:08:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 12:08:14 · 6 answers · asked by Ac77 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend is graduating from high school and we were pretty close but the past 8 months have pretty much avoided each other what would you think if you ex-girlfriend gave you a card for graduation with a note inside thanking you for everything you did and that you're a really great guy and then say she will miss you alot and there will always be apart of her that will love you. should i leave that part out or is there another way to say it. Please any advice will help.

2007-01-07 12:07:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Gf and I have been dating for about two years on and off. She is a year older then me and when she went off to college we decided to break up, however it was a real heartache she just needed to figure out herself in college. After being young and neive I called begging for her back during the first month of that year. It did not budge and I had a broken heart. She constantly told me she wanted to be friends so we talked and hooked up everytime we got together and acted like a couple. We started to officially be bf gf again that summer and this year when I went off to college we decided to break up again. However we still talked everyday and treated each other like a bf gf. Now after winter break she tells me she wants to take sometime off to focus on her school work and handle a underage drinking citation without her parents knowing..She tells me she is stressed out and needs space to get her business straight. We still both love and care for each other....

2007-01-07 12:07:51 · 2 answers · asked by Nustche 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months, and I really do love her.
I am 18 and a HS Grad, and she is 17 and is a Junior in HS.

She wants to spend everyday with me, from the time I wake up until her curfew. She stopped hanging out with her friends a few months after we started dating, and I really get no time to myself anymore. I am in a band, and she always wants to tag along to practice and gets mad at me when we have a closed practice, and also tries to tag along with me @ work. [I deliver pizza] I've asked for my space plenty of times, and I really don't think I can take much more unless I get my space. Is this unhealthy for our relationship, and any advice on what I can do would be great.

2007-01-07 12:07:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean do you feed them, do they sit and get a favor or do they work? I need to know for my headcount for the restaurant.

2007-01-07 12:06:33 · 15 answers · asked by amor1954 2 in Weddings

i called my friend/crush wth my other friend and we talked for a couple minutes but thne he hung up cuz we were being really weird. i wanted to talk to him about how we both like eachother so should i call him back when my friend leaves?

2007-01-07 12:05:53 · 6 answers · asked by Brianna T 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont know what i should talk about with him. and i dont wanna loose him
any one have any ideas and what guys like to talk about?

2007-01-07 12:05:36 · 9 answers · asked by anniex0babe 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a very "keep to myself" type of person, and a few months ago I shared what I was thinking about as a career with one of my friends, this was something that I rarely do, with anyone, even her and also something I hadn't discussed with anyone; we talked for about an hour. A few days ago she acted as though it never happened and she asked me what I was thinking of pursuing after high school, and kept saying "you don't have any idea", "you don't think about it, Melanie". I was HIGHLY offended by this, evidently she doesn't care and doesn't remember. She always wants me to share things with her, and she doesn't even remember what we talk about? I don't think I can overlook this? Does anyone have any suggestions on how I should handle this disappointment in our friendship???

2007-01-07 12:03:45 · 3 answers · asked by Jolly! 1 in Friends

Ok heres the deal....Im only 28, but my boobs, after three kids sag terribly. Im a 36 dd right now, and im wondering in a mans point of view, which is better;

1. Keep them as they are?

2. Implants and a breast lift?

3. Just breast lift?

4. Breast reduction?
I kid around that my boobs are depressed...lol they always look at the floor...I cant fit into clothing right.

Do guys mind the scarring that would take place with the lift or reduction?

Or would you rather them be real, whether they sag or not?

2007-01-07 12:03:41 · 10 answers · asked by sifford844 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this boy, but I dont know how to tell if a boy likes you. He kept on staring at me so I thought that might be s sighn, but im not really sure!

2007-01-07 12:03:09 · 12 answers · asked by Punk.Rocker;;//music[freak] 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 12:03:08 · 8 answers · asked by step b 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-01-07 12:03:08 · 6 answers · asked by Zickorabia 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-07 12:01:37 · 26 answers · asked by Green Tea 1 in Singles & Dating

she feels like i dont care about her, but i really do its just that things have been a little stressful in both of our lives and its we havent been treating each other the way we usually do. i am a junior in high school and i am want to know what you think i should do?

2007-01-07 12:01:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what are ways to easily cool their jets, anyone good at this stuff?

2007-01-07 12:00:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Please give your age and relationship status(Divorced, single,ect)

2007-01-07 12:00:28 · 17 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

We've done emails and some phone calls, then I received an email saying he is "feeling funky," it's not me, and he needs to be incommunicado for a while. That was 2 weeks ago. I haven't contacted him. I assume it is over? This all sounds flaky. He doesn't have a job and I think his parents might give him money (he's 37). I think I know the answer to my question.

2007-01-07 11:59:24 · 14 answers · asked by Daphne G 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom and I are really close but then I had to move away to another state and she now spends 6 months a year in a warmer climate. We always did everything together and now we are lucky to see each other twice a year. This really makes me sad and I cry often to think that I can't see her and hang out when we want. I just feel like moving to where she is but that is not possible.

2007-01-07 11:59:24 · 8 answers · asked by tzero6t1 1 in Family

if you read my last questions u will know but my boyfriend called and i told him he was treating me like **** and i asked him if he wanted to still eb with me plz go back and read and help he hasnt said he was sorry or anything should i still leave him or just talk to him bout it

2007-01-07 11:59:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is what he does with space

When we talk he has his body facing me and sometimes he'll come and move closer when he's talking.By closer i mean next to me. Even if he is talking to someone else he will stand next to me.

This is what he does with eyes

He'll walk past and look me in the eyes as he does sometimes.Sometimes if i look at him he'll look down and away.
And other times he won't look away.
If i look at him he looks at me and doesn't break eye contact until a few seconds.

some other things he does-
.smiles and looks me in the eyes
.makes an effort to talk to me
.laughs at stuff i say
.involves me in conversations with other people

then some days he won't talk all that much

does it sound like he likes me

2007-01-07 11:58:58 · 14 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriends best friend likes me and wants to go to the movies what should i do i like his friend but i love my boyfriend?????

2007-01-07 11:57:09 · 21 answers · asked by jackie 2 in Singles & Dating

give me five reasons why you think u r sexy? what makes you better than other girl?

2007-01-07 11:55:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating